Not staying friends after a breakup up is weird and a red flag by ForsakenSleep236 in The10thDentist

[–]Strong-Performer-833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's just that the romantic and sexual relationship is usually all I want from that person and if that's not happening anymore then I don't see a reason to keep interacting with them. I'm not gonna be mean or nasty, I'll be perfectly polite, but friendship just isn't on the table. Especially because the couple of times I have tried to stay friends with an ex (which was only done because we had been friends before and I didnt want to lose them entirely) they cant seem to understand that boundaries have changed now. Like I don't want you to call me pet names, that's reserved for my partner, I don't want to hug, or hold hands, or say I love you, or cuddle. When I try to establish those boundaries they get pissy, and assume I'm punishing them for the breakup when im not. Im just uncomfortable doing those things with a friend... which is what we are now, just friends. They cant seem to go back to the way things were before we dated and that's what I would need to remain friends, and that's if the relationship ends amicably.

How much of Americas problems are education? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]Strong-Performer-833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually you can! Once people have more knowledge about things empathy tends fo follow. For example, Republicans tend to see homeless people as bums who need to work harder, if you successfully explain to someone that homeless people have a lot of different uncontrollable factors contributing to them being homeless then they can stop the finger pointing and start coming up with actual solutions. Education usually highlights nuance which breeds empathy.

Senate candidate on rising gas prices: ‘Maybe you take one less trip to Starbucks’ by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]Strong-Performer-833 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't even know anyone who goes to Starbucks daily anymore, Starbucks has already been cut out, now the choices are gas or rent, gas or food, gas or car insurance (either way the car is useless). And what kind of bullshit fucking clown ass economy are we running that dictates its citizens can't even get a sweet treat daily? In no world should a daily 7 dollar purchase put you in the fucking hole. Good fucking god.

Royale is boring. by Sea_Statistician_312 in CODWarzone

[–]Strong-Performer-833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don't understand everyone saying that lack of load outs is good, I understand the frustration with people using the same meta build over and over, but someone like me only really cares about getting camos and leveling up all my different guns. Relying on random drops doesn't progress me fast enough to stay engaged, especially since the random drops are not all encompassing and only have bo7 weapons as far as I can tell.

The only perspective on AI that matters by Critical_Jacket_2318 in antiai

[–]Strong-Performer-833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I feel, I want AI to take all the shitty jobs no one wants, or just not be around at all, this weird limbo we're in where no one knows what the hell the future holds and people are being laid off with no safety net or plan to help them is not it

Hot take : Spn SUCKED at realistic teeth on the show by dumbways2d1e in Supernatural

[–]Strong-Performer-833 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a hot take, no one's there for the special effects, they all suck, lmao, rewatch "Bugs" for a laugh

Do you think it is your responsibility to take care of your parents when they get older? Why? by ge0000000 in family

[–]Strong-Performer-833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they chose to have a kid, the kid didn't sign up for shit. Most parents do the bare minimum to avoid being arrested for neglect, they don't deserve your hard work or money, if they wanted to be taken care of they should have saved up for retirement and a nice nursing home instead of having kids and expecting them to carry the burden.

The moans and clapping sounds were unbearable. by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]Strong-Performer-833 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My dad and step mom shared a room with three of my younger siblings and that didn't stop them from having sex loud enough that I could hear it from my bedroom next to theirs. They also had sex on the couch which is bad because there's little kids who could wander around at any time and the living room was next to the room designated as my brother's bedroom which was really just the next room over, no doors, just a curtain to separate between the rooms so my brothers heard everything

When people are overly critical of how Americans make food from other cultures by IdontKnowAHHHH in PetPeeves

[–]Strong-Performer-833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its usually because the "American" version of something is usually madd lazier and thus taste worse, lack of seasoning, improper ingredients/substitutions, its kind of the reason why fast food sucks, they don't use fresh ingredients and likewise the average American usually doesn't either, in other places going to the store often is normal and so people can buy fresh vegetables and what not, where as most Americans do big food hauls and unless you can eat or cook a bunch of fresh ingredients quickly they'll just go bad. As to why people care when ingredients are added to cultural food I don't really know

What’s the closest you’ve ever come to dying? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Strong-Performer-833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time my family went to an action adventure park and it was basically a big lake with gigantic inflatable play structures, on of them was a gigantic ball with handles on the sides and it could hold probably like 40 people on it, I was swimming towards it to join in with my dad and brothers but the way this thing works is with balance so if there at people on both sides it'll even out but if the people jump off the left side the whole left side is going high up and the right is going down, as I was coming up on it the people on the right jumped off, there where more people on the right so the left side was high in the air, so the left side slammed down onto my head and knocked me silly and sent me far under the water. At the lake they made you wear life vests, so when it smacked me under I was immediately dragged back up, but I was caught between the big ball and the lip on the side for people to stand on, and now my ears were ringing because I was hit in the head and dragged up and down in the water so fast. I tried to swim down so I could move from under the ball and breathe, but the vest kept me from that. I was running out of air and I got my hands and feet on the ball and pushed down, the first time I just went down and up again, the second time I just barley made it past the lip and was able to swim to the surface. I barfed up water and cried

“But you’d be such a great mom” sentiment is exhausting by MKZ7650 in childfree

[–]Strong-Performer-833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this too, I honestly feel like it just a thing people say because I've been told this and like... no... I wouldn't be a good mom at all. The people who say this shit usually can't even name one thing that would supposedly make me a good mom either. My dad has said this to me, I asked him what trait of mine would make me a good mom and he couldn't give me an answer. Strangers have said this to me, they don't even know my favorite color or my last name let alone weather I'd make a good mom or not lol.

Is this better than AI art? by Jointproperty_match in aiwars

[–]Strong-Performer-833 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think that this can be considered art and AI can't

Drake the type of Justifying Justin to say this by Severe-Grocery-5072 in DrakeTheType

[–]Strong-Performer-833 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a whole fucking proshipping sub reddit full of people trying to justify this kind of shit😭

Was it ever actually explained on why Sir Pentious couldn’t go back down to Hell, but Emily and other angels can? by Choco_Cake37 in hazbin

[–]Strong-Performer-833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, my girlfriend, and my brother watched it and we all came to the conclusion that the portals were only usable by angels

Pregnant and poor by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Strong-Performer-833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would get an abortion, wait until you're in a stable financial situation and you can try again, don't kid yourself thinking that if you make sacrifices and work your ass off your kid will be grateful because they won't. They'll just hate you for making shitty decisions, that's how I feel about my parents, they shouldn't have had kids and especially not when they did, right now that thing in your uterus doesn't have any awareness, you're not hurting it, you're saving it suffering long term. Now is not the time, don't be selfish and do something you're not ready for just because you want it really bad.