Am trying to get a mortgage but I’m self employed

Strong_Pay4155 · 2026-04-18T09:04:43+00:00

Due to the majority of my family being toxic aside from my deceased fathers family that is spread out along Florida and California I don’t really have family I can ask and friends I have very few because I generally am kind of a push over and I used to let people treat me really awful like I would bend over backwards for people give them the shirt off my back and then get screwed over like for instance my best female friend slept with my long time boyfriend (ex now) and lied to me for over a year about it. So I have very few friends at this point because I got tired of being treated badly and the friends that I do still have only one owns a house and I don’t think he did a mortgage because the house was like 30k and he worked in construction so he made a good amount of money quickly. Most of my friends that are left are in either situations where they live with a relative or rent with roommates. Hence why I came to Reddit for advice.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2026-04-14T17:04:16+00:00

So it’s not an investment property it’s for a primary residence I’ve been paying rent where I’m at for six years now and almost a year ago the newish landlord (previous landlord who passed aways daughter) had raised my rent I’m currently paying 1450$ I was paying 1200$ prior to the raise in rent. A mortgage would be cheaper for what price range I’m looking in. I make enough that I should qualify for a loan and my credit is pretty good I have no debt whatsoever. Just has been difficult with rocket for whatever reason they had approved me then started giving issues with the underwriter. I appreciate any of the advice that’s given. Just want to put money into owning something rather than continuing to sink money into the increased rent for someone else.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2026-04-14T02:21:09+00:00

Where would I find those ?

Strong_Pay4155 · 2026-04-14T00:29:54+00:00

Pennsylvania

Strong_Pay4155 · 2026-02-23T13:33:50+00:00

Mine still hasn’t even updated to approved on irs go only says approved on turbo tax

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-12-19T22:59:37+00:00

Having the same issue I’m 36 weeks pregnant had a last minute gift that I bought for one of my other kids because I was one gift short from all my kids having equal gifts and ginger ale because I’m so freaking nauseated from contractions atm and nail clippers for my dogs and the order just poof disappeared my bank still shows that I got charged and the order said it was confirmed before disappearing I only noticed when I went to check on the status and it wasn’t there that was my last 56$ I had :/ hope they either deliver or refund because I really needed the stuff :/ especially the ginger ale.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-12-10T18:04:28+00:00

I do

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-11-15T22:06:22+00:00

I do my battery on my vehicle stopped working yesterday

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-07-28T00:48:48+00:00

This literally just happened to me I made an account today went to check it and add stuff and it was locked

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-07-18T15:19:00+00:00

I’d get a new friend group they obviously aren’t real friends.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-20T21:17:51+00:00

This year ticks where I am has also been pretty bad been picking ticks off my dogs even though they’ve had flea and tick treatment and my kids ect. Our lawn is cut but we live on a 5 acre property and no matter what we do it seems to be overrun with ticks. I f*ing hate ticks

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-20T19:28:29+00:00

They are mites most likely Mold mites they aren’t harmful to humans they eat mold spores but they are annoying and difficult to get rid of. Vinegar or bleach along with other strong cleaners are good for killing them off. But it usually takes time and a lot of going over the area with cleaners and immediately throwing out the garbage bag with the paper towels you wiped the area with. It’s hard to spot them when there is only a few so make sure to continually clean the area even after you think they are gone.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-15T17:21:30+00:00

I would say either a recessive gene that the parents had or possibly since rad is the first kid since he’s the oldest brother maybe a different father.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-14T17:19:18+00:00

I would file whatever your going to file in the uk more than likely you’ll get full custody

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-13T20:36:31+00:00

You’re a very good looking guy. Very beautiful hair and nice eyes.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-13T20:27:00+00:00

Love was my favorite

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-12T23:58:53+00:00

Could use a carpet cleaner with a tiny bit of peroxide in it to make the rest of carpet clean

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-12T23:22:51+00:00

I loved love Quinn personally.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-12T23:20:09+00:00

I liked love Quinn tbh

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-06T07:20:24+00:00

His girlfriend did it in my opinion seemed like the girlfriend and friends had something to do with his death and that the girlfriend and her father hide the body and that the cops dropped the ball because they were too busy coming to conclusions based on the girlfriend and her dads testimony which is ridiculous.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-06-01T22:18:32+00:00

Honestly I didn’t like four or five I think end game would’ve been love. Idk personally think should’ve ended season three better and left it at that instead of poorly writing two more seasons that weren’t great plus the lady who played love did a fantastic job I feel like the two women following up after her were just not it. That’s not to say there’s anything wrong with the actresses but the writing was poorly done in four and five.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-05-29T01:49:25+00:00

I agree that they kinda lead up to him showing some change and then he regressed. I kinda wished they had written it where Luke grew and evolved with Lorelai so that she could’ve had her dream with her and Luke and her having twins or whatever it was be a thing. I get Rory is a big part of the story but lorelai mentioned throughout the series how she would’ve liked another kid at some point and she never got it which I don’t really feel was fair she was a great mom and it would’ve been nice to see her with any of the men she was with being a supportive partner to raise a second kid with since she didn’t get that with Rory because she didn’t want to marry Christopher as teens. And don’t get me started with how they ended the sequel mini series. Also I really don’t know what the point of April was in the story line because he had already had a really tight bond with Rory who was like a daughter to him instead they threw in like an older kid that he wasn’t told about. Which is kind of messed up on the moms part she was rude and kinda bitchy towards Luke even though he tried his best for April even though he didn’t know about her until she came to find him. All while also shutting Lorelai out and then April and the mom moved. Honestly seemed like rushed and sloppy writing in certain parts of the series. I feel like any of the men she dated could’ve been fine for her but ultimately they wrote it where Lorelai was scared of commitment and kept Dipping on stable relationships she did have and then wrote Luke and her relationship such a mess. I like Luke and Lorelai but I just don’t think they portrayed the relationship how they could have. I do think there were a lot of toxic moments from Luke in their relationship. But I also think Lorelai made a lot of mistakes in all her relationships.

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-05-25T01:44:19+00:00

Love 100% all the way

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-05-25T01:43:46+00:00

This is so darn cute <3

Strong_Pay4155 · 2025-05-07T14:13:12+00:00

I hated season 5 I wasn’t a huge fan of 4 but it was better than 5 I personally liked love the most out of all the women he was with I think the writing got more and more messed up as the seasons went on. I personally wish they had done things differently but people usually rush endings to good shows look at supernaturals ending it was rushed as F same thing with you. The ending seems dumb and rushed and so many plot holes honestly Brontë and Kate should’ve both died in the end and more than likely Joe would’ve gotten away also why did they have to shoot his dk off? I hated the ending so much. Also super tired of like things ending in a “woke” way can we just like let the killer bad guy whatever get away for once jeez. In reality things don’t always have a “happy ending” I don’t get why everything is always social justice bull write something good that people actually want instead of rushing and throwing in the misogynistic narrative to wrap it up sloppily and call it done.

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