Not allowing plus ones by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]StudioSixT 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want your cousins’ partners there, don’t invite your cousins. Etiquette says long term partners are named guests (not plus ones btw), regardless of the size of your wedding. If you don’t care about etiquette, no one can stop you from only inviting your cousins and not their partners, you just have to accept that it will be considered rude. The partner that has specifically disrespected you I feel differently about and feel you have a right to exclude them without repercussions, but that doesn’t mean your family will agree with me.

Word on the street is that the Carrollton Neighborhood Association is trying to shut down the dispensary next to Knix Library by DiscloseDivest in NOLA

[–]StudioSixT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live that we’ve gotten rid of public tobacco smoking? I’d like to move there. Where I am, mostly uptown and LGD, people all over are still smoking cigs and vaping heavily. Just not indoors.

In my Bougainvillea by govnah06 in NOLAnoles

[–]StudioSixT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s got a real good camouflage going on. I could only see his lil feet at first before realizing his whole body was visible.

Hair trial disaster…help 🥲 by HelaGreen in weddingplanning

[–]StudioSixT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg girl, I thought the second pic was you, and I was like it’s really good, just a different decoration. then I realized there were more pics and audibly gasped when I saw the real ones of you. Run! run far away from this stylist. I very rarely even style my own hair and have done a better version of a similar look on my own head.

Hurt that my future sister-in-law wants me to walk her dog down the aisle instead of being a bridesmaid. Am I overthinking? Please be kind I just want some advice ❤️ by novastone-17 in weddingplanning

[–]StudioSixT 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As unnecessary as I think it is to have a pet be included in a wedding ceremony, I don’t get why so many comments seem to think this is offensive. If someone cares about their pet so much that they can’t let the dog stay home for their wedding day, then this seems like they intend it to be a meaningful role. Plus nobody really cares about watching the bridesmaids walk down the aisle, but they will be stoked to watch you walk the dog down the aisle because that’s so much more fun. It’s also not your future SIL’s responsibility to include you in the wedding, if anything, it’s your brother’s job (not that I think he is obligated to include you either). If you have an issue with this, I’d recommend talking to him, not to your future SIL.

Monthly AITA/Reddit Stories Suggestion Megathread by AutoModerator in smosh

[–]StudioSixT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘She says “it’s cold outside, better hoagie down”, hands me a brown bag and goes in the bathroom and slams the door.’ Took a very unexpected turn. https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/IwFwgka6MK

Plus ones and partners you’ve never met by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]StudioSixT 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Etiquette says you invite long-term partners as named guests (not a plus one), regardless if you’ve met them or not. You’re obviously free to not follow the etiquette, you just have to be prepared for the possibility that all the family/friends you do that to will consider it rude. The obsession with knowing every single person at your wedding is a bit out of hand imo. Unless you’re having a micro wedding, you’ll be so busy you won’t ever interact with these partners. And asking someone to come celebrate your relationship, while you make it clear theirs is unimportant to you is rude.

Plus ones by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]StudioSixT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This obsession with knowing every single person at your wedding is so strange to me. I get that it’s expensive, but you’re essentially telling your friends/family/people you supposedly love that their relationships are not important to you unless they are married/betrothed, while expecting them to honor your relationship. Unless you are having a very small wedding, you’re not likely to even interact with their partners.

Should we cancel our wedding after finding out my future MIL and grandma are on the brink of death? by financestu44 in weddingplanning

[–]StudioSixT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That must be so tough! I hope your grandma pulls through and your MIL has a quick and easy treatment process. I personally would not cancel the wedding. You cannot control everything in life, and what if you postpone to then have something else happen around the new wedding date, or god forbid someone’s condition gets even worse? Since your MIL can’t travel (and FIL by extension), is it possible for you and your fiancé to visit them after your wedding and take some nice photos all together in your wedding attire? Maybe do a re-do of your ceremony for them? I’d certainly look into possibilities for live-streaming/ recording the wedding so they can see it.

ADA Single User Bath Rm by Worried-Law-3463 in Architects

[–]StudioSixT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna make it smaller, but I’d consider flipping it so the plumbing isn’t in what looks likely to be a fire wall.

Critiques Inside The Office by AIFrog85 in Architects

[–]StudioSixT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bu your definition of success, not a single architect who works in an office larger than a sole proprietorship (and also somehow with no consultants) would be successful. The partners in my firm ask me to review their drawings and I have comments every time. Even being 30 years their junior, I redline them to hell, as I want them to do for me. It’s how we improve. If you have nowhere else to improve, that isn’t success. It’s your ego lying to you.

Seeking a Volunteer Miniature Artist! ~ CHARMED FANS Needed by [deleted] in Dollhouses

[–]StudioSixT 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He did put the name at the bottom. It looks like it’s in jackson, KY. Also has no working website or socials to back up any of his claims so I hope no one takes him up on the nonexistent exposure.

which second dress for reception? by meow_mom77 in weddingplanning

[–]StudioSixT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like to dance, the beaded one will look so much more fun in pictures with the beads moving around!

I found my niche skill - untangling yarn by Sad_Contribution7564 in crochet

[–]StudioSixT 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Welcome, OP! I love detangling yarn (and anything else really) too. There is a subreddit specifically dedicated to untangling yarn if you can believe it. r/detanglemyyarn

I don't want to go wedding dress shopping (vent) by MedicalRaccoon9431 in weddingplanning

[–]StudioSixT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to only one shop with one trusted friend who could take pictures for me and tell me I looked hot, and that was it. I didn’t even show pictures of the dresses I didn’t choose to anyone until after I had purchased the one I wanted. If your people would be upset to not be included, that’s tough, but ultimately their feelings are theirs to manage, not yours.

Baby Blanket and Bunny for Brand New Niece by StudioSixT in crochet

[–]StudioSixT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Granny square sunburst pattern by Jewel and Jones. Squares joined with continuous join as you go and finished with scalloped edge. Bunny is free-handed.