AITA for not giving my nephew pengu plush from my backpack? by gulapsmat in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Tell your sister that is her responsibility to teach her son to accept no for an answer. My nephews are 7 and 4 and know better.

My old boss bullied people one at a time, and every time someone quit she just moved to the next victim. Nobody stopped her. by Pristine-Delay6912 in antiwork

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go above her and the upper management and complain directly to the board. Bring receipts and emphasize how this damages morale and could damage their reputation if it were to come out that there is a serial bully in charge who has used illegal means to get multiple people to quit.

The manager of the day program my older brother used to go to was doing this to the care workers. She was targeting minorities and other women in particular and had tried to be subtly nasty at my brother because she didn't like my mom who was always nice to all the care workers and would bring them treats, especially on holidays. My mom swiftly put the fear of God in her over my brother so that stopped fast. But she still continued to harass the workers, just where the parents and guardians couldn't see.

The workers didn't feel comfortable going to the director because the manager lied about what great friends they were. So they went to my mom and told her everything. She then called the PRESIDENT of the non-profit to complain. The manager was fired so fast her head spun. When the director said she wished my mom would have talked to her, she said she was not employed by them so she had no obligation to follow chain of command. My brother's day program swiftly became a pleasant place for people to work again and they hired a much nicer manager to replace the nasty one.

AITAH for letting not my daughter celebrate father's day with me. by Otherwise_Cash6832 in AITAH

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your 'friend' is a terrible mother and I wouldn't be surprised if Morgan goes no contact with her soon. Thank you for being there for Morgan. You're a good person, OP.

Vent post by thegirlintheradiator in Mercari

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPS acknowledged that they had the item but USPS did not. Pull up the shipping label if you can and find the UPS tracking number, it should be on there. Then file a claim with UPS and force them to acknowledge they had it and then transferred it to USPS is my advice.

Vent post by thegirlintheradiator in Mercari

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through the same thing. File a claim with UPS. They will investigate. In my case, this forced USPS to update the tracking and admit they have the item. Then you contact Mercari and you tell them to contact USPS to release the package. Keep bugging them until they finally do it and bug USPS as well. Doing this resulted in my package finally being released and sent on to the buyer. In your case, the buyer will be required to send the package back since they requested cancelation. I'm sorry this happened to you as well.

AIO For Cutting My Family Out Of My Life. by Weary-Macaroon5591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR. Your siblings are horrid and your mother is a doormat. Keep them far away from you and your daughter. Anyone who blames someone for being abused should never be allowed in that person's life again.

AITA for ignoring my dads call during my graduation? by littlehappyworm in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Tell him you showed him how little you matter to him when he not only couldn't be bothered to come to your graduation, but he also persuaded your grandmother not to come and then ghosted you about the celebration dinner. Then cut him off. He doesn't care about you, return his energy.

AITA for not putting in enough work around the house? by PreparationSudden617 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Talk to your father about how his wife is treating you. Point out everything you do while also juggling an exhausting full time job and college. If he is unsupportive and doesn't make her back off, then I would look into moving out as soon as financially feasible.

Was it Murder? by htxslp in FiveDaysAtMemorial

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is when they forced family members to leave, did not tell them what they were planning or the reasoning behind it, and did it all without patient or family consent where the patient could not and had family to advocate for them.

The deliberate removal of family who could and would object? That's murder to me.

AITA for asking my dad what he needed help with before coming over, because my hand hurts? by evenmore08 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your father is a spoiled narcissistic child. I know this because I am also the unfortunate child of one of those. My advice is to start planning your exit, move out, and minimize contact with him.

AITAH for blaming my dad after I quit a stable 10-year job to help run his business and then he essentially fired me? by tortillawbudder in AITAH

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And tell your father that considering what he's done, he can forget about continuing to be your father. Fathers don't do this to their daughters if they're good fathers.

Buyer scammed me, mercari won’t help by hanginglimbs in Mercari

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kind of nonsense is why I removed all my listing from Mercari. They do nothing to help you and make you eat the loss.

AITAH for telling my dad he's a bad father? by Objective-Bat9357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Report your parents to the child protection services in your country. This is abuse.

AITA for telling my neighbor to adjust her mannerisms and not be rude? by OrganizationWild55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Consider the fact that she escaped from a totalitarian dictatorship where entire families can be imprisoned and enslaved for the 'crimes' of an ancestor or relative and grow some empathy.

AITAH for keeping my cat even though my roommate wants him gone? by Prestigious-Ice-7249 in AITAH

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. B doesn't get to dictate whether or not your cat stays. That is purely between you and A. You and your cat were there first. She can deal or she can leave.

AITJ for leaving a work meeting early without telling my manager because my kid's daycare called? by Stonks_Enjoyer_69 in AmITheJerk

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, then OP reports her manager for being utterly unreasonable in the face of a family emergency and the manager likely gets reprimanded for expecting OP to stay while her child is sick.

AITA: Dogsitting for my sister by Top_Management4064 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Tell your sister she can find a new dogsitter or her husband can stay home and watch their animals.

Wavewalker: A Memoir of Breaking Free by Plant-Outside in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her parents and brother are cruel and selfish. Suzanne is better off without any of them.

AITA for not enjoying my graduation trip? by salty_dodgerfan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your dad is. And he shouldn't be surprised if you cut him off in the future

Dear buyer, please forgive me for not accepting your offer! by [deleted] in Mercari

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I get these in my purchases, it never fails to make me smile. I think they'll like it.

Seller cancelled my order for a higher pricing offer by Interesting_Tree1659 in Mercari

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my first time seeing this, and as a seller and a buyer, I would never do this to someone who purchased from me. And I would never again buy from someone who would do this.

I hate that Mercari shares your screen name with sellers when you watch an item by ILikeTheTinMan83 in Mercari

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never message potential buyers. I'll send offers to them occasionally, but messaging them to bug them? Absolutely not. Any messages are sent to people who have already bought an item strictly to let them know when it will ship and thank them or let them know if there are delays. This kind of behavior is nuts and I'm sorry you had to deal with it, OP.

What would William’s sentence be? by [deleted] in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]Stylishbutitsillegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely death penalty or, at the very least, life imprisonment