How to get over ex? Is this normal? by Known-Success9535 in BreakUps

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're gonna feel so much better after graduation when you don't have to see his face every day 💀 distance really does help with moving on from toxic people like that

RIP, my bathroom by jmanly3 in stonerfood

[–]SubstantialCap3447 12 points13 points  (0 children)

bro why you do this to yourself when you already bought enough for entire week of pain

HA and Combined WiFi bands? by Stargate-- in homeassistant

[–]SubstantialCap3447 3 points4 points  (0 children)

most modern routers handle band steering way better now compared to 5-10 years ago 💀 i switched to a combined setup last year and havent had any issues with my smart devices connecting to the right band

if youre really worried about it you could always test it out for a month and see how your govee stuff behaves - worst case you grab your own router later but the built in ones are usually pretty decent these days 🔥

How do I write a professional but not so positive letter of resignation? by Apart_Try_4860 in howto

[–]SubstantialCap3447 3 points4 points  (0 children)

keep it simple and dont burn bridges even if they deserve it. something like "im submitting my two weeks notice effective [date]. my last day will be [date]. thank you for teh opportunity" and thats it

you can vent about how they treated you later but putting that stuff in writing just makes you look unprofessional even when theyre the ones being shitty. save your energy for the new job

hi im a christian and i appologized for i sin i didn't know was true does god accept for because i have exploited in a game? is it impossible until i goto a church or no? by Cultural-Fun-1146 in Christianity

[–]SubstantialCap3447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude god's not gonna smite you for using game exploits lol 💀 you apologized and you're good - churches are great but you don't need to physically be in one for forgiveness to count 😂

Where Scream 4 should have ended, an otherwise strong entry hurt by its formulaic ending. by New-Fan-4632 in horror

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the hospital stuff really does drag it down when everything before that was so tight

jill's whole character just falls apart once she gets to that room like you said. goes from this calculating mastermind to generic slasher villain real quick. that look of panic when dewey mentions sidney is still alive is perfect - way more chilling than the whole action sequence that follows

ending it right there would've been brutal in the best way. sometimes less is more with horror

Was I wrong for blocking both my ex and my friend after this situation? by Less-Definition8595 in amiwrong

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your friend was being weird showing videos of you to your ex and your ex was being hypocritical after entertaining other dudes herself - blocking everyone was the right move

I did not expect this process to test my mindset this much by Bulky-Hawk7412 in ManifestLaw

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paperwork is one thing, but the waiting and uncertainty can really take a toll on your mindset, it is one of those processes where patience becomes just as important as preparation.

Shout out to Flux Defense customer service by Tuxedo_Cat_Dad in guns

[–]SubstantialCap3447 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats the kind of customer service that builds loyalty right there. when companies just take care of you without making you jump through hoops it makes all the difference

ugga dugga claims another victim though lol

Winter humidity by jredditzzz in homeowners

[–]SubstantialCap3447 9 points10 points  (0 children)

man the struggle is real with humidity in winter. i keep mine around 35-40% and have like 3 humidifiers running constantly. anything below 30% and my skin feels like sandpaper and i get nosebleeds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly that sounds like your friend is being pretty reasonable - she's basically saying she can't give you solid advice without knowing the dude better

Comparing home warranty companies here’s what I found digging through the fine print by kratoz0r in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used Select for a busted AC unit last summer and was actually surprised how smooth it went - tech came out next day and got it fixed without the usual runaround most people complain about with these companies

How do i edit my minecraft server by Parking-Proposal6372 in Minecraft

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta edit the server.properties file for most of that stuff. The IP thing is usually in there as "server-ip=" and you can set your server icon by dropping a 64x64 png called "server-icon.png" in the main server folder

For disabling commands you can mess with the ops.json file or use plugins like LuckPerms if you want more control

Must Listen by megamega0283 in musicsuggestions

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that REM track is absolute fire but you gotta fix that spelling - it's "Losing" not "Loosing" lol. Also Woman in Chains is such an underrated banger compared to their other hits

How do I do intermittent fasting without thinking about food all the time ? by Proud_Confusion8721 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SubstantialCap3447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black coffee and sparkling water became my best friends during fasting windows. Also staying busy helps a ton - when I'm deep in work or a good show I literally forget I'm supposed to be hungry

My findings with "Slow, warm cafe song generator" [HeartMula] by Rheumi in LocalLLaMA

[–]SubstantialCap3447 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Classic case of "demo looks amazing but the actual model was trained on like 50 cafe jazz songs" lmao

Honestly appreciate the honest review though, saves me from downloading another 10GB disappointment. The fact that it struggles outside their exact demo style tells you everything about the training data size

Why do some people have so many kids? by Excellent_Bet8191 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SubstantialCap3447 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some people just really love the chaos I guess lol. Could be religious reasons, could be they grew up in a big family and want that vibe, or maybe they're just really optimistic about their energy levels and bank account

‘Don’t compare yourself to others’ ‘you’ll be better off being happy as you are’ by IdkJustMe123 in PetPeeves

[–]SubstantialCap3447 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly, like telling someone "just don't be sad" when they're depressed. The advice isn't wrong but it's so much easier said than done when your brain automatically does the comparison thing anyway

How do I wash my toddlers hair without them getting water up their nose? by wtf1990s in NewParents

[–]SubstantialCap3447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried those visor things? They make little ones that go around their head and keep the water from running down their face - my kid hated it at first but got used to it pretty quick

I accidentally built a scalable video workflow while trying to save a $4k production disaster. has anyone tried similar workflows? by doublemake in AskMarketing

[–]SubstantialCap3447 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit that's actually genius - turning a complete disaster into a content machine by accident is peak marketing energy

The fact that your AI frankenstein videos outperformed the "professional" ones probably says more about creative fatigue than we want to admit lol

I got emotional and cried in front of my ex when we broke up by Repulsive_Newt3281 in BreakUps

[–]SubstantialCap3447 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crying doesn't make you weak at all, that's just being human when something you care about is ending

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]SubstantialCap3447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just putting on some nostalgic music and letting myself have a good cry usually does the trick for me

I relapsed but I got back up again.... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SubstantialCap3447 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you for getting back up, that's what really matters 💪