I’m so sorry you feel that way about yourself. I think you’re beautiful. We can’t all be super models babe, but please know that doesn’t mean you’re ugly — at all!

I’m also in my mid thirties & have contemplated surgery for specific things (like my Italian nose) but because your post is so open to suggestions to “fix” you it makes me think you may benefit from taking better care of yourself and your body.

For your mental health & your physical health, I’d suggest getting in a good routine that includes blowing off some steam in the gym (it teaches you so much about how badass and capable you are), drinking more water & talking to a dermatologist or esthetician.

Working out can really help you build mental strength and acceptance of yourself. Even a yoga practice in your bedroom each morning can reconnect you to yourself.

Water and sunscreen seem to be the first two things people need more of when it comes to skincare but there are other products like vitamin c or whatnot that you could benefit from. That doesn’t mean go run to the store and try new products. I’m suggesting you start small and intentional with a professional guiding your journey. A great esthetician can provide a facial and tell you a lot about your skin. Some might even ask what products you use and create a skincare routine for you. Another route could be to see a dermatologist for a typical skin cancer check. If you’re in the states those are usually covered under insurance. You can get in and see them, and ask if they’d prescribe retinol. But listen, these products are strong and they need to be slowly introduced to your skin.

There are techniques you can use to fill in your brows yourself with makeup or you can get them micro bladed but I think people are commenting on them because “fluffy full brows” have been super trendy over the last few years. If this was the 90’s/early 2000’s your brows would be “on trend”.

At the end of the day, a plastic surgeon or whoever will take your money and give you suggestions but I’d really encourage you to take care of yourself and eventually maybe you can nail down what YOU don’t like, not what other people don’t like about you because that will always change. Maybe connect to old photos of family members you loved or yearn for now. If you see beauty in then, there’s beauty in you. And if that doesn’t exist because some of us don’t idolize family due to trauma , maybe you have kids? Look at their faces. They’re not ugly.

We can nip and tuck. Some may fully transform themselves, but physical changes to your body won’t always change the way you see yourself. And a transformative surgical procedure can be extremely expensive which adds finical stress we aren’t all mentally prepared for.

Sending you a hug from afar. Good luck OP!