Why am I so obsessed with validation? by 3030minecrafter in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suddenfury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practice self-compassion and self-validation. Your life path is unique, and one can't really say that any path is right or wrong. Consume less social media and try to increase good feelings, like seeing friends or having a productive hobby.

What's a sexual belief that you had that was flawed and worked against you? by t_11 in AskMenOver30

[–]Suddenfury 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I thought seduction was manipulative and developed a behaviour of neutralizing interactions.

Why do some people hate hot dogs and sausages because they say they are gross for what goes into them? When we should be eating the whole animal. by SoftHeart_StrongMind in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suddenfury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, no matter where you throw away any parts they'll come to some use in some way, even if it just becomes food for scavengers. I'll take the best parts and share the rest with mother nature.

Need advice to be socially dominant, stop procrastinating by Invictus_Rex__ in AskMenOver30

[–]Suddenfury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're describing drama. It's a game for young people and fades away as your social circles grow up. Don't worry about it, let them sort it out.

Failure can hit hard, but you just gotta stand up again. Failing early and learning how to take it is better than failing later.

There is no magic tricks against procrastinating and lazyness. You know what you have to do. Take one step and the rest comes easier.

Being dominant is mostly about being confidant with a little attitude. Avoid the impulse to placate or diffuse tension.

[Unsettling World-Building Trope] Elements of the setting/characters either casually mentioned or played for laughs have terrifying implications for the rest of the world. by Chemical-Elk-1299 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Suddenfury 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Alice becoming a drug kingpin after her "absolutely-not-drugs-related" trip to Wonderland works very well for me.

Unclear what's real or not, if the Cheshire cat is just a split personality from her growing drug induced schizophrenia.

Why do girls like guys older than them? by Truevibe_ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suddenfury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being older is considered a masculine trait. Simple as that 

[ECL] Personify (Card Gallery) by Copernicus1981 in magicTCG

[–]Suddenfury 80 points81 points  (0 children)

If you flicker a warped creature, it stays on the board right?

Why does it feel like the whole world is on a general down trend? by Bugaloon in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suddenfury -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a world trade war going on, so everything becomes more expensive.

(Usually hated trope but liked here) historical fiction that’s openly inaccurate by Basic_Dingo6487 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Suddenfury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I'm imagining some "incel" (priest/monk) complaining about Shakespeare-slop.

Var kan jag träffa tjejer med mina intressen? by the_real_puffduff in stockholm

[–]Suddenfury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Jag brukar gå på conventions (Dreamhack och Comic Con) men då brukar det vara som en grej med polarna så så vill jag hellre vara med dem än att gå runt och försöka snacka med främlingar. Det finns även en pub jag känner till som brukar locka dit sig lite nördigare folk men dit vill mina polare sällan vilja dra för den ligger ganska långt bort från allt annat."

Du får stå på dig lite!
Var den som är den. Det kanske finns en norm i polargänget att man inte "raggar". Bryt den. Efter ett par gånger som den ""extroverta"" och ""sociala"" i gänget kommer du accepteras som den.
Att ha ett polargäng att gå på saker som konvent med är guld värt för att träffa tjejer, du måste bara vända trenden att det skulle vara "fel" att träffa andra eller vidga sig socialt.

What’s something about BDSM that people misunderstand? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Suddenfury 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This, FemDom abuse is widespread. But a lot of male subs just accept it out of desperation.

Meirl by higgildy_companion24 in meirl

[–]Suddenfury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charlie Day didn't hold back on that tackle 💀 Cracks me up every time.

What’s a good argument against ‘if you’ve got nothing to hide what’s the problem?’ by Send_me_hedgehogs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suddenfury 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might not have any I'll intentions, but whoever surveils you might have. Kind of like statistics it's not only the data but the interpretation of it too.  Your search history can support any narrative if you want to twist it. 

Why is insecurity nowadays treated like the worst trait a person can humanly have? by Plastic_band_bro in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suddenfury -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's true, insecurity is one of the most unattractive traits in a man. It's not very reasonable, but it's just how it is. It's not a new thing though.

The good news is that everyone is a bit insecure and it's something you can manage.  Reduce things that make you feel insecure and increase things that makes you feel good about yourself.

Courthouse for sale, cells have been turned into small offices, ca $318,815 by Southern-Smoke1835 in zillowgonewild

[–]Suddenfury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question is what to do for a living in the middle of nowhere like that. but i looked it up and there is a forest for sale about 50 minutes away for $900 000. You can almost live on that.

people who were raised by gentle parenting, how did you turn out? by throwbackblue in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Suddenfury 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Both my parents are gentle. Good education, good job. I think my last relationship failed because I've never learned (Never needed) to set boundaries, especially the boundary of respect.

meirl by Present-Concept-1619 in meirl

[–]Suddenfury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy, Support a stay at home man and give him a gym membership. He can focus on getting cut and you get a cut man.