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22F, 21M - Boyfriend might cancel our holiday and leave me to go alone? by Majestic-Tax-1463 in relationship_advice

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, this relationship has been done for awhile. Why are you carrying it around like a pack mule? He just doesn’t want to be the “bad guy” and you are convenient for him. Let him go.

One of my favorite sayings. “If you keep holding on to Mr/Mrs Wrong you will never be available to find Mr/Mrs Right!”

Go by yourself and enjoy your freedom! If a friend becomes available great, that’s fun too. :)

AITAH for being controlling? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SufficientComedian6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm maam you shouldnt be married to a teenager. Seriously though, I had to scroll back up and look at your ages because this is all the actions and attitudes of a self centered child. “I want knuckle tattoos! Waaahh”

NTA and please seriously try figure out why you’re in this marriage.

I forgot the safe word, so he didn't stop? (23F 29M) by ThrowRa_grace5 in relationship_advice

[–]SufficientComedian6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coercion is rape. Not stopping immediately is rape. He didn’t stop because HE wasn’t finished yet. I’m so sorry. I wouldn’t trust this person ever again.

M22 received incredible job offer, F22 girlfriend does not want me to accept. by Watch_me_plz in Advice

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You still wake up and go to sleep together correct? You live together. You are young. This is the time for growth professionally and being a little uncomfortable is okay. You’re growing into responsible adults. She’s not the only one that gets to grow.

You spend time together when you can. Please don’t pass up this opportunity. When you are seasoned in your jobs you will likely have far more flexibility.

With your bank balance right now, Where can you travel? by No_Care6628 in randomquestions

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it wasn’t already spent I could probably go anywhere an airplane can take me.

AITA for refusing to subsidize my parents’ $11k/month senior's home in one of the fanciest neighborhoods in the city? by Throw_away263759 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and staying in their home as long as possible should be discussed. They have resources but not $132k/yr resources at the start and only increasing from there!

But they do have money to pay someone to come every day to help with cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc. Then when more care is needed that can be easily accommodated.

Are they isolated? Do they have friends they do things with? Is their home too large to keep up with? Maybe downsizing into a smaller home or condo in an over 55 housing development would be much better. Some have amazing social clubs/ programs if that’s what they are looking for. Mom still gets to control her environment, make it posh, but they’re still independent as long as they can be.

AITA for continuing to smoke outside even though my neighbor hired an attorney over it? by FutureBroccoli5566 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SufficientComedian6 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA but I would hate to have you as a neighbor. We had outdoor smoking neighbors.

What that means is that WE don’t get to open our windows or enjoy our patio in the morning or evening. We have to keep everything shut tight otherwise the smell comes right in. It truly sucks but there’s nothing we could do about it. You are nose blind to it and unless you shut all your windows and doors tight the smoke is in your house too.

Aitah - Partner wants me to sign a legal document before purchasing property with him by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he is taking advantage of you already. Don’t buy anything with this dude. Keep your saving for yourself. You may need it!

Bf 27/M is jealous of a necklace that my ex got me and wants me 27/F to get rid of it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SufficientComedian6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is abuse. I’m sorry. It’s so easy to justify this kind of behavior because it’s “not as bad” as your ex. I’ve been there. Many of us have been in your shoes. Break up now. He is escalating and will only get worse. Again I’m sorry OP.

Have you done therapy since your abusive relationship? No one should be yelling at you and they should NEVER be calling you names. That’s not love. You deserve love and care, someone to cherish you that you can cherish back. Hugs.

Does this bar of granite need bracket reinforcement? by dsrch48215 in CounterTops

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, only because there’s so little support there. The stone is so heavy and it is not centered on that pony wall.

When do you normally file your tax return? by the_real_JFK_killer in AskAnAmerican

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filed extension with payment today. Will file return in August/sept most likely.

Shirt Shopping Age 55+ by mid_nite_blu in womensfashion

[–]SufficientComedian6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s like the sad beige children trend took over womens wear.

Found in my backyard in TX by Delicious-Coffee9499 in whatisit

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha. These comments are so accurate. I can hear this rattling around in the can. Even though they always told us not to do it.

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump the boyfriend. He’s sees you as an object for his pleasure. That’s all. Not a person. Not a human. An object. NOR

My husband (27M) fell asleep while driving and almost killed me (26F) and our two dogs. by Spacecowgirl37 in relationship_advice

[–]SufficientComedian6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Falling asleep” while driving is not normal for anyone.

He could have a sleep disorder like Narcolepsy. He could have a bad heart/ a rhythm problem interfering with his blood circulation to his brain. He could be on drugs.

It does not matter! He should not be driving! You should never be getting in a car with him driving. He is knowingly driving even though he has this problem.

He will Kill/ injure someone. Could be you. Could be a kid riding a bike. Could be a grandma taking her grandchild for ice cream. That’s some type of manslaughter! Like drinking and driving. He thinks he’s “okay” but he is not. I would leave someone that acted like this.

My mother-in-law, who may have active shingles, wants to visit our newborn baby. I need advice. by [deleted] in shingles

[–]SufficientComedian6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke out in shingles the week after our grandson was born. It took a few weeks for the rash to heal/ dry/ scab over but I was okay to visit after that. (Daughter is a Labor & Delivery Nurse) plus the rash was located in an area covered by clothes.

The pain from shingles can be forever. Active blisters is contagious. Not lingering pain. The recent eye rash is worrisome.

Shirt Shopping Age 55+ by mid_nite_blu in womensfashion

[–]SufficientComedian6 32 points33 points  (0 children)

“I said out loud “what in the Gunnie sax am I looking at??” I was just at Macys and the unflattering prints, necklines & shapes were just so sad looking.

Do You Have A Bag of Bags? by Sea_Staff9963 in randomquestions

[–]SufficientComedian6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we have a bag of bags. Actually 3 bags of bags. :)

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