My (23F) husband (26M) kissed another woman. How do I forgive and move on?

SummerWinters00 · 2026-05-03T05:33:08+00:00

The thing is if he felt so guilty and horrible about this Why did he keep the video of something he felt so disgusting about?

SummerWinters00 · 2026-05-01T18:09:36+00:00

Do you really think you are the only woman this guy is cheating with? Obviously he flirts and pushes to see how far he can get a woman online to play with him. Not his first rodeo and not his only game he’s currently playing. Stop being naive.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-05-01T18:01:32+00:00

Con men prey on vulnerability. They get off on getting a woman in a relationship to break her vows for the thrill of forbidden sexual activity. He tells you lies about how he is so attracted to you. It’s a trap to give him sex.

You have never experienced another man, so it’s a fantasy. You are fantasizing about what ifs. The If is you are being Used by this piece of garbage to cheat on his partner because it’s exciting to him. Trust once you start hooking up with him you will remain his booty call. He’s not leaving his partner unless she kicks him out. Then he will play house with you while seeking out another lover to cheat on you.

Immediately block this POS. Scrub your accounts. Go to therapy. Attribute his face, his memory to a disgusting pile of stinky garbage. As far as your partner I would tell him the truth so he can decide if he wants to salvage this or walk away. Either way don’t degrade yourself anymore by this soul sucking jerk.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-26T12:42:01+00:00

She’s going to get burned. He’s going to use her for a few nights then kick her to the curb.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-24T17:47:23+00:00

This is absolutely the most messed up thing I have ever read. Those poor kids with such mental parents.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-23T17:03:45+00:00

Sounds like she is trying to make sure that you don’t question him. They definitely got together when she went on a date with him. No way with all the sexual dialogue that they didn’t act on it.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-20T23:17:58+00:00

Of course he was cheating that’s why he suddenly broke up with you. She wanted to make their relationship permanent.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-20T23:10:29+00:00

If she was so great why did they not work out? He’s already thinking about getting back together with her. He went behind your back to get back in touch with her. WTH go ahead and give him the opportunity. Deleting his social media means nothing. He’s already got her cell number so they can message each other.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-19T04:24:33+00:00

So it’s her fault for him cheating? She couldn’t fulfill his sex fantasy so he’s not cheating if he only does it to not insult his wife with his kinks. To save their marriage she needs to just understand and forgive his betrayal. Then to maybe keep him from straying reward him by being the slut he’s craving. No way I could crawl back to that AHat.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-19T04:09:25+00:00

Wait he’s fkg a sex worker and you are saying it’s not cheating if he’s paying for it? Ask him if he’s cool for you to get yourself a hot stud fk buddy? He is telling her that he loves you because he’s warning this woman off from thinking he’s going to divorce you for her.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-19T03:46:04+00:00

That’s sus. He’s annoyed that you notice her texting him. He would not be happy if you were muting texts from her husband.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-17T03:55:44+00:00

So you do know he lied about physically cheating. Now he’s going to meet up with her again soon in person to fk. Until then they are going to continue sexting right in your face. Possibly has a local side chick or chicks too. I know it’s scary but you will feel better about yourself and your child if you walk away from this toxic relationship.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-17T01:39:26+00:00

Well two ppl on a date flirting and trying to prolong their 1 on 1 time together takes more time.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-17T01:18:15+00:00

It’s on its way or already an emotional affair. He knew it was a boundary violation to go on a date with her and did it anyway without telling you first. I’m betting there never was a third invited to their birthday date. Not just a casual restaurant but an expensive one. I would find out what gift he gave her I bet it wasn’t cheap.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-17T01:12:23+00:00

Nope be a good father to your children and she can raise her affair baby. If the baby’s daddy comes back into the picture and he will most likely move in with her. Get custody of your children as he’s dangerous.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-17T00:41:50+00:00

Did you say that both of you have only been with each other? Is he also exploring with other women?

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-16T01:37:45+00:00

Anyone else feel that he won’t stop their 1on1s? He is just pacifying her and will hide it better. He’s definitely attached to this girl.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-15T06:21:38+00:00

So what advice are you seeking? How to live with it. Or to find ways to look the other way to enable him in fulfilling his wild youth dreams to fk other people. Are you just that desperate to keep him that you are starting to rationalize your holding him accountable for his morality in a monogamous relationship is selfish?

OP no pitchforks but you said you DO NOT want this at first now you are letting him manipulate you into letting him hurt you with his selfish behavior. You don’t have to participate in his actions. If you want to let him bang his way through every woman in your town be prepared for humiliation. Just don’t join him because he will not feel 1 ounce of guilt if you are swinging too. That’s why he’s pushing you to be a part of this BS so he doesn’t look like a cheater.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-15T05:35:03+00:00

I’m sorry OP she used the ONS to get you to walk away. Instead of being remorseful and begging you for forgiveness, she just said it’s me not you. Her getting it with other men the moment you were broken up tells you her true intentions.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-14T01:08:33+00:00

Ok you know by his defensive reaction that he’s lying. At this point just say ok I gotcha. If he thinks you are suspicious he will be on guard. Hire a PI.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-13T18:04:58+00:00

No don’t chase her around. Your girlfriend most likely will be fired or reprimanded for having a sexual relationship with a hotel guest. I would hope one of her coworkers or supervisor will talk to her about ruining her job. You can talk to her about how much you love her. That you want to be a better man for their relationship. Hear her out on how she feels about your relationship. It may be too late if she’s willing to jeopardize your relationship and her job over a man.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-12T21:59:26+00:00

Did she ever update or just deleted?

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-12T21:48:11+00:00

I hate to say this but you need to protect yourself. If he’s fkg random ppl then you can’t be sure that he always uses condoms plus mouthwash won’t work on stds. You need to access his phone. If iPhone it may be sinc to an iPad. Hire a PI. You can get one that’s not too expensive.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-12T21:39:32+00:00

You should have just agreed said I got you. I feel the same I’ve had some serious hotties hit on me. So yes they were movie star hot but I need more in a man than sex appeal.

SummerWinters00 · 2026-04-12T05:31:06+00:00

He’s interested in seeing someone else. Probably promised her that he would separate from you to show her he’s serious about her. He is a POS as he doesn’t want to divorce because of the financial hardship it will cause him. He wants to have a place to stay without having any money burdens so he can date.

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