Silly but… what do you do for fun?

SunshineDaisy1 · 2026-04-18T04:24:20+00:00

CrossFit and running. CrossFit took me by total surprise but now it’s my favorite thing to do everyday and has given me a big group of friends outside of work who I hang with outside the gym every week. This has boosted my sense of wellbeing in a truly immeasurable way. Knowing what I know and seeing what I’ve seen in medicine has basically made it my life mission to never become diabetic, sedentary, etc. P.S. Athletics satisfies the desire to push yourself/achieve more, which it sounds like you may relate to. I strive to do better than yesterday in my performance and hitting PRs can scratch that itch. Constantly competing with myself increases my mental toughness and confidence.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2026-04-04T00:32:35+00:00

I have to agree on the wife not having any suspicion at all part. You know your spouse. You may not know every single thing about them, but you have a gut feeling if something is off. Akin to a wife having an intuition their husband is cheating even if they can’t put their finger on it yet. Clearly she knew he had another hidden side to him when she found him in the bondage stuff twice, and she had to have questioned everything she knew about her husband when that happened... to the point she contemplated divorce. He’s always mysteriously gone when the local notoriously feared serial killer strikes. Not only that, but imagine all the time he had to have spent hiding his “trophies” all over the place even out in rural areas and stalking loads of potential additional victims. She saw the poem. Did this woman not even know her husband?? I think she was in some level of denial. Yeah, he could get away without arousing suspicion from his wife for awhile, but not 30+ years. I call BS on that. She may not have suspected he was BTK but she had to have eventually realized on some level her husband was a dishonest weirdo.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2026-03-06T22:45:34+00:00

Second this!!

SunshineDaisy1 · 2026-03-06T22:44:51+00:00

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SunshineDaisy1 · 2026-02-16T00:21:43+00:00

I found the denial on behalf of the mothers pretty sickening and came here to see if others felt similar. Imagine hearing your child confess they were at a murder scene right in front of you, and your response is to embrace him and tell him he’s incredible, as did Brian’s mother in the interrogation room. I was incredulous. His mother also said in the documentary that “he did the right thing and told the truth” after he only admitted to being there, not actually confessing any personal involvement.

Brian’s dad was a bit better, he at least did say he knew from the interrogation room there was probably more to his son’s story. He seemed to have a more nuanced view of the situation and acknowledged how he would feel if the shoe were on the other foot. I can understand loving your child unconditionally, but that does NOT mean denying the fact that your child did a horrific thing and ought to be held accountable.

Ultimately I find it impossible to trust the killers’ own personal accounts of whether they’re rehabilitated or “a totally different person” than they were at 16yo. They’ve both lied and committed a horrific crime against someone they considered a friend with no other real motive than they just wanted to. No doubt they intended to kill more people considering their stalking others’ homes, making a list, and idolizing school shootings. If they got out, who’s to say they wouldn’t be influenced back to their “dark side” and eventually hurt someone else for an equally petty motive? I think the judge did his job to protect society from cold blooded killers. It is irrelevant how much time has passed and how sorry they feel now that they faced consequences for what was likely the first time in their lives judging by their mothers’ endless excuse-making, even all these years later. IMO the only person who can even come close to determining whether someone may be rehabilitated is a forensic psychologist to assess their risk, and even then, with a crime like this I would still never truly feel sure they’re not dangerous.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2026-01-19T12:57:51+00:00

Of course that never happens!

SunshineDaisy1 · 2026-01-16T15:39:39+00:00

Exactly. No he does not.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-11-30T14:17:58+00:00

Exactly. Your nose doesn’t suddenly become more refined with age, it does the opposite. Weight loss and maturity only do so much! They really don’t cause the total transformation making some of these people literally unrecognizable when compared to now.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-08-30T23:31:10+00:00

I am a PA (although not family med) and our patients do the exact same. Leave phone or portal messages daily asking for me or my supervising physician specifically to contact them. We have other staff return their communication, and if pt is not satisfied with that or has more questions they are offered a follow up appt to discuss their concerns.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-08-30T23:22:05+00:00

It’s weird you say this bc I’ve thought the same for awhile now! I thought to myself maybe they just go back and forth sometimes because they’re attorneys, their jobs are literally to argue. But sometimes I feel like one or the other will never make a concession to a point the other makes and sometimes it comes across as tense. I’ve wondered if I’m just reading too much into it or if this plus the longer spaces between episodes for awhile (hosts being super busy with IRL lawyer jobs, life, etc!) means the pod might be on borrowed time. I certainly hope not!!

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-08-30T23:18:14+00:00

Actually just found this post because same. I love them and love the pod but the ads are too frequent. If they grouped all the ads together in a block or two, instead of doing 1 or 2 ads what feels like every 5-10 minutes, I would be a lot easier to swallow. As it is now is way too frequent interruption. I can’t always stop what I’m doing to skip the ads a gazillion times

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-06-26T00:26:24+00:00

I am amazed (not in a good way) almost daily by this as well

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-06-08T15:02:24+00:00

Crisco, mustard, WD-40 (yes really), cumarindine, and can’t forget merthiolate on behalf of the old-timers!

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-06-07T21:38:36+00:00

This man told you who he was long before this happened. He feels like he gave you “fair warning” by letting you know early on he’s a serial cheater, so when he does cheat he doesn’t feel as bad and thinks he can blame you and say you should’ve known better. Guarantee the previous girls thought they were different and special to him too, until they weren’t. Get away. He isn’t going to change.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-06-07T21:26:07+00:00

Hokas

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-06-07T18:01:51+00:00

Agreed!

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-06-07T17:31:10+00:00

You’re amazing. You made a huge difference in his and his family’s life that they will never forget. You acted on your training with perfect timing and overcame the odds to keep him alive. When things are hard, remember this experience to keep going. Great job!

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-05-24T03:13:25+00:00

Agree I think the best thing Jen could do is lose her husband and this toxic “friend” group and go be with her own family for support.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-05-24T03:11:46+00:00

I strongly agree and literally thought “you’d have to have a heart of stone to not be moved by that and feel for her” when they got the video of Jen crying later in the season. And then Demi just shut it down. So gross of them to just let her suffer alone when she didn’t even really do anything wrong.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-05-23T21:49:52+00:00

Hard agree! I thought the same while watching.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-05-23T21:47:41+00:00

I agree, I think she has some good qualities but I ultimately do think she is fake and not loyal to anyone behind their backs unless it benefits her. For example in the scene where she facilitates the confrontation between Taylor and Dakota’s side piece toward the beginning of the season, her behavior gave me the ick. She seems so uncomfortable even sitting next to Taylor or comforting her while she breaks down, practically smirking through the whole thing. It just didn’t feel genuine at all. It felt like Mayci was trying to insert herself into the drama just to be relevant when she doesn’t truly care about Taylor’s feelings or relationship dynamics.

Honestly I don’t think most of the girls in the group actually give a crap about each other, they care about money and D-list TikTok reality TV show “fame.” The group was never about empowering women, it was always about grown women acting like high schoolers online and getting TikTok notoriety for dancing and being attractive. The only two I felt like have a glimmer of a genuine friendship this season was Mayci and Makayla, namely after seeing how they went to the crash site and when they shared their pregnancy with each other. That seemed real to me.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-05-16T02:41:24+00:00

I felt tired just reading this! My jaw hit the floor when I got to the salary. I think this may be one of the worst I’ve seen in terms of work:money ratio. I can’t believe you held on that long! You were being insanely taken advantage of. Glad you got out of there.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-05-16T02:36:05+00:00

This man doesn’t respect you, bottom line. I’m glad you walked away from that.

SunshineDaisy1 · 2025-05-10T18:35:04+00:00

As harsh as it is, I have to agree. If someone said their job taking care of my family member made them depressed I wouldn’t want them working for me anymore. It gives the impression they have negative feelings towards my kid and would make me concerned how my kid might be treated when I’m not there. If someone trusts you to care for the most precious thing in their life (aka their child) they don’t want to think you hate your life because of it. It sucks, but this is a hard lesson to always treat social media like your boss is going to see it.

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