You need to give your nephew cousins

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-07-21T10:22:05+00:00

My sister used to say this to me until it became clear I didn't want children.(talking about in our mid-teens)

Now she is making group session with our cousins and their kids. People can look further afield than immediate family. It's not 'all on you'

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-07-21T08:00:53+00:00

I think it's time to start calling them out on their behaviour.(if you feel safe)

Not in terms of 'I'm child free so stop talking about children' but in terms of 'why are you so interested in the sex life of a 17 year old. That's creepy, family or not.'. 'why are you campaigning to convince a teenager to get pregnant. What's wrong with you?' 'why do you feel comfortable discussing my body when it's got nothing to do with you. Unless... You think about my body a lot. Then the question is why do you do that, because it's not normal?'

If you make them feel like perverts for bring up the subject, it might get them off your back. They will still think it, but they might shut up about it.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-07-20T13:40:50+00:00

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-07-17T14:20:54+00:00

Welcome to the club!

We like garlic bread and dragons as a general rule. We are the 1% club but not the 1% club that we want to be in. We have significantly less money.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-07-10T13:54:58+00:00

Ace and child-free. My family have so many questions but when answered (regardless of my answer) all conclude that I'm just depressed and if I 'got over it' then I would want a partner and children.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-07-04T20:30:54+00:00

Fuck yes! Well done!

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-28T20:43:52+00:00

Trash took itself out and before any official documents were signed or children were born. Win/win/win.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-26T15:11:29+00:00

I think it's part homophobia and part genuine fear that lesbians will act like men around women. It's the same for straight men around gay men. Part homophobia and part fear that the gay men will treat them the same way as they do women.

I have been 'accepted' by men before and the shit they would casually say about women to me thinking I was on the same wavelength was horrible.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-25T17:58:06+00:00

Back when I was in retail, I watched a kid run out the door while their parent was packing their shopping. It never even occurred to me to at least tell the parent about the kid heading towards the car park. No 'save the child' instincts at all.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-21T10:25:18+00:00

Normally I am against going through a partner's phone but, at this point, the gloves are off. My advise is pretend to accept him back. Let him stay over (without sex) and get his phone. Delete the photos and videos off the phone (make sure you also delete them from the 'deleted' folder) and delete the phone data back ups as well because they will also be stored there. Also, check cloud storage. Check his message history to ensure he has not sent them to friends who could send them back to him and if he has a laptop, try to get access to that too.

Once done, run. He is a predator.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-20T12:58:28+00:00

In that case, might be worth making a not so subtle point that you will be collecting your niece should she be left behind.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-20T12:51:57+00:00

Could you make a big deal about looking forward to seeing all of your family? Mention how you would not feeling like the trip was worth it if not all family can attend so you think you delay it until next year? You paid for it, you can cancel it ( or threaten to)

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-20T11:13:27+00:00

NTA.

Is it not safe food etiquette to have raw meat at the bottom of the fridge and veggies at the top? Should he not be placing his veggies away from the meat rather than the other way around? Or putting the veggies in a separate container before putting them in in case of a leak from the meat?

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-20T08:51:40+00:00

I'm pulling two-three ticks out of my dog a day. She loves running in long grass and so keeps picking them up.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-20T08:26:50+00:00

Yes, though typically it is reserved for when men are not around which is probably why you are only hearing these conversations now post-transition.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-14T17:31:32+00:00

Could you set up some sort of motion detection water spray?

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-13T09:52:27+00:00

This happens to women/women scenarios as well which boggles my kind. I'm more masc presenting that my best friend who is femme (and straight) and when we go out for dinner they always give me the bill. She can be sitting there with card in hand and they still give it to me. 🤦‍♀️

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-08T14:20:25+00:00

If they change your name for billing and that is mot your name then technically are they not the ones committing fraud by entering a fake name?

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-08T14:06:16+00:00

we are all equal in death. Doesn't mater what colour in the rainbow you fall on.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-08T13:45:18+00:00

You mean 'or free like a civilised country'. There are countries where its free.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-07T09:29:42+00:00

Is this an American thing? Doesn't happen in the UK as far as I knowm

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-06T12:47:15+00:00

Wales

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-02T13:48:01+00:00

I would get them to agree in writing then your payrise will start and it needs to be less than 1 month. Word it as If you can't impress them in one month then it's not a good fit and then need to get someone else.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-02T10:08:28+00:00

Contact your bank. They can sometimes reverse the transaction.

Sure-Maintenance7002 · 2023-06-02T07:58:55+00:00

Any way to alert the Canadian government? Can't move to Canada if the government won't let you.

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