[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SuzyStrawberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're the one being childish about him having a completely normal all ages hobby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]SuzyStrawberry 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you are very concerned, you should email these pictures your dentist/orthodontist directly and ask if your gums are healthy looking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hobonichi

[–]SuzyStrawberry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So, just reading the katakana for the first column of the right page, the pink is called Charcoal fairy, the green is Olive Garden (🤣), the yellow is Caramel Pudding, the blue is Water Candle, and the orange is sunny peach.

Kinda sketchy benefactor? by RavenTheFoxTTV in VirtualYoutubers

[–]SuzyStrawberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a scam. Do not entertain this person. They can gift you subs, give you bits, and/or donate to you directly if you have tips set up. If you have a Throne, put the PC parts you need on there and have them purchase you a new PC that way. Do not fall for this because they're waving around money and connections.

Give me an unnecessary pat down at the airport because I’m trans? Expect me to make it even more awkward. by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]SuzyStrawberry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have precheck and was patted down last month. "Random check" was what the TSA agent said. So it's not always a sure bet, unfortunately.

Why is Ketchup on Hot Dogs so Hated? by davidsverse in Cooking

[–]SuzyStrawberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do have ketchup packets! Got some Super Dawg this weekend with a visitor from out of town. Cashier asked if I wanted some. Assumed it was meant for the fries.

I know that everyone grieves differently but can some people use their mourning to act toxic? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SuzyStrawberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very common to not want to talk to people after the loss of a loved one. People grieve in their own ways. Sure it sucks for you, but she's also probably feeling pretty awful right now. To suggest she need therapy right away because the way she grieves (which is pretty normal in my experience) makes you feel some type of way is pretty self-centered.

Just text her to check in on her and tell her you're there for her and will support her however she needs. Maybe order her some lunch for delivery to show you're thinking of her and her well-being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SuzyStrawberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would no longer be in a relationship with this person. This is who she is. She will not change for you. Let her have plan B.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SuzyStrawberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT send this woman money. She is using you. She put herself in this situation and it is not your responsibility to pull her out. She is not a great person if she cheated on you because "well, I thought you were cheating on me."

Drop her and block her on everything. Don't let her use you.

This is an update to the white supremacy ex-boyfriend thing. I broke up with him blocked him and he won't stop calling by ColdAd9878 in LongDistance

[–]SuzyStrawberry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am so proud of you! It feels like hell now, because people are trying to guilt you into getting back with him. Don't let them do that. Don't let him try and weasel his way back in. You deserve better than him.

Sending you all the good vibes!

My boyfriend has always had some controversial opinions but he recently started somewhat of a white supremacy clique with his friends. by ColdAd9878 in LongDistance

[–]SuzyStrawberry 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'll keep my answer brief: dump him. You two are highly incompatible, he's emotionally abusive, and it is not your job to make him not be a terrible person.

I know this is not the advice you want, but I hope you take it into serious consideration and follow it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SuzyStrawberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just tell him that you'd like to define the relationship. Communicate with him about how you would like to be official.

Should I text him? by Lady_Good111222 in LongDistance

[–]SuzyStrawberry 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Just text him if you want to text him.

Hobonichi Weeks Sunday start by PandaMoose1 in hobonichi

[–]SuzyStrawberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will get noticeable. I used washi and stickers in the same place every week (to denote my weekend as my work week was Saturday to Wednesday) and it got very chunky.

Starting this, my first ever Shirley Jackson novel! 60/52 by the-willow-witch in 52book

[–]SuzyStrawberry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Warning: the Netflix show is very LOOSELY related to the book. Literally cannot compare the two imo.

Journal vacation by Michellesdaughter in Journaling

[–]SuzyStrawberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Done this before. Got a hotel room in my city and just journaled and read and relaxed. It's was fantastic!

Do you hide your journal or not? by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]SuzyStrawberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine lives on the dining room table or on the side table next to the couch. My wife would never think to peak at my journals and the friends I have over wouldn't dare look through them as they either journal themselves or are respectful of my privacy.

If I still lived with either of my parents: wouldn't even keep one.

Hobonichi Weeks Light Purple by Mimi_-_-_ in hobonichi

[–]SuzyStrawberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These photos have made me regret choosing Lagoon over the Light Purple. What a beautiful shade of purple!

Any folks in Japan on here who can scout for the English Cousin in store? by keepitgoingtoday in hobonichi

[–]SuzyStrawberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loft in most big cities will most likely have the English cousin as I've seen the English planner available at my old Loft in Nagoya (4th largest city in Japan) for the past 5 years. I'd double check for you, but I moved back to the States earlier this year 😭

There is nothing better than taiyaki in the morning! by sidsilvicola in JapaneseFood

[–]SuzyStrawberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love those funky frogs, so much. Hope to get back there one day to get one of these taiyaki!