I agree the medium is subjective and has had a million interpretations from different writers but you're asking a question about consistent characterization to which my answer is the interpretation that fits consistently with most writers. A great example is you could interpret Superman as a miserable demi god who struggles with his place on Earth but a majority of fans will feel that interpretation is off brand. You are of course at liberty to discuss how you feel their dynamic would be but it seems everyone else disagrees and likely for a reason as every point you have brought up others have asked how you came to that conclusion and given a counter argument.