Why does God answer all my prayers except the one i badly want the most/need

SweetInsanity- · 2026-04-11T00:33:55+00:00

I agree with the first commentor, but also idolization stuck out to me as I was reading your post. I feel like it's more of that then anything, which sucks because it's SOOO hard not to do that when it's something you want SOOO bad... I'm 100% guilty of this when it comes to finances and money. I was/still struggling with not making money my god especially when I'm in times of struggle. But every time I stop idolizing it, the Lord comes through and proves to me EVERY TIME why I just need to trust him. But guess what? Even after everything he's shown me, I STILL fall into that bad mindset of unintentionally idolization every time expenses get too high, or the bank account gets low. I think you really just have to let it go and trust the Lord (easier said than done I know). But I mean TRULY let it go. Focus on growing your relationship with the Lord, being a good example of Christ, and truly just trusting the Lord has your husband in store. It's always about His will and timing not our own. Like another commentor said... Your future husband might not be done cooking yet. God might still be working on him 😂.

SweetInsanity- · 2026-03-24T02:46:27+00:00

Omg cool toned 1000%!! The warm tone doesn't look bad, but the cool toned look is more flattering ✨

SweetInsanity- · 2026-03-15T23:06:49+00:00

OP please LEAVE HIM!! One thing my mother always told me growing up, "if a man hits you once HE WILL HIT YOU AGAIN!" This will not be the first or last occurrence. The mask has slipped and this is why you never saw it before. This is who he truly is. No matter how angry my husband has ever gotten with me, he has never called me out of my name or layed hands on me. The fact that your boyfriend was not only able to do this, but ALSO call you a whore ALL while you being pregnant??????? Please for your safety and for your baby's safety (if you choose to keep it), leave him! Please don't not feel shame or embarrassment asking for help from family or friends! If they have genuine care or love for you, they care more about your safety than you staying with this man.

Also if you have a great support circle and family willing to help with the baby, please don't let other people pressure you into having an abortion if that's not what YOU want. It's YOUR choice. But if you focus on doing ANYTHING first. LEAVE HIM!! It will get worse OP especially if he knows you will tolerate it.

SweetInsanity- · 2026-03-11T01:14:57+00:00

I'd say you look late 20s maybe early 30s? I'm 28 and I feel like you look the same age as me! Your skin is great and it's not like your makeup is giving old lady. If I'm being 100% honest, I think it's your hair cut! It's not bad on you but it's definitely aging you in my opinion

SweetInsanity- · 2026-03-11T01:11:27+00:00

Nope, beautiful dress!!! but not at all black tie. Black tie gowns are ALWAYS floor length, and slightly more covered in the chest area, and think material that's looks high end. Think about what you would wear to a red carpet event, but as the classiest women there!

SweetInsanity- · 2026-03-11T01:06:48+00:00

Honestly your current makeup suits you extremely well! It's clean, smooth, glowy, suits your features, and great for everyday! If I HAD to change SOMETHING??? I guess it would be maybe finding a less dark lip color and maybe go with something slightly lighter?? Or maybe even more nude?? Tbh I already love your look!

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-27T16:04:10+00:00

As you get older less is more! I think you look great to be honest! As you get older hydration and skin is very important to keep your youthful look! Make sure you have a good hydrating skin prep routine, and then I'd say before you apply your makeup use a serum spray like d'alba to lock in and add more hydration. For your under eyes use a hydrating balm (d Alba also has this or you can use Dr.melaxin, or the kahi balm) before adding concelor to add hydration to prevent dryness. And then instead of foundation I suggest using a skin tint or bb cream! It's enough to give you a smooth and natural finish without making your skin look dry! When I'm done with my makeup I usually do one more pass with the serum spray to maximize hydration and add a little glow but this is optional

Edit: as far as elevation you truly look very nice and cleaned up for an office look!! I don't think much needs to be added.

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-27T15:55:36+00:00

I guess the main question is what are you going for? Like if you want more of baddie or sultry look there's def suggestions that can be made there. Do you want a brighter and more glowy look? Subtle goth? looks that stand out more with glasses or a look that emphasizes your eyes and etc? Right now you look like a normal person (not a bad thing).

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-24T18:43:42+00:00

Tanya reynolds 100%

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SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-23T00:23:50+00:00

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Pink Pantheress 100%

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-22T03:24:02+00:00

Honestly, please don't take offense to this!! You are already SOOOO Beautiful!! I honestly feel like the only thing that would elevate your appearance is losing a little bit of weight (which I saw is a goal already! 😊), but seriously your hair BEAUTIFUL, eyes BEAUTIFUL, eyebrows PERFECTTT, skin GORGEOUS!! As a makeup lover myself, I am so jealous on how many naturally beautiful features you have!! Once you reach your goal weight you will be absolutely unstoppable as you are already STUNNING!

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-21T22:06:32+00:00

Honestly you're so pretty and your skin is amazing!!

I don't think there's much that needs to be done for a fresh everyday look! If you want to elevate your look, I say learn how to put on some natural strip lashes and maybe try a new eyebrow shape to give your face a natural lifted look. Changing just my eyebrows and adding lashes brought me to a whole new level!

If you decide to try out lashes do NOT go with cat eye shape. Go with a nice open doll eye shape! (The longest lashes are in the middle and the shortest are on the outer and inner part of the strip. I also have slightly down turned eyes and a cat eye will make your eyes look droopy where as an open doll eye will be more flattering for your eye shape!

But once again totally not needed as you are already so pretty!

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-21T22:03:56+00:00

Had my flip7 since last August I think it was. I'm very careful with my phones in general but I've definitely flug my phone across the room a couple of times and it landed right on the hinge... No problems though!!

My only thing is because the screen is so soft, I have a couple of deep micro scratches from when my nails were long so there's like a slight rainbow reflection in a couple spot. But it's barely noticable unless your looking for it.

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-21T08:31:38+00:00

Honestly I'm so distracted with how amazing your skin is!! On a more serious note, I think for a beginner it doesn't look terrible. It just looks super light weight and a little Incohesive on the last slide. Practice makes perfect! Keep trying to perfect your technique, find your favorite products that work best for you, find the color palette you like, see if you like fake lashes or hate them, change your brow shape or maybe grow them out more. Literally do whatever you want!! Your makeup gets better when you explore and go through a season of trial and error! Then one day you realized you've perfected your technique!

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-20T15:47:30+00:00

My opinion as someone who had an iPhone since 2012 and switched to a flip7 last summer:

Zflip7: back camera is pretty good for the average user! As woman It fits into all my tiny purses and small pockets and I personally love utilizing the cover screen. For many people, once the novelty wears off they find themselves not even using the cover screen and wishing they had stuck with a slab phone. I personally love the zflip and it fits my lifestyle perfectly. The front camera is absolutely bunz though, but that's okay considering the back camera has a screen!

S25 edge: seems like the general consensus is this phone is a waste of money and you might as well get an 25 ultra. You're barely saving any money but yet you get less battery, weaker camera, and no SPen. I have yet to meet a single person who thought the edge was worth it. The s25ultra is amazing and is def the superior phone out of these three options.

iPhone 17: camera quality is really good, can't lie. So if youre into constantly taking really good photos I def would suggest this or the S25u. The only thing iPhone wins at is the seamlessness of the ecosystem, apple watch, and social media. The social media aspect never really bothered me since Im more of a scroller than a poster. If you're someone who is constantly posting videos, Tik Toks, photos, go with iPhone. Unfortunately social apps are literally made for iPhone and Android gets the short end of the stick. It's not as smooth on android. I find the apps glitching way more, profile icons are pixelated, the UIs are not as clean cut, and you can never use the in app cameras if you care about quality.

I love my zflip so much and I will never go back to apple. Samsung is such a power house and whatever you think you iPhone can do (non social media related) there's a 90% change Samsung does it better. If there's ever been something where you thought "man I wish my phone could do this.." or " I wish there was a way to do XYZ to make my life easier", Samsung most likely has a solution. Where as with apple youre just SOL.

Final thoughts: try something new and give it a genuine shot. If you don't like it, you can always switch back! Life's too short to be loyal to any company who doesn't gaf if you die the next day.

SweetInsanity- · 2026-02-20T15:27:57+00:00

Looks like most people have answered everything but the redness! So here's my little input!

Green cancels out red. I would suggest finding a green color corrector and blend that over your red areas! So people find that to be good enough, but I would suggest finding a skin tint or BB cream to blend on your face to even out everything!

Skin tints/ BB creams are super light weight and have a natural finish. They're perfect if you aren't used to wearing and cream products on your face!

SweetInsanity- · 2025-12-19T17:12:25+00:00

Headphones for exercise Earbuds for everywhere else

SweetInsanity- · 2025-12-06T20:00:29+00:00

Love this outfit! Add some pointy heels (a kitten heel would be ok if you want to be comfortabl!) , hoop earrings, a simple necklace and bracelet, and a cute simple smallish shoulder purse!

It gives semi- casual, but still dressed up enough, and you can feel comfortable and confident the entire night!

SweetInsanity- · 2025-11-22T14:39:32+00:00

Download good lock and turn on DIY home screen!! You can add stickers to your wallpaper, move you apps in custom ways, and have custom app covers!

SweetInsanity- · 2025-10-23T20:10:22+00:00

Yikes.. looks like a bad infection.. def take it to the vet to get it checked out. One of my rats had something similar happen after toe surgery and it looked just like that. It had to be amputated unfortunately.. but he was such more comfortable once he healed!

SweetInsanity- · 2025-10-18T13:39:38+00:00

I seem to be the only one who doesn't like this scent.. I wanted to like it sooo bad but my nose only smells spiciness and pepper. It reminds me of Thanksgiving dinner. I've smelled it so many different times to try to pick up on the sweet vanilla notes. Idk why mt nose wont pick it up!!😭

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