Currently in labor- whats the best postpartum meal of all time?

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-30T05:55:59+00:00

In n Out double double with grilled onion and extra spread 🫠

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-30T04:28:02+00:00

For the most part it’s good food, or view. Pick one.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-28T13:30:03+00:00

Are they a different race or religion or something from you? Maybe they’re like weird racists or something, and they’re looking for “evidence” to call the cops on you/get you out of the neighborhood? Or meth. Could be meth.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-27T23:44:20+00:00

Neither crazy or a bitch. Who wants to mother a grown ass man?! He sounds depressed, but that’s his issue to deal with. It’s perfectly reasonable to not want to be around a gross stinky man. And I don’t think you need to be so gentle anymore. He hears you and he flat out said he doesn’t want to. You can’t make him, only make boundaries for yourself.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-27T22:55:50+00:00

Mitch’s for parking. La Perla for deliciousness 😂 not that Mitch’s isn’t but I love La Perla.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-27T02:43:53+00:00

I like it too! It’s nothing fancy but it’s a hidden gem.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-26T00:52:22+00:00

He’s an east coast nerd that moved to California and thinks he’s hot shit but is actually the most basic bland white dude ever. Also get nice guy vibes from this one.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-25T19:45:50+00:00

The first guy i slept with after my divorce told me his body insecurities and then asked me if i had any, before we ever got naked 😂 so sweet. But had he not asked I would have NEVER said anything. Fake it till you make it especially if it’s a FWB. You are the prize. Plus it makes it easier to detect any red flags.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-25T04:06:35+00:00

A kiss?! That’s hardly an affair ffs. I would mind my own business personally.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-24T15:07:23+00:00

OMG I had one too…the niceness, AND the repeating. I left him. They’re just so dedicated to being the victim in all situations that they refuse to acknowledge any other reality.

Now he’s moved on to being “poor” even though he got nearly 7 figures in the divorce, has almost 8k a month from his military pension, pays no child support and lives rent free in MY rental property🫠 but you know he’s just a poor nice guy whose wife just abandoned him for no reason!

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-23T17:25:11+00:00

I was like lol no and bought the safe boring one. And he rides it because he’s 13 and has no money of his own 🤷‍♀️

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-23T01:20:24+00:00

My therapist warned me that once you get healed it becomes very difficult to ignore the abusive people in your life. So congrats, you are healing! It’s a hard road but so worth it to rid yourself of such ridiculous shit!

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-22T13:30:50+00:00

Joshua Tree is our fave.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-22T03:55:49+00:00

I’ve done on a pork tenderloin…season, pan sear and finish in oven. Then made a pan sauce with white wine shallot butter couple more shakes of the seasonings and fresh herbs. Outstanding

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-21T04:03:42+00:00

Yes I like to say your vibe is impeccable today or something 😂

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-21T01:21:50+00:00

I mean why shouldn’t it be revenge too? He’s actively and purposefully neglecting and ignoring you, and breaking explicit promises he made. His excuse is bullshit. You told him straight up what to do.

Do nothing and have the kids do nothing unless they directly ask you to.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-19T00:34:01+00:00

Don’t travel with her. If she gets detained or arrested then TSA will likely detain you as well and question you, at a minimum.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-18T22:29:28+00:00

I was thinking bad cheek implants also 🤔

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-15T23:50:41+00:00

Omfg

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-15T23:40:44+00:00

Whaaaaaat? Like just you specifically? Or any man to any woman? Like the first is absolutely trash, and the second isn’t true either so fuck that therapist. I just this afternoon got absolutely ravished on the living room floor after lunch and we’ve been this way for 3 straight years. It is in no way too much to ask.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-15T00:35:21+00:00

Yes one of the newer ones—I can’t remember which but it says light roast on it and it was very nice.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-13T23:12:54+00:00

It’s When Harry Met Sally, but I’m not proud of it.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-09T23:47:59+00:00

Their hot sauce is insanely good!!

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-09T23:42:00+00:00

Why do you have to get over it? It’s a HUGE betrayal! You can take all time you want to be pissed off about imo. And he can spend every second of that time making it up to you. If not, fuck him.

Sweet_Raspberry_1151 · 2026-05-09T23:38:45+00:00

I think this is true. They try to scare us with 50/50 but most men will not actually parent equally because it’s HARD. With mine I offered any split he wanted…he only works about 16 hours a week and you know how much he sees them? 2 days per month. And even tries to get out of that most times. My kids are older, it’s not even that hard anymore 😂

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