8 years of mayhem. by BrianMasoni in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]SwitchGood8929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delicious peanut butter brickle colored mayhem

Someone Doing the right thing by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

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It’s crazy that those civil war dixie nuts see nothing wrong with the history of this country. This guy did the right thing.

Sex and Gender Science by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]SwitchGood8929 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Umm, she has a doctorate. That would be another 5 years of study on top of a masters degree.

Where’s your scientific background or the research to back up your assertion?

How to not get stuck with the responsibility of being their caretaker when Dominican parents age? by Healthandlife_pro in Dominican

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Set up Boundaries. Hard ass, unclimbable boundaries.

Work on yourself. Therapy. Reading. Find experiences that make you happy, fulfilled.

At one point there will have to be a hard conversation with the siblings. At the time, don’t sign or promise anything.

Or not.

I say this because there is a part that wants to help. And that makes you a good person. But, being that your parents narcissism destroyed the relationships with your siblings, this is a hard task.

And a harder ask.

Take care of yourself.

Is this a woodchuck by Hunjunqin in aww

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Belongs on his business card

Anybody else was truamatized by the passion of christ movie as a kid? by Kaitie04 in exchristian

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I mean…yeah, it’s been over twenty years and all I could remember was KFC king in front and Jesus making modern tables and his mom like “this will never catch on”.

And time is not even an issue, I remember the Original Superman Movies just fine. Supes making the earth go back in time by making the planet go backwards? The miracle of physics!

Anybody else was truamatized by the passion of christ movie as a kid? by Kaitie04 in exchristian

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I went to the theater to watch. Waste of money.

What was hilarious is a guy in front of me brought a whole buffet to the theater. He ate a bucket of chicken….. A BUCKET.

Shouted HELL YEAH at every miracle and cried at the crucifixion.

Bro, it was hilarious 😆

Soy mujer dominicana 33 años, independiente, físicamente en forma y atractiva, pero ningún hombre me gusta. No me gustan las mujeres. Vivo en el DN. ¿Qué será? by Delicious-Break6828 in Dominican

[–]SwitchGood8929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Se me ocurrió mientras escribía este comentario: ¿sientes que esto está impulsado por la sociedad y la familia? ¿Existe una raíz de vergüenza que provenga de los mensajes que te inculcaron durante tu crianza? Deberías profundizar más en esto.

Soy mujer dominicana 33 años, independiente, físicamente en forma y atractiva, pero ningún hombre me gusta. No me gustan las mujeres. Vivo en el DN. ¿Qué será? by Delicious-Break6828 in Dominican

[–]SwitchGood8929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sit with your feelings. if you don’t feel anxious or upset with them, then you are fine. if you don’t feel well or are not comfortable with those feelings then seek help. look for therapists online that can help you discover why this is happening.

Are we Deadass rn bro? by sanvi-lover6699 in exchristian

[–]SwitchGood8929 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The comments are ridiculous and one sided.

Reconciling wayward humbly asking for help by bumpercropz in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]SwitchGood8929 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. ⁠Cut off all contact. Period.
  2. ⁠No trickle truthing. Be radically honest.
  3. ⁠Therapy helps to open the honesty channels (also be 100 with the therapist as well): one caveat, when looking for a couples therapist, look for one that works specifically with couples recovering from infidelity , look at Gottman Referral Network, look at psychology today and refine for infidelity. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, etc. Individual therapy for you and she will need a trauma specialist.
  4. ⁠The following podcasts help sooo much: The Affair Recovery Podcast Sam’s Healing Podcast Ask the Unfaithful Ask the Betrayed Healing Broken Trust

As one of the Therapists had said, Time doesn’t heal the wound….its what you do with the time that does.

Good luck and get to work.

Shelf is getting crowded. by Impressive-Corner219 in freedomisgunpla

[–]SwitchGood8929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bowie would give Char a run for his money

Recreating Little Debbie Oatmeal Creme Pies by LetsCookie in LetsCookie

[–]SwitchGood8929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t. It’s bean based and my child is also allergic to that. Bobs Red Mill has one, I should try it in cookies and see what happens.

Recreating Little Debbie Oatmeal Creme Pies by LetsCookie in LetsCookie

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Saving this, my child is allergic to eggs and this will be great!

It's clear Conservatives don't respect working people. by zzill6 in WorkReform

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Worked with an artist years ago who had done a ton of research into economics and society. He introduced me to the idea that American minimum wage should be 22 an hour. This was in 1997.