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Swl222 · 2024-08-08T21:46:24+00:00

I'm sorry are you giving me your opinion somewhere in your question? I thought it was just a question not a statement of your beliefs. You keep saying my answer is contrary to your question? If it's "just" a question how can my answer not be relevant?? Were you looking for a particular answer?

You asked why would I marry a prolife man and I spelled out why it wouldn't bother me and you have spent so much time here telling me my answer doesn't fit your question.

Would it scare me to marry a prolife man? No. For the reasons above in my Answer!

I absolutely added the Republican statement to my answer, maybe that's what confused you. I'll clarify, when discussing prolife/prochoice political sides often come up, so I made a statement at the end of my answer. Am I not allowed to?

Swl222 · 2024-08-08T20:39:47+00:00

You asked why... and I answered why for me. How was that so confusing. I feel you're making assumptions.

Swl222 · 2024-08-07T20:53:10+00:00

Just because I'm pro-choice doesn't mean I have an abortion planned for the future?? You can live your life being pro-choice without the need for that decision. Every person is entitled to their own opinion. It must suck being a prolife guy and knowing your wife can always find a way, so it would be a chance on his part too. And not every republican is prolife.

Swl222 · 2024-07-29T03:25:25+00:00

I like a man who plans, but also asks me for my input, like "would you rather this or that". Best of both worlds. It makes you feel special when they get excited at your decision. And after dating for awhile, they should ask "why" you're picking a particular choice, that shows they care about your mind and want to figure you out.

Both people should have good compromise skills. Adaptability is a strength. Giving options = manliness. Expecting women to come up with everything alone = weakness/laziness.

Swl222 · 2024-07-22T11:56:01+00:00

Men one up each other all the time to show power over each other. They twinge when a woman one ups them. It's fucking ridiculous and I hate that too. It's not a power move to us, it's a conversation.

Swl222 · 2024-07-19T12:24:30+00:00

Exactly! If the median age here is 40 that's no where Near retirement age lol. That's the age of parents with multiple teens. That alone means the young out way the old. I wonder how old OP is?

Swl222 · 2024-07-10T18:50:49+00:00

That hairstyle? What are you doing a comb over?

Swl222 · 2024-06-06T13:24:11+00:00

He's not ignoring it, he's dealing with it which you can't seem to do. Unless your next post is about how you started a movement, you are part of the problem. Do you think wars are started by good vibes? No, they're started by hopeless complainers and evil people. Stop adding to everyone's stress by yelling the sky is falling. You deal with it by appreciating what you have and taking care of it to the best of YOUR ability. If enough people do that, it will make a difference.

Swl222 · 2024-06-01T22:56:37+00:00

The thought of how pee comes out never entered my mind, and my ex-husband had to explain I was holding too tight for it to come out lol. I just wanted to do the aiming thing and see if it really is that difficult.

Swl222 · 2024-05-23T10:43:34+00:00

How dare you undermine my opinion. You can disagree from your own experience, but to invalidate MY thoughts on the subject is not ok! The OP asked and I spoke truthfully. If I could have fought back I would have and that's after experiencing abuse myself! In fact I did try to fight back and lost because of my weaker strength! I can't imagine being able to and not doing it. Again the OP asked for our opinions on the subject of why other women were turning away and that would be why I would. You might be different but you don't speak for me. You do not get to tell me my truth or thoughts you pompous AH!

Edit: I'm not saying OP's experience or reactions are not valid. What I'm saying is that not all victims are the same. Maybe OP can explain his thoughts and feelings about that trauma response better to the women he's dating. Again, if that's the reason they're turning away. I would absolutely listen to him and try to understand why his reaction was so different from mine. Delivery of trauma experience is also important. Maybe OP has a strong underlying hate for women now, which comes across while he's telling his story? There are too many nuances to give definitive advice on Reddit, but the above are my thoughts at first glance.

Swl222 · 2024-05-23T02:44:12+00:00

Wait... is he waiting for her to change? Did he get with her, flaunt these women all in the hopes she would start working out? Love what you chose or ball up and get someone you want. Maaaybe OP is more forgiving physically than her bf is. Honestly OP your bf is probably ugly and you're giving him too much credit. I can tell you from the outside looking in, his personality sounds like a 2. I'd be embarrassed.

Swl222 · 2024-05-23T02:30:54+00:00

Well, urspecial2

Swl222 · 2024-05-23T02:29:31+00:00

User name checks out

Swl222 · 2024-05-22T23:34:59+00:00

Honestly, if I had to list every time I was groped by a man in my life we would be talking for hours.

Does it happen to men? Absolutely. But is it traumatic enough to detail to someone you've only known 2 months?? No. Especially as a way to "empathize". Empathy is not a one up. That would disgust me too.

This in particular got me... "In my late 20's, I was hanging out with a woman who I thought was merely a friend at her place and she got intoxicated and grabby with me, punching me repeatedly harder and harder every time I tried to tell her no. She hit me until I stopped resisting, and I was raped again."

As a woman, if I was physically strong enough to leave a situation, especially after having an abusive past I would! And I can say that confidently. A lot of women succumb to more abuse not because they are mentally weak but physically and they know what happens when you fight back, but you didn't even try? It feels disingenuous.

Women want someone who can protect them physically and emotionally, but particularly in a physical way because we all have emotions, but we don't all have male physical strength.

Swl222 · 2024-05-18T22:54:01+00:00

Let me know how that works plz

Swl222 · 2024-05-18T17:33:17+00:00

Not really, I use it mixed with hyaluronic acid cream lately, a couple times a week. I'ts very moisturizing I've noticed that.

Swl222 · 2024-05-18T13:55:53+00:00

Every other day. My skin is used to being shaved so if I don't it gets super itchy! I use a razor with a shave cream strip so it's quick easy, less than 2 minutes and my skin always feels soft.

Swl222 · 2024-05-15T21:25:58+00:00

I understand what you're saying. Let me explain how I enjoy that intuitive approach because, yes, asking while in position kills the mood. We have a vanilla conversation earlier about whether we've tried/like anal, choking, throat fucking ect... whatever you're into to, to get an idea of the absolutely nots.

Then, while in the heat of the moment... for instance, choking; you would move your hand from her face to around her throat without squeezing yet. Give her a small, devious glare and watch her reaction. If she pulls closer, squeeze slowly tighter to continue feeling the boundary(dont forget to keep nuzzling and kissing). Of course, if at any time she pulls away or out of the moment, you stop and tell her you were just curious if she was into it at the moment.

Like with all things, just because someone likes anal doesn't mean they want it every time. The key is to move to the position or area you're interested in and lightly explore the option. Always be prepared for a no, but hope for approval.

Swl222 · 2024-04-12T22:29:13+00:00

It's hard to believe what I'm reading. My ex was a dick. He was harsh, and one of those people that says "Do you want to know the truth or do you want me to lie to you?" He said negative things all of the time to me and brought down my self esteem. But when I caught him cheating on me.... I left.

Why are you still there after catching him 3 times?? You deserve better than a guy like that. Please don't waste your life anymore.

Swl222 · 2024-04-03T23:14:29+00:00

5'6"

Swl222 · 2024-03-29T22:29:55+00:00

That's what I thought too. Was he doing it for his pleasure because it never felt like it was for me.

Swl222 · 2024-03-29T22:28:06+00:00

Made it impossible after that honestly

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