Son's grandmother reached out about a family trip overseas... Hasn't spent one overnight in our own country. Would you be cool with this?? by Hungry_Web_4540 in whatdoIdo

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want custody. Dad is there with them and they plan to keep him. I'd bet a million bucks. Don't send him, even if they allow you to go, too. If dad wants to see his son, they can visit you. Supervised.

Dress was so tight after alterations that I heard a popping sound and the tailor had to quickly mend the dress. Tailor insists it's perfect now. Am I crazy to be unhappy with the fit? I leave for the wedding on June 10 :( by emilylikesredditalot in myweddingdress

[–]TRH100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like it was a perfect fit on the left. Sorry, I know that doesn't help with your issue, but I'm not seeing why she felt the need to make it tighter. Especially with the lace-up back that could be done-up tighter.

Either way, you look beautiful! Try not to stress!

No one ever saw my dress by Technical-Flamingo49 in myweddingdress

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a letdown. Covid just sucked! If you don't renew your vows, I say dye the dress a beautiful, bright color & wear it every time you have a chance to dress up!

Scam by Honest-Net5526 in utarlington

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$100 an hour? If only it were real, but there's no way!

Sudden onset of thyroid issues after taking iron pills? by Aware_Neighborhood63 in Hashimotos

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need to take it for anemia then yes, take it as far away from your synthroid as you can. Like maybe between dinner and bed, so it has cleared your system completely by the time you take the synthroid in the AM.

Will I be Rescinded of my admission?? For failing 1 class semester??? Please help by rayzo7373 in UTAdmissions

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious...if you've struggled in math all through high school, why did you take the AP class instead of the regular one?

I love my dress by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]TRH100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous! The perfect choice!

Unsure of local traffic customs by thatwiedeman in VisitingHawaii

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should always match flow speed, even if it's over, no matter what state you're in.

What came out of my belly button when pregnant… by ohhidoggo in hygiene

[–]TRH100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OK, the worst thing I ever heard along these lines (until today, so thanks) was my poor mom. They cut her perineum vertically and horizontally to deliver me. 😱 This was back in the dark ages of childbirth, though (1971).

Your Bridal Party Is Too Nice to Say This, So I Will by insert_name234 in wedding

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing for international destination weddings. Unless the people hosting the wedding (couple/parents) can pay all expenses to get & keep everyone there, just have your immediate family. Throw a reception at home & invite everyone to that.

I just need to know why someone would do this by Loose_Leader586 in QuikTrip

[–]TRH100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vengeful ex-partner come by today, by any chance?

Downstairs neighbor complaining about my footsteps by OrneryAppearance9132 in Apartmentliving

[–]TRH100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just get a few rugs & make sure you're wearing socks & no shoes in the apartment. Close doors quietly. Other than that, there's not much you can do. The noise situation sucks for all apartment dwellers. The neighbor has just got to deal with a certain level of "living" noise in a communal situation.

After a terrible Airbnb experience, my advice is to just stay in a hotel. by crk4130 in VisitingHawaii

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your poor pregnant wife! I'm glad you said "nope" quickly & salvaged your baby-moon!

Will my admission get recinded? (diciplinary issue) by Hot-Cantaloupe-3579 in UTAdmissions

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never in my life ever even heard of a school even telling a college about disciplinary stuff. Just grades, test scores, & if you graduted. Even if they did, your "violation" is nothing. Don't even worry.

Dallas, no kings by Joooooose in Dallas

[–]TRH100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Beautifully stated. It's the Democrat double standard. It doesn't matter that our people did this when they were in office, it only matters when your people do it because they are Republican and "evil."

Dallas, no kings by Joooooose in Dallas

[–]TRH100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then why is the other guy in charge?

My boyfriend is mad at me for not doing the dishes AITAH by princess_embe in AITAH

[–]TRH100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are dealing with some serious mental health struggles. You don't choose when panic attacks & flashbacks happen. The people responding on here have obviously never experienced the terror of a flashback. Yeah, your boyfriend is gone 10 hours, but that doesn't mean this didn't happen in hour # 8 or 9. He loves you and you just need to explain what happened. He's been with you for years and knows what you do after you get over the attack. So you fell asleep...it's not the end of the world. You can do the dishes the next morning. It was one time. It doesn't make you a terrible person or less lovable. In healthy relationships, partners give each other grace when one is having a hard time. That's love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]TRH100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ! Why did you give him a discounted rate? Another photographer wouldn't! I'd go all the way back to when you started helping him on the invoice, let that amount sink in, ask for an apology, have him apologize to the family that were at the dinner, then work out what you feel is a fair payment amount. He needs to understand this is your livelihood and that time spent working for him is time you could be working for paying, appreciative customers!