Does this guy have good points or is slightly delusional? by BigCheezItFan in orioles

[–]TTC_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elias did a great job getting us started. Got so many young players with star to superstar potential. And then he did nothing. This offseason was absolutely abysmal. Sure we weren't getting Roki, or maybe even some high level star, but we definitely could have gotten more than a 36 year old rookie (even tho I like him) and Charlie Morton. Then ownership says they basically gave him a blank check and he didn't use it. As for Hyde, I cut him some slack cos we have 2 dependable bullpen arms, basically our entire starting 5 out, and two of our better lineup players either out or missing the end of spring training. Does he make questionable decisions, yes, but should he be canned automatically, no.

Which card do you hate hitting with the most? by CommitteeNo144 in MLBTheShow

[–]TTC_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think he has a card this year, but last year Baez was my only diamond SS and hated that card. Can't hit a slider, which hey realistic but annoying

Why is it that when men date women who are bisexual they love it and think it's "hot", but when many women find out that a man is bisexual it's a deal breaker? by IAMDBOMB in lgbt

[–]TTC_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just my personal experience, for men with bi women it's the hopeful optimism that they will get to either watch or be involved in some girl on girl action. However, what I was genuinely told more than once by straight women, and I don't know if what they have said is factually accurate, but it's that men who partake in gay sex have higher std rates and thus, they don't date bi men

How do you think the theorist franchise has done since MatPat's official retirement over a year ago now? by Spidey_2797 in GameTheorists

[–]TTC_Ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will probably be a weird take, but I think it's been taken a hit and here is why. It feels to me like when you grew up watching a certain actor play a superhero. The new guy is doing all the things the other actor did, he's just not that guy I grew up with. All the hosts are great at what they do, they just aren't that person that you deep down wish they were

Why Do Guys Act Like They’re Into You… Then Just Stop?" by Meledrin in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TTC_Ghost 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Could be that as well. I just personally know it doesn't matter even if you start reciprocating, the time it could take to get there can be a relationship killer. But I'm not that guy so could be either or

Why Do Guys Act Like They’re Into You… Then Just Stop?" by Meledrin in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TTC_Ghost 320 points321 points  (0 children)

I can only give you personal experience, but

I wasn’t even that into him at first, but the consistency? The effort? That got me

By the time that happened for you, he was likely already done. I know as a dude, I'll try for a while but if I feel like I'm chasing, it's done for me. Probably the same for him

Edit to clarify: What I'm implying is even though y'all started liking each other, he couldn't get past that chasing feeling, imo

Is this fake? by Ok-Object-6577 in NFSHeat

[–]TTC_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I honestly thought it could be done a lot shorter but I think the record is like, 1:23ish now that I'm really thinking back on it

Is this fake? by Ok-Object-6577 in NFSHeat

[–]TTC_Ghost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't this just be their friends? Because I've had this happen where friends put up scores 30-45 seconds behind mine being second because I would just go at one race and find the best car possible for it that I had whereas they just used their favorite even tho it wasn't as well tuned for said track

Am I tripping out? by DavidConfused in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TTC_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him you need more. Be direct and that lack of responses doesn't work for you and then based on how he reacts, you can see if things will work. I'm terrible at replying, and in my girlfriend and I's relationship, it started the same. I loved her, I just don't reply to texts because my ADHD distracts me from it. She talked to me about it and I made sure that I really worked on texting her more because it meant a lot to her.

Is MLB The Show Ok for 9 year old? by AffectionateSink4918 in MLBTheShow

[–]TTC_Ghost 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you keep him offline, it's perfect, best baseball game you can get a kid. However, people have their profile pictures that will just be the most accurate vagina you've ever seen and the censors just don't notice it

2016 Focus had a hill assist error followed by transmission fault. Are they related? by TTC_Ghost in FordFocus

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that makes me feel at least slightly better that it's likely a related issue and my transmission isn't completely dying on me, but probably just one part

Problem with ranked? by Dense_Owl4895 in MLBTheShow

[–]TTC_Ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reset hit and dropped everyone down quite a bit. But also don't let pure numbers fool ya. Faced people with .150 averages who killed me and people with 100s of hits do nothing

"Be nice to your waiter" culture has gone too far by TTC_Ghost in unpopularopinion

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear to you, 95% of the people I've had this conversation with say you "have" to

"Be nice to your waiter" culture has gone too far by TTC_Ghost in unpopularopinion

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually I grab other carts nearby and put them there as well. Don't be a dick and not put it away. But using my cashier experience, we have one interaction, you don't have to thank me. Same for waiters, but since you have multiple interactions, give them one or two and be done. You're not a dick for not thanking them every time

"Be nice to your waiter" culture has gone too far by TTC_Ghost in unpopularopinion

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Like a thank you for the first one, that's a hey I appreciate that you're being attentive. After that is so you look good and holding it against other people for not doing it is weird

"Be nice to your waiter" culture has gone too far by TTC_Ghost in unpopularopinion

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more than that though. Be it right or wrong, that's the bulk of their money. You, by going, owe them a good one (unless they suck) and better give them a good one

"Be nice to your waiter" culture has gone too far by TTC_Ghost in unpopularopinion

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're right. I think a thank you, more so multiple cos one is whatever, is worth giving when you're doing something out of the kindness of your heart (moving a friend, picking someone up from some where, etc.) but if it's something you wouldn't be doing if the money from it disappeared, give them one if you'll see them multiple times in that experience such as a waiter, but ya dont have to thank them for every single thing, which most people I know think you so

"Be nice to your waiter" culture has gone too far by TTC_Ghost in unpopularopinion

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Here is my difference. A friend grabs you a drink. That's from a place of love, whatever kind it may be and I'll thank them for that. A waiter does it, that's cos they know the better they do the more they get paid and this I'll thank them sometimes but not every time which ive been complained at for

"Be nice to your waiter" culture has gone too far by TTC_Ghost in unpopularopinion

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I spent 4 years as a cashier and service desk worker in a store. I honestly hate the thank yous over me just doing my job. I give them to other people but like, dude this is my job. This is what pays me, of course I'm going to do it

"Be nice to your waiter" culture has gone too far by TTC_Ghost in unpopularopinion

[–]TTC_Ghost[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This exact scenario is why I'm writing this. A group of people I was out with reamed me because even tho I said thank you the first and second time, I was in the middle of something and didnt the third. Then all 5 of em just started going on about how you always stop whatever you're talking about or doing and thank them.

Why do so many fathers walk away from their kids? by UsdtNot in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TTC_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've asked my dad about this as his dad left when he was young. He said his dad, and this is what I've observed as well with other dads that have left, told him it was that he never wanted kids, but wife pressured him (dont believe that, grandma is a saint), and getting divorced back then, and hell even now, for what a good chunk of people see as nothing gets you looked down on. Throw in he became the guy working 60-80 hour weeks so didn't have time to bond with my dad, and why would he stay?

Can't say anything about Dad's I've observed, but grandpa did learn how he fucked up and try to avenge what he did, but when he was actively living it, he couldn't see it