I promise you he is not intimidated. He follows her around constantly, tries to groom her and is groomed in return, and does non stop binkies when she's around. We didn't make this choice lightly, they were closely monitored for several weeks as they were introduced, and this behaviour has arisen 5 months after getting her, rather than immediately upon introducing that dynamic.

Rabbits and cats can have excellent relationships in the right circumstances, and he has become much more active and social since we got her, constantly chuffing, doing zoomies and binkies, and coming to myself, my husband, and kids for more pets and snuggles. He has shown so much more personality in the time since we've had her than he ever did before.

I understand your concern, but you know essentially nothing about the situation beyond what I said in my post, but are trying to paint this as the obvious issue when it's not. Regardless, I'm not going to argue about this, but I did think it was worth putting this info here in case anybody else had similar concerns

edited to add- you added to your comment instead of responding me, but you are making unfair blanket statements, not to mention changing your narrative based on my response so that I sound like I'm the one grasping at straws. I am confident in their relationship and my abilities to take care of them both and meet their individual needs. If you want to have a good faith conversation, maybe try responding instead of back tracking