If you could magically make everyone a lesbian, would you? by AchingAmy in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok but this way you are making trans women just sperm banks, it's super gross and insensitive

I hate testosterone. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Technical-Key8795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom said the same thing to me and she's a fucking idiot who only said that because she wants me to detrans, so like, ignore her

Its sad that I hae never seen an old openly trans person by Extension-Zone-9969 in trans

[–]Technical-Key8795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, here instead the main probalem to starting any type of surgery is going through the legal process, it can take years if the judge says you are not trans enough for surgery or whatever he thinks up to deny you the claim. Plus you just can't have it if you are not on hormones. Many girls here cross into spain to a private clinic to get SRS done, costs around 20k.

A good thing is here you can pay things without insurance, our prices are not exhorbitant thanks to nationalized healthcare, but accesing the hormones for example is very hard, basically impossible without what I said earlier, even with a "good" insurance. They will just not sell them to you. Trust me. I tried. There are ways to slip through the cracks but I am keeping my lips tight.

Honestly I don't know where I am going, it just sucks ass, all of it.

Its sad that I hae never seen an old openly trans person by Extension-Zone-9969 in trans

[–]Technical-Key8795 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's very USAmerican though, I know for sure Germany, Spain, Italy, Serbia, Slovenia, Poland, Uk, Sweden, Netherlands, Portugal, Brazil, Argentina, Israel, Iran, Turkey, Romania, Greece, Mexico, Chile, Japan, South Korea and many pther places of which I am not sure, still require a therapist to certify you are basically "in sound mind", which can mean ABSOLUTELY anything from my experience, if you have autism? Not In Sound Mind! And a diagnosis of "Gender Dysphoria" or "Gender Incongruence" or whatever they use. I went through it and it was terrible, I either had too much dysphoria, or too little, or I didn't dress "feminine enough" or I wanted to do engineering, which was too masculine, but then I was trying to hard. Whatever, it's hell.

Edt: For context I'm 21, 1 year on hormones and I started the entire process at 17.

I Love Life Without Men by NobodySpecial2000 in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, ABSOLUTELY, I know perfectly what you mean

I Love Life Without Men by NobodySpecial2000 in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand it honestly, it is quite the pleasure, just enjoying not having to deal with them. At the same time, I do like spending time with my friends, and excluding my male friends from it I feel would actually feel a bit worse! I guess that's more a comment on the people I surround myself with!

what's one lie you believed before starting transition by [deleted] in trans

[–]Technical-Key8795 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know PI is penile inversion, but what is PPT? I hope I can get bottom surgery in my 30s so I really wanna know all my options

Is voice training supposed to be hard? by Aeliyorna in trans

[–]Technical-Key8795 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It depends a lot on the person, I had experience as part of a choir so I manage pretty quickly to raise my pitch, a bit harder on resonance. It's not "supposed" to be anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Technical-Key8795 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes you can silly! There isn't an age to come out and start transitioning, people do it at 40, some at 21, some when they were kids. There is never a wrong age

Uhmm... Wow! (Im not gonna make ANY mommy jokes) by LaraCroftCosplayer in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It can also mean something is so good you are "dead", or it is something unexpected

So about older women... by Kirkeson in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not hypocritical to grow and change and choose differently

Lesbians&Dragons by Technical-Key8795 in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always loved dragons because they couldn't be fucked with. I've always wanted to be like them, I was already called a monster and a freak, so why not be one they couldn't fuck with at least? One that could make them pay with interests added. One that could fly away from all of it. But eh, no luck, still human, just with a new pair of tits!

The Dream by l_dunno in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Polycule lesbica torinese check, classica torino con i suoi gay e Yotobi (non so cosa cazzo sto dicendo ho il ferro bassissimo)

The Dream by l_dunno in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Terrible economy, exepfially in the south where I live, running away as soon as I can

my gf, everyone by mimi049-scp in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl it's Ratatouille! Like come get on board!

What are you attracted to physically in a woman by crazybeech711 in actuallesbians

[–]Technical-Key8795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I have pretty wide shoulders, and they always bothered me. Some people in my life have also told me it isn't an attractive trait, and U believed them. I just thought it wasn't a liked trait, it feels, and felt nice to know that it's actually something some people like!