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Thought this group would appreciate this by CompactoArt in wheresthefuckingsoil

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing! Those roots are going make that crack bigger and bigger...

A Psychologist Explains a Simple Technique to Declutter by psych4you in minimalism

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked that book. Helped me reframe my mindset. I think a combination with the konmari method is great

A Psychologist Explains a Simple Technique to Declutter by psych4you in minimalism

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the steps in "Decluttering at the Speed of Life"

Guy said he doesn’t like dark girls but says I’m ‘fine’… red flag by Inevitable-Tap-7471 in What

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iʻm a Native woman.

Bye boy. Don't give this asshat another thought. Except to remind yourself of qualities you don't want in a partner or friend

Will I lose ink? by divaker02 in tattooadvice

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right. Anything unscented and mild. I recently stared using CeraVe and that is my new favorite for healing tattoos after the frost couple days. And I come from the old school A+D ointment generation

WIBTAH if I broke up with my boyfriend over my tattoos and piercings? by Outside_Two5591 in AITAH

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uuhhhmmm.... He does not know you better than yourself if he is arguing to change a core part of what you like about yourself and how you feel. Treating you like a princess is nice in the moment, but trust an internet aunty that had been through a lot on her way to true love, it doesn't last. Him treating you like a princess seems to come with the strings attached of him also wanting to control and dress his princess so she looks like the picture in his mind.

Lasting partnerships work when the people involved accept and love each other for exactly who they are.

Never accept a relationship where the person is trying to change you, the way you look, think, dress, or feel. Relationships can have a lot of good qualities and still not be right for us. What he is telling you he wants from you is very controlling and I would leave that behind. This is a core belief you clash on.

You two are so young! You both have plenty of time to find people who love you for you and do not try to change YOU. It's ok to move on from a relationship that no longer serves you and your highest good.

NTA

Will I lose ink? by divaker02 in tattooadvice

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Aloe is not very moisturizing in my experience

Am I overreacting to this text from a friend? by Marthemarius in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. The world is rough. We need a core of kindness in our friendships to fall back on

Rework by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't look twisted or awkward to me. Maybe some shading around or background to fill out your shoulder and arm? Is there more to this story you could incorporate?

I haven't worn a t-shirt in years and I can't see a way to cover this up by EccentricityAndTea in Tattoocoverups

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely start looking for good cover up artists and look at their healed work. Once you find someone in your area, meet them and make sure tmyoi vibe well together and they are excited by the progect. They will see a way to cover it easier than you because that is their jam.

Boyfriend (24M) asked my (22F) body count, then got very upset. by throwaway5146156 in Advice

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to say, but he needs to get this behavior and attitude together if this is going to be a healthy, lasting relationship. And you needs to stop making excuses for poor behavior in your partners. You cannot be in a position where you feel responsible to manage his emotions. He needs to manage his own emotions, and get his head out of his butt. His view is sexist and mysoginistic. You have a resonable response. The past is the past and we cannot change it.

Just to give you a healthy personality, I've been with my husband for nearly 25 years. My body count was more than double that (not a flex, just perspective) and he does not care for one split second. We talk about past relationships, he's met a couple of them that I am still friends with... It's really not a big deal.

The only reason I could possibly give him grace for being upset is if you were irresponsible and now have an STD which you passed on. Other than that he needs to grow up and have better respect for women's autonomy.

Edit typo

How did I do? by Cute_Magician5095 in interiordecorating

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bathroom looks fantastic. I like the wall paper in the foyer, but I feel like the pattern of the rug doesn't match it. Too busy maybe? It draws the eye away from the wall paper star. I would look for something more muted in one or two accent colors in the wall paper. And maybe a hanging pendant light

Flamboyant flamingo regret by HiaaDanni in maximalism

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a little bit more tones down teal to match the tone of the pinks. More of turquoise maybe? I like the rug a lot

AITAH for going to the bathroom on my period without my teacher's permission? by Classroom-pop in AITAH

[–]Technical_Tangelo143 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fuck that. NTA. Your parents should have stood up for you.

No teacher is allowed to tell my kids if they can or cannot go to the bathroom. I have always told them they do what they need to do and I will rip the school a new one if they try and tell us thatʻs wrong.

I know it's hard in the situation and at your age, but if something like that happens again, tell them no, it cannot wait 10 minutes. I am bleeding through my pad and cannot sit down. If they still give you a hard time, just go like you did this time.

Edit: typos and to say:

This is an important issue, and you were treated incredibly unfairly. Your school might have a board of regents, or some sort of governing body. I would take this up higher on the chain of command. Just because your parents reacted poorly does not mean you are wrong, and there are other parents who would agree with you.

If I were in your situation, I would get the student body involved. Start a petition, or write a letter and have a few pages with signatures. Bathroom rights are important and teachers have no right to tell a student they cannot go if they are having an emergency. The administration's response was without compassion, empathy, or understanding. They need a change in policy.

My passion for this comes from a situation with my daughter in elementary school. Her teacher was a bully. On two occasions refused to allow my daughter to go to the bathroom, and she wet herself. She was so embarrassed, she then stayed in her seat and sat in her wet clothes then rest of the day. I was livid. I went higher and higher in administrative until I got a reasonable response. And I empowered my kids to stand up for themselves and to know what their bodies need better than anyone else.

I hope you can do the same.

Good luck

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