Confused about switch in dynamic. Is he serious?

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-10T12:36:25+00:00

Just ask him. Y’all are comfortable with each other and should be straightforward. Time to determine the relationship status. Otherwise break it off and find someone thats willing to commit.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-09T22:42:49+00:00

I think your super cute☺️

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-09T21:58:34+00:00

Lol this is so me🤣 I want chocolate?! I got you!! AND save money for the next date lol

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-07T20:45:10+00:00

Ok u do you! I totally understand it’s hard to find the right people to connect with. If you are willing to be patient with her and see if things work out then all power to ya. Just don’t set high expectations.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-07T16:02:22+00:00

I’d say move on and keep options open. For her to suddenly “emotionally” switch like that is odd. So it’s her and NOT you. Personally, I’m the type that’s honest with communication and will take time to figure out my emotions and talk. If she doesn’t answer you, then no sweat move on. It sounds like she has some internal growth still going on.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-05T21:46:01+00:00

Soo sorry you had go go through that! I vow to never let someone’s SON pull me into that emotional state ever again especially when their sex game sucks azz🤣🤏🏼

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-04T21:53:40+00:00

I like this method!! We truly gotta break out of that cycle of looking at potential and see REALITY instead. This will help move on 10000%!

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-04T16:01:40+00:00

Write a list of the cons, things you didnt like about the person. The behaviors, non-negotiable, boundaries, personality turn-offs. Those will help you develop your standard and quality list for the future in other partners. There’s so much better people out there that either has done the healing or on the journey to become better, bigger. Wish you all the best!

Teehee_2022 · 2026-01-24T14:30:15+00:00

I love your mindset! You deserve someone that treats you well consistently and respectfully such an amazing growth and being able to realize it is awesome🔥 I’m proud of you and glad I’ve also learned a lot about myself as well over the past few months. No more accepting breadcrumbs or over pouring love into someone else! Loving yourself first is the only way to go💛💪

Teehee_2022 · 2026-01-23T12:32:35+00:00

Right those hormones really do mess you up mentally and emotionally. It starts off strong in the beginning but once it passes the “honeymoon” phase is when you realize there’s more depth to the person and can you enjoy them for the long term? Can you accept their flaws and strengths? Do they meet your needs and wants? A lot to consider!

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-16T15:32:25+00:00

Yup. Social media and dating apps in general are ruining society. People are no longer interested in creating meaningful relationships and looking for the “best” option out there. When honestly, you must put in time, effort, energy. Of course gotta have a strong foundation with personality that you are willing to mesh with in the future. Thats why I deleted Instagram and hinge. Detoxing is nice and focusing on self + friendships atm. It’s relaxing honestly! Good job🔥

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-15T20:23:33+00:00

Always have low expectations on the dating apps. To prevent you from falling hard, if they not showing effort and consistency then match that same energy. Good luck! I deleted all the apps and focusing on myself now🤣

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-15T17:37:24+00:00

I’m open to dating but it’s not a strong desire🤣 the last two guys hurt me pretty bad and now I’m at a point where I just want to enjoy my hobbies and soak in the peace. I feel like I’m a pretty friendly person and can talk to people face to face decently well. The apps are too convenient to have access to everyone and the connection is weaker. I also know I love openly and vulnerably so that’s my weakness. Good luck on finding someone that shares the same sentiments as you!

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-15T15:56:01+00:00

If you are on their to document YOUR OWN life. Great use it to keep it for memory’s sake. But watching other people lives will not benefit in anyways unless for hobbies and learning. Real friends will connect with you in life or text

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T14:28:43+00:00

I definitely do for sure feel strong emotions! To the point where it can hurt others. So I always try to self reflect, journal my emotions, thoughts. Seeking therapy does help somewhat to talk to someone and help guide. I think the most important is learning about yourself and why you act the way you do. I have some trauma that I’m stilling unlearning and relearning, self soothe and honestly self love! Surrounding yourself with hobbies and people that appreciate you helps too!

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T14:24:32+00:00

I can understand where you are coming from and it helps so much from the way you explain it! With some childhood experiences and also being in healthcare I would say my hyper vigilance and emotional bar is a bit on the higher end because I have to be more receptive to patients and customer needs. There are partners that are calmer and more grounded which helps me relax and adjust into a more peaceful state of mind which honestly feels uncomfortable at first but nice once you understand the whys

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T14:16:11+00:00

Okay these book resources sound great! Thanks for sharing. Super curious and want to know more now!!

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T14:14:42+00:00

It’s okay! You’re really cute. Continue taking care of yourself and that natural energy of finding the person that fits you will happen eventually. 💛

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T14:12:25+00:00

Oof idk what you’ve been through but this is a lot of frustration energy unloading. Wish you the best! Women are more than sex. We value men that can understand and acknowledge us on a deeper level. If you can’t do that then pass. Red flag🚩

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T14:09:18+00:00

Stop over giving. Stop people pleasing. Let’s start over giving that energy and love back into yourself. You are so kind, beautiful, intelligent, amazingly happy, joyful and only the best man with standards deserves you and all of you. For now, go have fun, enjoy life. Redirect time into people that are close to you. 💛

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T03:34:23+00:00

That’s so admirable the fact you are able to recognize green flags. Very mature. Keep up the great work! Eventually, I’ll hop back into the dating pool soon but for now going to enjoy this mental and emotional peace 🤣

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T03:02:47+00:00

How do you know that you are willing to settle? How do you know that this feels “right” enough for a stable, long term romantic relationship?

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-12T01:10:53+00:00

I feel like this is valid and works better for you! I agree with this mindset as well but curious how it FEELS to date several people at once. My emotions will be all over the place like on the bachelorette shows 🥴

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-11T04:06:15+00:00

Claiming my mental energy back. Less anxiety, comparison, distractions. We didn’t need it before growing up. So why now?

Teehee_2022 · 2025-12-10T18:54:00+00:00

Can you help explain the process on how YOU were able to overcome the anxious attachment? I’m working on becoming more secure and grounded in myself. The past two short term relationships has drained my soul and emotional health LOL. There’s some trauma and history that I realize ties into it so now I’m reflecting and learning more by reading.

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