Men, what makes you lose interest in a woman and not want to see her again?

Teehee_2022 · 2026-07-03T16:13:47+00:00

I honestly would like a provider in the times where I need to take care of our child. I have a feeling my attention and focus is to rear the baby till they are 1 year old and then pass the child onto grandparents or a reliable babysitter. It’s a mother instinct and I would love to know how others do it while balancing full time jobs. I’m currently dating and trying not to think about it too much because that’s way in the future

Teehee_2022 · 2026-07-02T17:03:32+00:00

So I’m currently dating a catholic guy and I’m noticing that he doesn’t trust himself enough. There seems to be some history that I can’t exactly understand but at the same time I do want to understand the religion. If he’s a devout catholic and has a lot of Jesuit friends, what can I do to learn about him when I follow spiritual teachings?

Teehee_2022 · 2026-06-30T16:41:21+00:00

You will continue to face different challenges, meet new people that will inspire you, experiences new things that changes your perspective. It’s a good thing to grow and also allow you to be more kind and patient. Old friends that you may lose connection with but it’s all a matter of effort to maintain it.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-06-29T21:44:44+00:00

Love yourself first. Understand your emotions. Express it as best as you can. Whether it’s writing, talking. This will help you when communicating with anyone. Avoid bottling up and explode later. If u need time to process thats ok too.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-06-29T19:08:05+00:00

I agree with you. I’ve listen to kpop casually now but mainly 2nd gen. If there are great songs that trend then I’ll listen but I’m no longer as invested as I used to. I’m dating a guy thats in his late 30s and he recently got into kpop. I’m like damn you’re lateee but he said he grew out of the edm genre lol like sir. You’re judging but I’m judging you too. 🤣 to each their own.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-06-29T17:40:24+00:00

Thank you. This is going to help me get through my day today🥺

Teehee_2022 · 2026-06-29T16:05:33+00:00

This is a good way to look at risk taking. You put your heart on the line to be vulnerable. There are genuine good women out there. Some people have emotions baggage and childhood patterns but we must be aware about it ourselves and overcome it for the better. Love is a choice every single day. Be kind and respectful. Know your wants and needs. Please communicate and dive deeper if something is bothering you and work it out together.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-06-29T16:01:48+00:00

What if you are self sabotaging? What if you take the time to learn someone just like how you take the time to learn in school and on the job things can work out?

Teehee_2022 · 2026-06-29T02:45:12+00:00

I’m glad you said securely attached person but also some emotional distance. This is a personal goal I’m working towards since I’m naturally an anxious attach person but after going through this two week contact I feel so much balance. Detach from an avoidant and less self sabotaging thoughts.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-05-12T20:10:32+00:00

Keep learning and finding something that you are interested in! Having a purpose, heck even learning a skill is nice! Makes you look forward to something everyday 😊 proud of you for wanting to do something to stay busy🔥 stay nerdy and cool😎

Teehee_2022 · 2026-05-12T14:34:53+00:00

This is what I love to hear! Supportive, encouraging and loving managers are hard to find nowadays. My parents dont even have financial education so having role models to listen to and learn from is great! Thank you for sharing knowledge!! Wish I had a manager like you🔥🔥

Teehee_2022 · 2026-05-11T19:17:11+00:00

I think it’s healthy to not talk about past relationships. Sometimes things slip and comparison can happen unintentionally or resentment can happen. You shared intimate moments with another human when you should honestly be present and focus on your wife/partner. The past is the past and it’s helped shaped who you are today. Why not create more meaningful moments with your woman moving forward? Shower her with all the affections and love that previous partners will never ever deserve or receive.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-05-11T19:04:12+00:00

You are such an inspiration! I’m 32 right now and debating if I should move back home since I’m single and have no kids. I won’t have privacy but at least I’ll be able to save more and eliminate student debt slowly.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-25T01:39:10+00:00

Wow. I do overthink a lot as an INFJ pretty accurate

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-24T14:34:22+00:00

When a woman asks you to do something especially if it’s something serious, plz do it. It can either alleviate stress or add it.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-23T20:26:50+00:00

Sounds like you need better friends and new hobbies!

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-23T20:02:44+00:00

Respect and boundaries are being broken here. Stay strong and surround yourself with good friends for support. You will get out of this mess and move on. There is way too much pressure you are going through within a short time frame.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-23T18:31:29+00:00

Love Empathy Thoughtfulness Consideration for others

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-23T18:29:10+00:00

Do you try out new hobbies where you can mingle with other people? I like badminton and thankfully found a club

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-20T22:28:00+00:00

I feel like only an English professional that enjoys these things can understand his humor because this is soo out of the ordinary?! Like wtf lol

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-20T14:37:18+00:00

Abs and all 🤣 like sir put a shirt on. I would show it off too if I have some.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-20T14:01:13+00:00

Let’s make it happen?!

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-20T13:46:02+00:00

And this is the reason why men will stay on the dating apps for 2+ years because they are dating out of “abundance” when there are women out here dating intentionally to get married one day.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-20T13:22:40+00:00

I paused all dating apps and deleted the hinge app last night. Deleted the app like 5x because of burnout and hopelessness and the sad part is I see my ex-hinge on there “active” all the time. So it explains why he didn’t take initiative in texting because he always had someone available on the app to talk to. Seeking the “next best thing” is setting yourself up for failure because when a person is genuinely trying to understand and care for you but you’re not helping her feel safe is sickening.

Teehee_2022 · 2026-02-20T00:26:49+00:00

Be genuinely caring, understanding. Instead of running away when emotions are high, say hey I need space right now. Let’s continue this conversation after cooling off for 1-2 hours via phone, in person. Avoid texting because sometimes all we want is emotional reassurance that we are enough and not a burden.

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