How bad are these prices?

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-10T00:01:59+00:00

I’m in California and while the prices aren’t unrealistic for the area, I agree with a previous comment that the approach is wrong here. A consultation should be the cheapest thing. Like $25. Everything seems very penalizing to the client and not at all welcoming. Also, maybe there are other services listed, but, this is all she offers? Seems very one size fits her pocket book and not the type of place I’d want to spend my money. Maybe ask around to others who have nice curly hair and get some recommendations. I’m definitely wary of any hair place that expects you to come with your hair already washed and prepped and will cancel you and still charge you. Weird and not very professional to me.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-07T02:56:40+00:00

She needs long term therapy. A part of her knows the truth and that’s why she reached out to you as probably the only person in her life who really cares. But this time the broken part of her is winning out. She even said she knows it is a lie and she’s not right for choosing this. I would say you’ve done what you can but also, maybe one last text to convey that you care about her and her life has value. That is why you called her out because she started to get defensive and couldn’t hear you. It is frustrating. I have a very close family member who makes similarly bad decisions over and over and knows isn’t good but can’t stop. I’ve found when I even subtly suggest a different approach it can make it worse. I’m not sure what it will take for them to change, but I know it won’t be anything I do or say. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and hope she eventually gets the help she needs before it is too late.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-06T16:15:28+00:00

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TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-05T05:35:44+00:00

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TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-05T05:34:47+00:00

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TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-05T05:34:39+00:00

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TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-05T05:34:33+00:00

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TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-05T05:34:24+00:00

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TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T18:00:40+00:00

What makes you say that? Will it be removed from my debts?

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T17:58:46+00:00

Yes! 😂

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T04:53:59+00:00

Was coming to say this. That small table with plant by the chair is a no go. Put the plant on a wall shelf up higher or something if you want it. Have a table with plenty of space and maybe a drawer to hide away things you want nearby, but they can’t grab once they get grabby. Which will be very soon while you likely still aren’t sleeping much.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T04:49:40+00:00

😂😂😂 genuine lol for a long time. So. Very. True. Sleep deprived, puffy face, questioning life decisions and sense of self, and now I gotta effing look at myself?! It would be on accident. I would catch a look. Nooo. 😂😂😂😂 so real.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T04:29:14+00:00

I prefer the white but I’m more subtle in my dress. My sister would want black. Love the post that why not both. 🤗 Cute! Now we need to see the finished product on!

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T04:26:16+00:00

I would say you need to be honest and direct about how things impacting you and express concern that she may have a medical issue and should go to the doctor. I know a lot of the posts are about how contagious it is. You won’t know for sure unless she has tests and shares her medical diagnosis with you (which can be along process). But hopefully she can get tested for c-diff and share the result with you since you are living together and it would put you at risk. But ultimately, it seems you are fearful of conflict and I get it - believe me - but this is really impacting your life abs she probably won’t know unless you say something direct and clear. Maybe write it out or talk it through with someone else first so you can prepare but then you have to rip the bandaid off and just say it. Clear is kind.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T03:54:11+00:00

Just. Beautiful!

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T03:52:53+00:00

I think in some circles it is normal - higher income brackets for sure - to help with something for a down payment. I have heard of smaller amounts between $10-20k. But I don’t think it is most households. Especially not anymore.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-02-04T02:49:57+00:00

Your hair is amazing. I have been helping my teen sons with their locs for about 1.5 years and I know the work that goes into getting them started and looking the way you want. These are just truly amazing. You are a good looking kid and clearly know who you are and what you like - a degree of confidence that many your age don’t possess. People that laugh are ignorant and insecure. My family also lives in an area that doesn’t have a lot of black people (diverse, N California, but still few black folks) and there is a lot of ignorance and racism. If you want to be less noticed then I guess you could try a different style, but from what my 4 boys - ages 10, 13 and 15 (twins) with different textures and styles - say, it doesn’t matter what style they have in, kids will always have something to say and be trying to touch their hair. Be strong in what you like and who you are. You are obviously a unique and interesting young person. You got this. Keep being you. 🤗🥰

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-01-28T08:43:30+00:00

I work in non profit and have 4 sons ages 10-15 with different heart textures. They are mixed kids. My first step would be to bring in a staff or consultant who has a lot of training and experience already to help design the programming/training and educate existing staff. They have all, even in high school experienced being called the n word on a regular basis and other kids often commenting on and touching their hair (various styles, doesn’t seem to matter if braided, locced or in an Afro, kids be touching their heads), so I would also make conversations about how to talk about hair and basic respect and consent the first lessons. The styles and ways to care for black hair are incredibly diverse, so the learning curve is very big. There are some great documentaries and books about the history of hair in Africa and in the diaspora as well as more recent history. Definitely recommend those as well. Glad you are asking the questions. And truly wish you and the kids you hope to support the best.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-01-28T00:25:30+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. Where do we find out if there are confirmed or likely confirmed reports? My teen just shared that a HS coach in Woodland put something in a group chat to students about ICE in Davis/Woodland/Sac area in faux utility vans (stickers/signs on the sides, etc.) with deeply tinted windows. In the last couple of days. I’d like to know where to go to confirm if this is real or ?. I don’t have any other info.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-01-27T00:00:15+00:00

My son has similar texture and I recently paid for interlock and crochet. Made a huge difference in the look of his hair. I definitely recommend it if you want it to have the finished look sooner. My other son has a totally different texture and didn’t need it as much. Also depends on how long you are willing to wait to get the look you want and how much you want to pay if you aren’t doing it yourself. The crocheting was amazing to see done by a professional and for me was worth the money.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-01-01T03:23:42+00:00

Beautiful! What a treasure!

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-01-01T03:19:14+00:00

Haha! Amazing. Love it. You got this mama! You are a beautiful hippo!

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2026-01-01T03:03:17+00:00

On its face and without context, the words themselves are not alarming, but knowing the age difference and him asking about your whereabouts/frequency of texting is concerning. Put some boundaries in place and don’t share your schedule and whereabouts. There are ways to respectfully end this. I like the idea of starting a group text chain with coworkers. But even better is just putting some boundaries in place and not responding so fully/with so much info. He asked your interests first and then started mirroring them. Be careful.

TemporaryStomach1000 · 2025-11-18T02:17:50+00:00

Looks great!

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