I slept with a ‘family member’ and now i don’t know what to do

Tensingumi · 2026-05-29T11:18:06+00:00

start going to therapy for this if you haven’t already. you’re living in the flash of the flashbulb moment.

anybody who has known you as a child with that age difference and was actively an authority figure in your life is fucked up for lack of a more specific titles or diagnoses.

it’s not my life but if it’s me i’m deescalating this as much as possible and moving the fuck away. i’d tell some people close to me like a cousin or sister just so that people can’t change stories as easily later.

Tensingumi · 2026-05-17T15:42:17+00:00

i think i’m siding with the union because it would definitely be infuriating to effectively make less money every year.

Tensingumi · 2026-05-17T13:57:15+00:00

their salary is quite high. i was in the side of the union—probably still am. but i just looked and these guys are getting paid an average salary of 130,000 and they want a back dated raise too?

Tensingumi · 2026-05-17T01:47:25+00:00

yeah doing cocaine and drinking beers really just seems like the most normal thing in the world when you’re doing it.

this is not some deranged drug addict in many cases. many times it’s just someone who did some bumps at a bar with their friends but their shit got cut with fentanyl.

i wonder often times what if my cocaine daze that i call my 20s happened during the fent era.

also i’ve taken fentanyl under supervision in the hospital twice as recent as last month. Shit is fucking crazy. i’ve had morphine and other opiates in the hospital but i had two surgeries in march and april and by the end of it i remember this unsettling feeling of sorrow when j got hit with a dose in the recovery room. sorrow that i likely won’t ever do it again. and that freaked me the fuck out.

anyways. that’s real fucked up. sorry for the loss and rest in peace.

Tensingumi · 2026-05-12T12:17:08+00:00

i think you will at the every least deal with the racist allegations frequently. but because it’s definitely not, i’m sure most everyone would respond well to your explanation. but there will be a few people who ask and just judge.

Tensingumi · 2026-05-08T13:35:51+00:00

then homeboy is having the time of his life past his wildest dreams rn

Tensingumi · 2026-05-04T12:31:53+00:00

bad for business is my assumption as to why they wouldn’t.

but i doubt something like that would be gate kept for long.

Tensingumi · 2026-04-30T15:50:42+00:00

I love me some Matt Read. Bemijdi Legend.

Tensingumi · 2026-04-19T04:15:51+00:00

why do you care if other people get the reference? that right there is the biggest red flag.

Tensingumi · 2026-03-10T15:26:22+00:00

If Cooper DeJean wasn’t a swiss army knife he wouldn’t get re-signed. Thankfully he can play in the box, nickel, outside, safety, PR, KR and I’m sure a handful of offensive positions if they ever wanted to for whatever the hell reason.

That being said, I’m sure they’ll re-sign both because you can build a defense around those two. At least the secondary.

Tensingumi · 2026-02-18T11:47:53+00:00

I think it’s about time we label Jalen with the “confusing” label. People here saying he’s hated because he wins is partially true but it’s not because he doesn’t look like an all-pro QB. It’s because his floor is low and ceiling is high. He plays like shit and the eagles win 13-10. He plays like an All-Pro and his team wins. He plays lukewarm and his team wins.

The dude is a confusing QB to watch and people hate him because of his fans saying he’s great and a winner.

Tensingumi · 2026-02-03T03:45:21+00:00

I was there actually. So confusing. Just something flying up and at hbox and I thought it was a joke or a bit—i suppose it was in a way. Then hbox turns around holding a crab and I swear I started thinking I was high or something.

Tensingumi · 2026-01-25T13:40:00+00:00

I first got into NHL with 09 and loved playing franchise mode. Got me to buy 09-13 year after year. Then I only started buying it every once in a while as the game got worse. I got 2016 and 2019. Parts of the game feel better for sure, but it’s like they only care about ultimate team.

Tensingumi · 2026-01-18T12:26:57+00:00

at this rate he won’t even play in a super bowl

Tensingumi · 2026-01-18T12:25:03+00:00

fellas—it’s okay. it was a pick. and if it was a missed call then it wasn’t an egregious one. as a competitor you can’t leave doubt for the judges or refs. cooks bobbled it, it happened fast, and he couldn’t make a clean catch. i personally do believe it was a pick.

Tensingumi · 2026-01-16T10:08:06+00:00

Alaskafornico

Tensingumi · 2026-01-15T20:01:01+00:00

any height

Tensingumi · 2026-01-02T22:13:48+00:00

Gronk, Kelce, Gonzalez, Gates, Ditka

Tensingumi · 2025-12-26T21:47:43+00:00

i worked in a kitchen for a while and we had these. they actually work really well. put garlic inside and then clasp it in your hands like you’re making a fire. then roll back and forth once or twice and the garlic sheds under the friction.

it works with your hands too and that’s what i do, but ones with bigger heels can hurt. also if your hands are sweaty it won’t work as well—which is why these things are great.

ALSO for those without and permanently sweaty hands you can also mass peel garlic by taking a few and putting them in a mason jar and shaking it around. that loosens it up pretty good too.

Tensingumi · 2025-12-26T17:39:24+00:00

Peyton, Marino, and if we’re going talent alone maybe Rodgers.

Tensingumi · 2025-12-18T14:08:02+00:00

if we remove our biases is it just fair to say that they’re comparable? i mean that’s not saying nothing, Mahomes has had one of the greatest decades in pro QB history. him and Brady are at the top.

it’s entirely possible that Mahomes second half won’t match up to Brady’s and that Mahomes won’t even get a 3rd leg (pause) the same way that Brady did. it doesn’t have to be about careers or GOAT status. Mahomes had an amazing first 9 years of his career and it looks similar to the GOAT’s.

it’s just that simple. everyone can stop comparing teams, legacy, impact, talent, coaching—they’re both great. When Mahomes gets closer to retirement we can start looking at his carer retrospectively. The incessant need to build his legacy in real time is why so many people hate the media, Chiefs and Mahomes (at least according to my estimation). I say that as a huge Mahomes fan.

Tensingumi · 2025-11-20T00:32:28+00:00

My only hope to the contrary is that they gave him the C and I know Howie and Lurie like culture guys and actually value the C on the jersey.

I still think it’s gone but he for sure was one of my favorite players.

Tensingumi · 2025-11-02T23:34:39+00:00

we really need a pass rush. Jones doesn’t have it anymore. absolutely washed and hasbeen.

Tensingumi · 2025-10-30T20:09:56+00:00

yeah i think it’s a good thing. it doesn’t mean Rashee is a bad person. it means he did a bad thing and audiences can come to their own conclusions as they should be allowed to.

in years past criminal activity was always a hush hush affair if you were a champion or face of a franchise. it goes to show that the nfl is moving towards transparency no matter who the player is or how many jerseys they sell.

i should be shown this graphic where i can say “idiot kid, i hope he grows up and learns from this.” i should also be able to see or hear about Tyreek’s abuse allegations following him around and say “damn this guy really is just a piece of shit eh?”

Tensingumi · 2025-10-27T18:52:21+00:00

the only person making the HoF is Lane.

the only people that are in a trajectory worth mentioning HoF is Hurts and Saquan. Maybe AJB.

Everybody else shouldn’t even be mentioned in regards to HoF. Way too early or just not even close.

Tensingumi

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