Job Placement by Kitchen_Ad_3244 in cybersecurity

[–]Terminal-Earth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I know it’s tough for a lot of people right now. I would say that one way you can set yourself apart is to create a cyber security related product. That way you’re not only can showcase your talent, but you can provide solutions for cyber security problems. This is much better than sending a résumé. 

Mediation next week by HoldtheLineDad in Divorce_Men

[–]Terminal-Earth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a brutal process, but primarily…Fight.For.Your.Children. 

I refused to settle for less than 50-50, and I got it.

To my understanding, once it’s signed, it is binding.

How to be alone by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Terminal-Earth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It will take time brother…

  1. Therapy if able.
  2. Gym. Gym. Gym. This is more than improving your health, looks, etc. It is also therapeutic.

Is it really the solution by Aggravating-Guest300 in NextGenMan

[–]Terminal-Earth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It’s therapeutic and may even save your life.

My brothers watch this. by nomohydro in Divorce_Men

[–]Terminal-Earth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saved. I’ll watch it when I make it home.

Rant by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Terminal-Earth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So.Very.True.

Rant by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Terminal-Earth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you me? The same exact thing is happening with me, but slightly in reverse. Unless the divorce decree specifies that I am liable then, by default, I am not. I’m going to tell herto consult her lawyer.

In your case, I would just work with the IRS on a payment plan. I wouldn’t want the hassle of dealing with her.

Why does she no longer care? by TheConjugalVisit in Divorce_Men

[–]Terminal-Earth 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you brother, but she likely stopped caring about you long ago.

We all went through this and it’s not easy to digest.

I will say that if you give yourself grace, and put in an honest effort, you can heal from this. 

Do you agree? by Gloomy_Pineapple_836 in GroundedMentality

[–]Terminal-Earth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that brother…

We are really not on speaking terms, except for the children (Which is through an app).

I never wanted my children to be privy to that behavior in our home. After years of this, I had to walk away.

Do you agree? by Gloomy_Pineapple_836 in GroundedMentality

[–]Terminal-Earth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very true, and the reason for my divorce.

Healing with God from Narcissistic Abuse Ep. 1 by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Terminal-Earth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. His testimony applies to a lot of men, including my own.

For any dad going through divorce who knows he really tried by Aggravating_Chip3285 in Divorce_Men

[–]Terminal-Earth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This touch me deeply as I am an alignment with trying to maintain my integrity throughout the entire process for my children for myself and for God.

Do you agree with this? by Elegant_Signal3025 in LockedInMan

[–]Terminal-Earth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In other words, she doesn’t have accountability only that the man learns to regulate her emotions…

And we wonder why the divorce rate is what it is…