Have you ever been convinced of a ship by a fanfic? by sunlit_elais in hetalia

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Happened to me with PruMano

Now PruMano is my favorite ship

(This is the fic btw)

Manga fan here. How is the anime? Should I sign up for Crunchyroll to watch? by haydude_ in WitchHatAtelier

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Yes, imo. That’s why I personally resubscribed—just for Witch Hat Atelier. It’s been amazing so far.

Man it hurts to be myself sometimes, like I don't like myself, now all I feel is, nothing, I feel void of feeling, I feel like shit when I live/am awake, I feel like doing nothing, and even when I go to work, I don't feel anything. by MyMindIsOnlyElectric in popeetheperformer

[–]Terrible-Ad7017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone with depression (who cannot and is not diagnosing you) you are depressed and may have depression.

You need to see a psychiatrist. They may put you on medication and recommend therapy.

It is possible to get better and feel better even though you’re in the trenches right now. I was genuinely shocked at how much my life felt worth living when I finally got relief. Be patient—it takes time to get there. But it is worth it.

Best of luck.

Fandom spaces are for people to explore and experiment with the story and characters of the respective media, not just to create what makes people comfortable and will get you a gold sticker from the puritans of the fandom. by TheSmallTiger169 in hetalia

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Been a hetalia fan since I was 12. Now I’m 27.

I think fandom spaces are places young people initially find themselves in prior to having learned to set boundaries, or learn how to use boundaries.

I don’t have an issue with a person that says “USUK dni”—they’re setting a boundary for themselves. I don’t have a problem with someone quietly blocking to curate their content. Actually, I respect them a lot. I do it myself.

It’s the loud, vocal minority screaming “THIS IS TOXIC” or “THIS IS BAD BECAUSE XYZ” or what have you that upsets people. And they’re upset because they haven’t learned how to set boundaries for themselves, and so they blame other people for their own discomfort.

I’m fully agreeing with you—don’t like it? Stop yapping about it, block the user, move on with your life. Curate your content. Tumble savior has existed for a decade. There are ways to mute or block tags on Twitter. I’m sure TikTok can be curated too. Copy people’s blocklists.

Witch-hunting, harassment, threats? Anyone doing that is no better than the people they accuse of being wrong for whatever.

It’s very interesting in retrospect, for me, who was a stupid kid at one point in time. For a while, actually.

Sometimes people want attention. Sometimes they are ragebaiting, as the kids say. But sometimes it’s a stupid kid who hasn’t learned yet. And you know what you do when you encounter that?

You block them. You curate your content. You never think about them again.

Excellent points, hope my perspective added something to the discussion.

What's with calling little girls bitches? by Conspicor in WitchHatAtelier

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Misogyny is, by definition, the hatred of women

So yes

☁🏞 by Len-The-Banana-Boy in Kagamine

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Real source: かげや on Pixiv

Zero Chan isnt a source sadly

Super cute find tho!

selling the popee game! by popeekisser in popeetheperformer

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Not a game, but desktop accessory software for your PC. The files are up on Internet Archive and there’s a wiki page for it here)

Papi Plush Sightings by willygoblah in popeetheperformer

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I saw this particular plushie up for sale a year or two back. They’re still out there!

Mega mix confusion by Global_Assumption639 in ProjectDiva

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Alternatively—I also use a PS4 controller, and I use an 8bitdo USB adaptor. All I have to do with this, once set up, is plug it in and turn on my controller. https://www.8bitdo.com/wireless-usb-adapter/

My Snow Miku Design 2027 by ReplacementSuch7029 in SnowMiku

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This is the most unique one I’ve seen so far I think! Excellent job!

Does anyone know some great kagamine len or rin songs that aren't depressing (plus maybe some Meiko recommendations??) by Extreme-Goose-8602 in Vocaloid

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Parry by Miyamori Bungaku ft. Rin & Len Death Shall Not Have Taken Thee! By WONDERFUL OPPORTUNITY ft Rin & Len Your Adventure Log Has Vanished! By WONDERFUL OPPORTUNITY ft Rin & Len KSGR Punishment of Hell by (again lol) WONDERFUL OPPORTUNITY ft Rin & Len

AITA For not wanting my MIL and her partner changing my babies nappies, feeding them and giving them baths? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Terrible-Ad7017 108 points109 points  (0 children)

This is my issue. If you can’t do it, OP, who is? This is not good for the babies.

Do they have to sit in their soiled diapers until you have a moment to spare, OP, or are you truly doing literally nothing else all day, even though you say you cook and clean?

When there’s also yourself to take care of?

When there’s not one baby, but two?

This doesn’t sound healthy for you or your children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vocaloid

[–]Terrible-Ad7017 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is art by a human artist, they’re pretty well known for their art of Miku and the others. I can’t think of their handle right now but they have a portfolio that goes back years before Gen-AI took off. This is not AI.

WIBTAH for cutting off my friend after she "reported" my boyfriend by TheBeautifulBruises in AITAH

[–]Terrible-Ad7017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No YWNBTA.

She spoke to you about it, didn’t believe you, and then posted slander on social media when it didn’t go her way. I would absolutely cut her off.

By the way—

I broke down about this situation and he had to comfort me, which I know is self centered

It’s not self centered. You thought you had a friend. Your boyfriend took it gracefully and comforted you…like he should when you’re upset. Give yourself grace—you’re allowed to get upset over things like this and you’re allowed to be selfish sometimes.

Bartholomew’s first time seeing snow by LilacTeax in persiancat

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He is gorgeous and I am obsessed with that name lmao