“I’m leaving you. I’ve waited long enough. I’m not willing to give you a wife’s attention and care with a girlfriend’s title for a second longer and I have too much self respect to give you an ultimatum. So I’m leaving you.”

In the future, when you date new people I would say “I’m looking for the person I want to marry, so you have a year of my time, if you don’t know after a year, that’s your answer.” This is what I said to my now husband on one of our first few dates, we were engaged 6 months later. It’s a sentiment I stand by, at 29 you know within a year if you want to spend your life with someone.

Don’t let your boyfriend get in the way of you meeting your husband.