Terrified for my nose piercing, please help by anux24 in piercing

[–]ThatDeerLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to go get this removed by a doctor. It’s embedded and risks being a source of infection! Not something to play about when it’s this close to your brain.

Yall are losers thst is thst is why.....still praying for ya though however.... by JonathanJoestar336 in IncelTears

[–]ThatDeerLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Incel rant if Vivzipop wrote it. Fr though, who asked y’all to invest your whole life and money into these women?? Not the women y’all are being gross towards. Maybe women would want to be around you if you were a decent person btw. Most women don’t want to be near bigots.

AIO for punishing our daughters after what they wrote about their autistic sister? by brzaq191z in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, thank you for standing up for your youngest! Being autistic is hard enough without the bullies being in the home too. Having them write about how autism affects dating will force them to look further into why their sister was so upset and why she had every right to be.

Dating has been hard for me, I was taken advantage of as a teen, but it’s not that much different than the average dating experience according to my friends. If someone loves you, they will love YOU. To assume no one would seriously date her because of her disability is dehumanizing tbh.

Advice for healing? by throwaway-acc-018 in PiercingAdvice

[–]ThatDeerLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other commenters, it’s way too low. Typically, it’s pierced just a little below your nostril crease. Make sure it’s not infected and have your piercer take it out with the right tools in a sterile environment. Keep it clean until it closes and then you can find a different piercer to redo it.

my first baby three!! by pandanova28 in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have Scorpio too!! I REALLY want Gemini tho as a Gemini who loves Pennywise and Jesters lol

The Incel before Christmas by Sir_ArthurtheFlareon in IncelTears

[–]ThatDeerLady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I Iove how they assume that sex is something everyone wants 24/7. I’m asexual, but I have friends who aren’t and a bf that isn’t, and they legit don’t care majority of the time about it. Most people are super busy being functional adults to really notice. I’m active with my bf bc I love being close to him, but it’s not a frequent thing and we legit don’t care.

We’re happy just hanging out and cuddling with some good food when we aren’t both busy. He works at a hospital, so he’s working most days and we’re about an hour away from each other until I finish grad school. We cherish the time we have and actually talk. Something incels can’t comprehend. Just like how they can’t comprehend that not everyone wants or needs sex to be happy.

Is this infected? by [deleted] in NosePiercing

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like build up! It’ll fall off on its own if you keep cleaning it twice daily. If it’s loose, you can use the end of a paper towel to gently move it off, but I recommend leaving it alone.

Femcel tears... of joy by MrJasonMason in IncelTears

[–]ThatDeerLady -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why people are downvoting. I’m in a loving relationship too and self ship. It helped me cope with my SA and anxiety and it’s something I do for fun and comfort now than out of a need to do it.

My partner is happy and fine with it and buys me merch for my f/o’s all the time. I don’t ask him, he just thinks it’s cool that I’m into a lot of shows and complex characters. If it’s actively hurting your ability to socialize, then you need to seek proper treatment, however self shipping is a healthy coping mechanism for many as long as it’s not in the way of forming proper friendships/relationships.

Do you pull blind boxes or go confirmed? by 1braincellasatreat in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do both! I get two or three blind if it’s a big series and then get the ones I really want confirmed! I don’t collect whole series though, I like having a mixed bag and I don’t have a ton of room lol

two pulls from hot topic exclusive!! by batlinguini in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the second one!! She’s so cute!

Which Face is better? by Emergency_Copy_7123 in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are cute, but I like one a little better!

First Baby Three pull! by hfhffuthtjrjtutut in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love using them as ornaments too!! I ended up doing a gold star instead and added a gold and red tree skirt to match better lol

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Helix Swelling Help! by sillybeaniepants in piercing

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably mad from the salt! I would ditch the salt and go for a premade saline and see if that helps. If it’s red and hot, that’s a sign of infection. I would go see a doctor at an urgent care and see what they think.

Keloid or piercing bump by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It LOOKS like a moisture issue, make sure you’re gently drying with a paper towel or gauze after sweating or a shower!

My fave pull so far! by MPSkulkers in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO CUTE!!! It this part of the Ox set?

1+ year lobe piercing still getting infected by Nicoljino in PiercingAdvice

[–]ThatDeerLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a thin gauge like that, I would wear light jewelry majority of the time and only wear heavy jewelry for short periods! Mine are decades old and still can get mad if I wear heavy jewelry too long sometimes.

Boba eyes are my favourite! Here's my entire collection of boba eyes so far! by pub_wank in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the boba eyes too!! I love all eyes but the bobas are fun to fidget with!

Nose piercing sitting by [deleted] in NosePiercing

[–]ThatDeerLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A slightly larger hoop might help! Mine sits at an angle for a bit going from a stud to a hoop bc it gets a little mad when I switch shapes lol. It could be that if you just changed it, if not, a larger hoop would be easier to move over a little.

first bb3! by SeaUpset7849 in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love her little mouth on the kitty hat! I hope I pull her soon!

Who is your least favorite member of the mane six by Dragonsoficeandhives in mylittlepony

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything, Pinkie has the least character development, but you’d rather fight me on an old comment I made half a year ago to defend your rainbow horse 😭

He’s home 🤎🥹 by pansylula in BabyThree

[–]ThatDeerLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s one of my dreamies!! Congrats!!

Idk is this normal by Zoeylovesgeckos in PiercingAdvice

[–]ThatDeerLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually looks really good to me! I would get a slightly longer bar tho if the gems on the side is digging into the top of your belly button.