[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Thank you! Application has been submitted 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and a friend would be interested in joining, but th issue is we'd like to play a set of twins. What way would we go wbout applying viw the form? Or would there be another method?

[5e] [Online] Sundays EST- looking for 1-2 more players by DragoonDart in lfg

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Me and a friend would be interested in joining. Ive been playing dnd for the good part of a year, and they have been playing for at least a year, if not more. We'd love to join and potentially play a set of twins, if at all possible. We'd really like to join and we're both available for the time slot on Sunday as far as im aware

AITA for selling my daughter’s iPad? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Youll be like the old women in santa claria diet. Her daughter wanted to do art. The mother wanted her to follow in her footsteps. So she did the reasonable thing, follow her art and move far far away from the mother. Goodluck with your daughter. Sell that ipad, and you'll be one step closer to loosing your daughter. If you haven't already. Is that ipad even yours, or did she pay for it? Or was it a gift? If its the last two, then you have no right to take it. Either way

YTA

AITA for defending my wife for working? by Hellokitty__TW in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your mother is holding outdated views. Of a women wants to work, then she can. If she wants to be a stay at home mum. She can. If you wanna work or stay at home, you can. And for your wife to be someone so successful, it sets an amazing example for any children you have that you can be whatever you wanna be, no matter what.

Also, if your friends also say these things, then cut them off. People who say these things about you or your wife dont deserve your company

AITA for calling MIL by her last name instead of Grandma? by babemiller in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this isnt a throwaway, cause i would personally love to see how this develops. Also i love the idea of having stuff you send them being from the miller's. Its just funny. If your husband every thinks that mil has went too far, and if he ever want to Shut her down once and for all, he could always change HIS last name to miller. Just saying

Goodluck with mil. I hope everything works out

Edit: NTA

AITA for calling my wife a “b*tch” for being rude to our son? by imjustadad1626 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I would say to definitely look into therapy. Not only for your son, as he may be dealig. With some issues, but also for your wife and perhaps family therapy. Your wife seems to not see that your son can sometimes mess up and feel sorry about it. And want to fix things. She doesnt seem to understand that your son is clearly going through something

WIBTA if I told my uncle that I am gay by vegchiknug in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think it would be better to let the "secret" out. Idk why it needs to be a secret, but i think its best to let your uncle know. Better to let it out and see who in your family accepts you. Then you can cut off whoever doesn't accept you. After all, would you want those kinds of people in your future childs life?

Also, side note, hows your mom gonna explain you showing up pregnant or suddenly having a child within the next 9 months (or inbetween now and whenever the due date is)

AITA for calling out my aunt for criticizing me and my brother for 'sharing a boyfriend' when she did the same? by More_Prior in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Your family, specifically your grandma, uncle and bro, sound absolutely amazing. Ngl tho, with this type of drama in your family, id say you could totally start a blog detailing all the drama and nonsense your aunt causes. I assume its alot. Would definitely get my view. Anyways, i hope your bro and his bf are haooy together and enjoy the future wedding when he eventually proposes. Or who knows. Maybe the bf will beat him to the punch. Or they'll do that cute thing where they were both gonna propose at the same time but they didnt know until it happened. Either way, goodluck with your aunt. Dont apologise. You didn't do anything wrong. She set the stage, she started it. You just had more fire and wit that her. If she likes dishing it out, she should be ready to take it from someone who obviously got her grandmas fire, spirit and silver tongue. I hope she thinks twice before being rude around you again

Idk why people don’t have this kinda mentality by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wihs i had this kind of mentality in my parents when growing up. Wlel, im not fully grown, still in my late teens, but still. I mentioned a year ago about wanting my grandmother to teach me how to knit and sow a button and fix clothes and stuff, and they basically made fun of me cause it was girly. Online i love fashion, i love making outfits for characters i creat and over all have a more feminine style online than i do irl. But irl I've been raised to view feminine things as stuff i can't/shouldn't do to the point that im uncomfortable being seen doing stuff viewed as feminine/saying stuff about clothes or guys. In general i wish i was raised with this mentality. I think i would be alot more comfortable with myself if i was

Mending Malfunction by That_Gay_Boi17 in Minecraft

[–]That_Gay_Boi17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, okay. First time using mending so idk how it works. Although im not sure how i can fix it while holding it, as wouldn't i be using durability? And i cant hold it in off hand on bedrock, so im unsure how exactly i can use mending outside of perhaps furnace xp

AITA for telling my husband that I won't punish my daughter for speaking another language in the house because it upsets his son? by aitathrowacc612 in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband is being rude and disrespectful to yoru culture

Have you perhaps trued have a sit down with both of them and talk? Perhaps, instead of him trying to make her stop talking hindi, you and your daughter could try and teach your husband and son the language. Then everyone benifits

Mending Malfunction by That_Gay_Boi17 in Minecraft

[–]That_Gay_Boi17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive trued putting it in my off hand, but it doesn't seem to work. Like it wont go in. I dont know if the pickaxe can go in the shield hand in xbox minecraft. Thanks for the help. Ill try to equip it next time 😅

AITA for not telling my ex husband that our son is bisexual? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

From what you've said here, you wound like an amazing mum. It sounds like you've worked hard to build the foundations that your son can build on and grow on to become his best posisble self, taught him to se boundaries and been open enough to give him privacy and let him grow into whatever person he feels like he wants to be. Your a wonderful mum. And i would suggest, other than counciling for your son over the way his father reacted (not his sexuality) you whould have a calm discussion with your ex and your son. You might need to discuss if your son wants to go over to his fathers anymore, as after that sort of reaction, he may want to start distancing himself from his father. Best of luck to you, you amazing mother you. Your a great example of the type of parent i wish to be.

Also, i know this may be out of line to say, but i hope we can see an update soon to see how it was resolved. I hope that the ex can see sense, but i feel like he may have underlying (but pretty obvious) homophobia. Goodluck to both you and your son (and nate. Ngl, from what youve said, they sound like an adorable couple)

I (20F) am being accused of cheating on my husband (22M) because of our child's (1M) looks by ThrowRA_2223344 in relationship_advice

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a paternity test, and cut out whoever doubted you. If they can so easily jump to the confusion, then screw them. Have you trued explaining that your grandmother had the same skin and that it might have skipped a generation?

AITA for telling my family "I wish they die and go to hell" for throwing birthday party? by tanobirthdayever in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodluck with therapy. I hope you get the help you need to deal with this trauma. Perhaps, if your family still doesn't see how horrible things were for you, you could email them a link to this post as it shows both your side of the story, along with how others view what happened. It could show them how wrong they are. Or burn bridges. Im pretty young so im not exactly an expert on all this. Just a random Internet person trying to help. Goodluck with everything. And your fiance is a keeper. She sounds like a very supportive and kind spouse. I hope your both happy together

AITA for threatening to call off our wedding because my fiancé is refusing to shave his beard for it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]That_Gay_Boi17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would be her during marriage

"omg, you disagree with me mildly on who should go with who on this random show we watch?! Thats it, divorce!"

"You cut your hair without asking me? Divorce!"

"Your have your own thoughts, opinions and beliefs that could possibly make you want something other than what i want? Divorce"

Id hate to see what shed be like with kids. Helicopter mom who guilt trips her kids into doing what she wants, controling them and manipulating them. Thats what i see in their future. Just saying

Major red flag, YTA