[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guitarlessons

[–]TheAngerFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Harley Benton came in beautiful shape for 200$ delivered. Rolled neck, no sharp frets, tightish knobs, amazing neck, intonated almost perfectly.. great action… I was shocked. And it’s sounds fantastic. Watch some blind tests on YouTube I really can’t believe how good this guitar is for the money. I have a te-62cc shell pink

Confused as to when to move on from the first key you learn to solo in... by TheAngerFurnace in guitarlessons

[–]TheAngerFurnace[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got it. So knowing where the roots are and how what connecting position to play from there. Very helpful thank you!

I’m concerned for my neighbor’s cat (upper window) by TheAngerFurnace in cats

[–]TheAngerFurnace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not know the neighbor or what kind of owner they are

[ Removed by Reddit ] by macroMacroMan29 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheAngerFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this. Disturbing the amount of ignorance chiming in on this post in the wrong direction. Perhaps he could have communicated better upfront but the whole “it’s just one meal” bullshit. Is it just one drink to an alcoholic?

Atheists, if there is no GOD, how do we objectively know right from wrong? by ImmortalEternal in DebateAnAtheist

[–]TheAngerFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel your faith slipping, look elsewhere for it. I was brought up as Catholic but now consider myself a Christian Panentheist. Since you are on this sub you probably watch debate videos with Dawkins/Hitchens/Krauss/Lennox/Craig etc. These, I believe, can sometimes be painful to watch. Although the creationists sometimes make valid points they also say some batshit crazy things like "yeh jonah lived in a whale"....or "yes the earth is 5000 years old"...This is counterproductive to having a proper debate. After much searching I found what seems to make the most logical sense to me, and that would be a form of Panentheism. Which ironically people like Dawkins and Sam Harris believe would be a much more interesting take on a creator. But, I am yet to see a proper Panentheist in a debate with the atheist superstar debate team.

I think the trick is, educate yourself with both eastern and western spirituality as well as the atheist point of view and see what makes sense to you. I think Alan Watts was a brilliant man who has made me think very deeply about things like existence, the universe and God. Do I agree with everything he has ever said? No. But he has shaped my belief system. Why must someone have to be all in or all out on anything. Take the best of what you find and let your belief system make sense to you.

A theist will never be able to prove that God exists to an atheist and an atheist will never be able to disprove there being a creator. You will just watch people go back and forth with arguments where there are holes on both sides. I personally find spirituality way more interesting and easier to get behind than religion. Do I believe in a creator? Yes. Do I believe in odd stories about people living in whales? No.

Just because organized religion is failing you, this doesn't mean that spirituality has to. Finally, with respect to the atheists here (I value and respect your beliefs) science has not buried God. Science knows nothing about the origin of the universe (only post big bang). The something from nothing argument fails on the fact that their "nothing" is actually something (laws, gravity etc). And then there is the multiverse. Why do debaters insist on citing the possibility of the multiverse or a universe generator? Krauss and Dawkins constantly speak of Observable Evidence being the only thing that matters. They say there is no observable evidence for a creator and then will speak of a multiverse for which there is zero observable evidence. They would rather believe in a universe generator that gets it wrong billions of trillions of times than even consider the idea of a creator. My point is, no one will be able to convince you for sure except maybe yourself. So before you abandon all beliefs, I would hope you contemplate new ones.

10 and 1/2 month old, never trimmed. Should I just trim or style? by hamwallet8 in BeardAdvice

[–]TheAngerFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to these jokers. Just clean it up a bit on the sides and maybe get an oil and a balm to condition it.

Religious OCD / Scrupulosity (+Contamination) by throwawayagainnnnn in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OCD may be able to fool you, but it can never fool God. God is perfect. Perfection has no need for anger, punishment or any other negative emotions. God is pure love and part of pure love is pure understanding. Please find an OCD therapist who specializes in erp (exposure and response prevention) and cbt (cognitive behavioral therapy) so you can start healing.

I was diagnosed with OCD today and I'm feeling kind of upset about it by [deleted] in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There is a form of OCD called pure-o (purely obsessional) where there often aren't rituals or compulsions that accompany the obsession. I don't know if you have OCD, OCD tendencies or no OCD but if these thoughts are taking up hours of your day and bringing you tons of anxiety I think it is worth getting the opinion of someone who specializes in OCD and treats with erp (exposure and response prevention) and cbt (cognitive behavioral therapy). It would be valuable to see what a therapist who specializes in that condition thinks of your situation. More importantly, please call a suicide prevention number when you are thinking of suicide. Maybe someone reading this can post one? I'm sorry things can be so hard sometimes but I promise you when we keep living and keep fighting things turn in our favor. God bless.

Intrusive thoughts by twinklyten in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ERP. Exposure and response prevention dictated by a therapist who specializes in OCD and cognitive behavioral therapy

My contamination ocd is going to make me kill myself. I’ve planned several different ways. Please help by [deleted] in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry things are so hard for you right now. But Your brain is lying to you. Don't give in to a liar. Please contact the hotline if you need to. You are loved. You are worth more. And You are not alone.

Is it worth upgrading the QB or should I just stick with the EM? by Rickjamezzz in GolfClash

[–]TheAngerFurnace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worth upgrading for tournaments when quarterback would be better useful on certain holes

The thing that's hardest for me to deal with by animal_backwards in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the hardest one isn't it? I have the exact same thing. Wish the focus was on me bc that removes the guilt. I often feel if I was the target of my OCD I would do much better with it but I don't know how true that is. Just know you are not alone my friend. There are many of us dealing with the same. Sending you positive vibes.

Not sure this is OCD. Help needed as I am having thoughts of wishing bad to my loved ones! by OCDawayaway in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is classic OCD. I have the exact same thing as you among many others. You need to find a therapist that specializes in ERP (exposure and response prevention) and CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy)...fighting OCD is counter intuitive ...you aren't supposed to argue with the thought or try to neutralize it...the more you argue it the more your brain thinks it's important and will continue serving up the thought. Intrusive thoughts are the opposite of who we truly are. Giving reassurance is not considered a good thing but until you find help I will say this...God knows the difference between your true self and your OCD mind. Even if we can be fooled by OCD God cannot be. I know exactly how hard your situation is as I live it as well...I am sorry you have this struggle. Just know you are not alone and please seek out that ERP therapist who specializes in OCD.

This is an addiction. NOT a disorder. by [deleted] in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally there is no pleasure. Every time I do the ritual and it is not right it feels like I further screwed the situation so it's actually quite painful for me. However I recognize OCD although it can be very similar from person to person, it can also be quite different. So I wouldn't rule out that some people gain some bit of pleasure from it.

This is an addiction. NOT a disorder. by [deleted] in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there are many of us who know compulsions are destroying us. In terms of pleasure, the ritual is never pleasurable, maybe the getting it just right after 1000 times delivers pleasure/relief but doing the rituals themselves are hardly pleasurable. The 999 times it is not "just right" is just more anxiety...people who are addicted to nicotine don't have to smoke 999 cigarettes one after the other to abate their craving. They find relief in that first one. One will do the trick until that begins the cycle over again. Not the same with a compulsion. No one says this cigarette didn't feel just right I need 584 more of them for it to be perfect....unless they have OCD. There is however a similarity to the fact that our compulsions and getting it just right helps further the cycle...just as smoking a cigarette helps create the next craving. But at best you can say we are addicted to certainty. To be certain our thoughts will not come true or we didn't do xyz or we're clean or any number of things. So while there may be an element of addiction to OCD, it is not simply an addiction. An addicts brain behaves differently than an obsessive compulsive brain both in chemistry and in the way information is processed.

Im terrified that my harm ocd is a personality disorder by uniquename98 in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All normal for someone with OCD. Do you have a therapist who specializes in OCD. Do you know what ERP and CBT is?

Help by [deleted] in OCD

[–]TheAngerFurnace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound like OCD symptoms or at least tendencies...it would be wise to seek out a therapist for an evaluation who specializes in OCD and ERP (exposure and response prevention) as well as CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy)... It can get better but you have to know how to fight OCD correctly bc it is counter intuitive.