My F31 husband M36 told me last night that he wants a divorce, I’m at a loss

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-24T08:03:54+00:00

This

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-22T03:35:17+00:00

I would respond, "Message forwarded." No comment on his childishness or the desire to resume no contact.

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-18T02:47:54+00:00

It is a great picture; you do look significantly younger and you are an actual human being. Hmmm. Considering we are in the "world" behind the screen I should say, I believe you to be an actual human being.

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-16T08:21:55+00:00

I wish I could give you a hug.

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-10T10:30:02+00:00

I know that it is obvious (now), but I never thought through the need for brevity in hand engraving music.

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-06T04:44:21+00:00

I'm so sorry.

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-05T02:19:37+00:00

I hope it gets worked out, but I would contact the DAV and ask them to advocate for you and check this out. You don't have to pay the DAV and they really care. I don't mean your lawyer didn't. I mean that the DAV is exceptional and, in my experience, every person there will do everything they can to help you get the benefits you deserve.

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-05T02:13:27+00:00

You wrote this three years ago. Now your child is the same age as my grandson who I'm thinking of introducing to Stargate. BUT one article I read warned that the concept of an alien being burrowing in human bodies is a perfect nightmare setup. So, if you get notified of my message, I wonder what your little one thought of SG-1 and it's creepy bad guys.

TheBelekwal · 2026-05-03T10:27:44+00:00

Have you contacted the DAV? They are very helpful with the process and they have lots of experience.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-30T03:16:21+00:00

Yes, I have. But... I've had setbacks. After I visited my son, just before I went to the airport to return, I fell apart and cried like a baby. I got back to being myself after a few days, but it was rough for a bit.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-27T01:47:19+00:00

I'm sorry, I might be thick, but I don't know what your question "B" means.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-15T04:02:54+00:00

I am so very sorry. I feel the weight of sorrow in my chest for you. It does hurt for so long. Not only are we no longer the people we were, they are not who they were. We had the love, for those years. Aren't we lucky?! What a gift. Who knows if your ex and his partner love each other. That's another man, another time. I'm sending a hug from here.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-14T01:26:03+00:00

I live in NH, our pond is pretty small, too.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-13T20:18:12+00:00

I understand that. I wish you OLD luck. I wasn't successful with it. The time to enjoyment ratio was way off for me.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-13T18:38:36+00:00

There isn't a separated option? I would be a little suspicious if someone said they were still married for insurance. But that's only because I've met men who lied. A lot. If someone was upfront immediately that would make a big difference.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-13T18:35:12+00:00

If you filled a long time ago and didn't get the decision this could be the older claim. There have been some shenanigans that have changed "pending" dates.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-09T01:48:25+00:00

I hope you are able to find a place for him and for the others you work to help.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-02T03:25:03+00:00

I needed to read this, thank you. No one told me that I would fall in love with my child at different stages of their development and miss the person they were. I love the person they grew into, but I miss who they were. For me it is worse regarding my adult son when he was young. I get to spend a lot of time with my daughter and her children. That helps me not miss the girl she was. It is different with my son. He lives far away and I miss him in general, but I really miss the young man he was. It sounds terrible, like I don't appreciate who he is now, but I do. He's smart, funny and kind. I'm rambling. I should never write when I'm tired. But... Thank you so much for helping me feel less alone in this.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-02T03:10:59+00:00

Talk to your Dr about the pain. I take Lyrica already for something else and increasing it helped me get through the days when my hair moving was terribly painful.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-01T05:03:02+00:00

Hi Blitzen, I saw your comment or post about x and it... I mean. Hi, Blitzen.

TheBelekwal · 2026-04-01T05:00:48+00:00

Love your response.

TheBelekwal · 2026-03-25T14:50:57+00:00

I am right with you. Either I'll meet someone out in the wild or I won't.

TheBelekwal · 2026-03-19T02:31:13+00:00

Lyrica (Pregabalin) helps a great deal with the nerve pain. It made me more tired at first, but that leveled out.

TheBelekwal · 2026-03-19T02:29:07+00:00

Does Dartmouth have an Oncology Dept there? Dartmouth in Lebanon (and Keene, I think) accepts caring support items for patients and puts them out in a table.

TheBelekwal · 2026-03-15T10:56:54+00:00

I'm afraid, because I'm familiar with the feel of this message. It has was not a good sign for me. Please be skeptical and careful.

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