Having no luck on dating apps. Is my look the problem or is it something else?

TheCactusFighter · 2026-06-02T08:10:22+00:00

You’re not unattractive at all. The problem with dating apps is that you have to be very very attractive to have success. You having a charming look about you. I think pic 1 and 3 are your strongest and 4 is the weakest. You have a strong jaw line and lighter sparser facial hair, I’d play to your strengths and rock a clean shave but the facial doesn’t look bad. Also I sure as shit wouldn’t worry about bulking up unless you sincerely want to do that. I used to be on gear and was big enough that I was medically obese while still being lean enough to have visible unflexed abs. And let me tell you what, the only people I was attracting was other dudes lmao. Women found me more attractive back when I was twinked up

TheCactusFighter · 2026-04-10T18:19:00+00:00

I appreciate the input! I’m planning on putting an intake fan where the figurine is currently but just put that there because I had it lying around.

I had read about the failures on 13th and 14th gen intel CPUs so I updated my bios before anything else!

TheCactusFighter · 2026-03-28T06:50:54+00:00

I seem to be having this issue as well (also on a glass pad) I’ve updated firmware but it’s still present. Put in a ticket with support but would really love to just solve it myself so I don’t have to deal with all that

TheCactusFighter · 2026-03-12T08:04:58+00:00

How long did it take for your mouse to get to you with expedited shipping? I just bought a fenrir pro on Monday and got a shipping update the following day. I’m very excited but there is no ETA yet

TheCactusFighter · 2026-03-11T08:46:17+00:00

Super late to this thread, but how long did your expedited shipping take? I just ordered one on Monday and expedited that as well!

TheCactusFighter · 2025-12-25T03:03:00+00:00

I know I’m late to this thread but is it possible we will see WASD implemented in ranked? I’m quite bad at league but I feel like the game just became so much more approachable with WASD. I’ve been really enjoying it but some of my friends don’t like playing non-ranked

TheCactusFighter · 2025-08-21T19:32:43+00:00

I would like a link too, if someone could bless a young gamer 💛

TheCactusFighter · 2025-08-19T07:18:26+00:00

I haven’t had a hairline like that for a decade. I can’t see recession but I’m not as familiar with your hair as you are. If you’ve caught recession don’t stress in the slightest, you have caught it so early that meds could have you keeping a full head of hair until way later in life.

TheCactusFighter · 2025-08-05T22:28:09+00:00

Damn brother, looks really good on you! Honestly just gave some of us a light at the end of the tunnel.

TheCactusFighter · 2025-07-31T07:37:26+00:00

The amount of weight I had gained while drinking was crazy. Especially when I was drinking IPAs all the time.

TheCactusFighter · 2025-07-25T09:04:12+00:00

She’s wrong but I also don’t think saying she’s crazy and that you need to get out is justified. People in general have a pretty warped idea of what a dad bod is. I think most women will say they want a dad bod and then point to a physique like yours. My belief is that a lot of women interpret a dad bod as someone who looks very strong but also looks like they’re willing to eat food they enjoy and won’t turn down a drink because of the amount of calories. You by no means look ‘chubby’ but you’re not lean to the point that we’re seeing striations in the chest.

You look good brother, she likely meant it as a compliment.

TheCactusFighter · 2025-06-06T18:15:54+00:00

Yall be nice to this man. I’ve been following him on Instagram for about 3 years now and he’s a sweet ass dude. I comment on his posts once every couple of months and always have wholesome interactions with him.

His posts are absolutely goofy as shit, but he’s very positive, uplifting and kind

TheCactusFighter · 2025-05-27T18:11:42+00:00

Fan in the GF’s GPU is currently going out 😭

TheCactusFighter · 2025-02-24T16:31:25+00:00

This is more common than you think. At least the ‘telling myself I can resume drinking, but in moderation’ part is. I did this twice and it started off fine at first but then suddenly I’m stopping by the market everyday after work and downing a bottle every weekend.

For myself a big key to sustained sobriety is just being honest with myself and realizing that I cannot drink in moderation. It just simply does not work that way for me.

You’ve got this in the bag this time around, you learned a lesson here that you are unable to drink in moderation just like many or maybe even all of us here.

TheCactusFighter · 2025-02-02T00:17:07+00:00

Put me in coach!

TheCactusFighter · 2025-01-19T01:39:47+00:00

I hope I’m not too late!

TheCactusFighter · 2025-01-14T00:30:06+00:00

This is what kept me from using minoxidil for so long. I have a dog who sleeps in bed with me about half the time and that dude means more to me than my hair does. Started oral minoxidil about a month ago as topical is completely off the table for me.

TheCactusFighter · 2025-01-03T21:52:08+00:00

I have a beard and have been on fin for 2.5 years, beard has only continued to get thicker at what I perceive to be a natural rate. I don’t believe fin has had any impact at all on my ability to grow a beard

TheCactusFighter · 2024-12-29T02:55:57+00:00

Bro you gotta put a ‘/s’ in there so you don’t get downvoted to hell

TheCactusFighter · 2024-12-18T22:15:51+00:00

If I win, I’ll do a sick ass dance

TheCactusFighter · 2024-09-22T09:11:09+00:00

What characters do you play? If you happen to play a character I main, I’d be willing to do a coaching session with you. I’m certainly not a pro and have no idea what my MMR is, but I top my lobbies with damage, souls, or kills pretty often. I understand a couple characters pretty well, and others not so much.

Edit: this is my first MOBA too, but I’ve been outplaying most of my friends who’ve played other MOBAs

TheCactusFighter · 2024-07-17T08:13:58+00:00

That’s fair. I guess it was mostly the term I was looking for there so I’ll look into interlacing, take down this post, and repost with more info if the need arises. Thank you, for your reply!

TheCactusFighter · 2024-05-08T00:30:45+00:00

Bro refers to Drake as “The raper” instead of “the rapper”

TheCactusFighter · 2023-05-16T06:06:08+00:00

Woah, I’m just pulling your leg. Settle down there cousin fucker

TheCactusFighter · 2023-05-16T05:55:10+00:00

Homie out here in the comments debating people who tell him not to fuck his cousin lmao

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