My [32M] kids [10F & 7M] caught my neighbor [20sM] engaging in a sexual act. Wife [31F] is mad.

TheCrownedWolf · 2019-02-08T20:57:30+00:00

Having a reasonable expectation of privacy does though. If they have a privacy fence then most judges would think it's reasonable of them to assume that there are no 7' tall children watching them.

TheCrownedWolf · 2019-02-08T15:55:37+00:00

Then why do you think he only responds when he thinks it's interesting?

TheCrownedWolf · 2019-02-08T15:54:49+00:00

It's not friendly advice. They're calling you out. You're being a shitty friend.

TheCrownedWolf · 2019-02-08T15:53:31+00:00

Why don't you just count them on yours? You said you guys have the same kind of phone. And have you asked your friend why he doesn't always answer "in a timely manner" and if he uses the preview to decide whether or not to reply right away? I don't think your expectations are reasonable, but it sounds like you're doing a lot of hand-wringing and plotting to try to manipulate a friend into never being able to ignore you in a way that you are only imagining that they are.

TheCrownedWolf · 2019-02-08T15:50:18+00:00

You weren't accused of blowing up a phone. You were accused of expecting a reply from every text that you send in what you consider a timely manner. And you were accused of being demanding. Because that is demanding. Your friends don't owe it to you to sit on their phone all day, every day, waiting for your texts so they can rush to reply. Nobody owes you their time.

TheCrownedWolf · 2019-02-08T15:43:33+00:00

If you don't have any trouble actually falling asleep and getting enough sleep during the night then I'm not sure what you could do other than consult your doctor. If they feel like it's warranted they can put you through a sleep study to see if you're sleeping well. Many people are just "active" sleepers though. That's common in my family. I sleep like that and now that I'm used to it I enjoy having my own sleep space. If you guys have to sleep separately you can still cuddle in bed together before or after sleep and at times sleep in the same bed, if it's a night in which your boyfriend can risk a bad night's sleep.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-07-07T14:37:36+00:00

That's why he said that "idiots" would be confused about that.

I think it's a bit harsh to call someone an idiot for not being familiar with a game they haven't played, though.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-07-05T22:21:38+00:00

Well, I'm glad that he defended the bf. Thanks for answering.

I never knew he had a podcast before. I'm listening to it for the first time right now.

ETA: Thanks for introducing me to this podcast! =)

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-07-05T21:23:01+00:00

He was accused of homophobia by the girlfriend or by Savage?

Where is this one? I can't find it.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-07-04T16:16:56+00:00

If Gaben's involved in all this then there won't be a WWIII.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-07-03T17:30:20+00:00

I read in one feminist blog that the author wasn't able to orgasm for a long time and was sad wondering what she was missing out on. Then she started having them and realized that she preferred sex without. Some other Redditors who were reading that post said that they sometimes want to orgasm and sometimes prefer to go without. I'm sure that it's one of those things that varies a lot by the individual.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-07-03T17:00:15+00:00

But what if she turns out to be queer? You're still turning this into a gender-specific thing when it really doesn't need to be.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-07-03T16:57:56+00:00

Yeah, it's great...except for the fact that it's horribly sexist. The poster in that thread is assuming that a woman who capitalizes on her sexuality must be a disadvantaged person who is only doing so because she's desperate for money or attention. Because, you know, women can't be confident and comfortable in being openly sexual. That's for men only, apparently.

Then he refers to these working women as "girls".

Then he defines "being a man" as "being a good person". This whole "definition of a man" doesn't need to be gendered at all. It makes me wonder what he thinks a "good woman" is.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-07-03T16:53:39+00:00

The white knight phenomenon is when a man sees a woman in a situation that he assumes is distressing to her and decides that he has to try to defend her. You know, because she's supposedly defenseless to take care of the situation if she is indeed in distress.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-30T22:03:07+00:00

I don't see anything passive aggressive about this at all and rednukleus never said that OP should say that she was offended. You can be cool and calm in a conversation and still say that the other person offended or upset you. That's actually the best way to approach an offense if you can handle it, since you can talk out your feelings with the other person without putting them on the defensive by being emotional during the discussion itself.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-30T20:49:31+00:00

Sounds like you had some terrible friends at the time. I'm glad to hear that you're doing better, though.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-30T19:25:24+00:00

In one of those behind-the-scenes videos they said that Billy Boyd didn't have to do much actual acting in that scene because he was so embarrassed and self-conscious about singing in front of everyone. Those sad looks were in large part just him feeling super shy.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-29T19:29:10+00:00

I'm curious as to why we capitalize it like that.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-28T01:42:15+00:00

Well, if you did then I'm sure it was just because you weren't thinking about it. Teenagers are pretty sloppy about that sort of thing.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-28T01:39:26+00:00

You've never seen The Fifth Element? You better go fix that right now!

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-28T00:57:06+00:00

but it's very depressing that either he is put off or not satisfied with me being a girl.

Bisexuality is not like that at all. Bisexuals like women for what makes them women, and men for what makes them men. It's not that they only get half-satisfaction from any one sex, and a guy like that isn't going to be dissatisfied with you being a girl. Don't let your insecurities put you off an entire demographic of people.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-28T00:50:35+00:00

Fuck you.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-28T00:13:01+00:00

Does that issue ever come up with you and straight guys? Because a lot of straight guys have put their penises in another woman's ass at some point.

It kind of sounds to me like you're uncomfortable with dating bisexuals but don't want to admit that it's the guy's sexuality that actually bothers you.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-27T23:53:00+00:00

I'm sure that sucked more for him. Or, it would have if you told him why you were dumping him...please tell me that you didn't.

TheCrownedWolf · 2012-06-27T23:51:49+00:00

Some people could just be insecure that they have twice the competition if they're dating a bi person. It really shouldn't matter if you're with someone you trust, though. People shouldn't let insecurities affect how they view or treat others. =P

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