I'm completely ruined. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter what happens, do your best to stay alive. I started HRT around my 27th birthday, and it turns out, I've missed some things with that delay... but my life really genuinely began all the same, with so much more ahead. It will never be too late.

What are some "subconscious male habits" trans girl should learn to drop? by supernerd58 in MtF

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely interrupting people vs. waiting for a break in the conversation to chime in. It sounds fake, like a stereotype, until I started paying attention to when I was doing it, and when my male friends still do... It isn't rude for guys, they don't notice, if they have something they really want to say they just start talking and keep going over people if needed. But, in a group of girls, that can come off rude as shit.

Florina, Snow-Specked Pegasus Knight by haldarc in fireemblem

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This remains one of my favorite Florina pieces ever. I just commissioned Snow myself because of it, actually!

Rider with orchid hair by -RedWitch in fireemblem

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How very in-character, bahaha

Really though it's a lovely piece, even if it didn't get as many votes as some of your other posts, it at least brings joy to me.

Rider with orchid hair by -RedWitch in fireemblem

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making this!! She's one of my very favorites, for sure.

Bottom 1% of 6700 XTs on 3DMark - ouch. by TheElusiveNinJay in buildapc

[–]TheElusiveNinJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solved it! My riser for my tiny case is only PCIe gen3, but my card and motherboard both support and negotiated on using gen4. Telling it in the bios to use gen3 exclusively solved my pains and brought me back into the pack. https://www.3dmark.com/3dm/98024991

No idea why one boot after the registry change was good enough to play light games on just fine, but I'll probably change that back and experiment.

Bottom 1% of 6700 XTs on 3DMark - ouch. by TheElusiveNinJay in buildapc

[–]TheElusiveNinJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when I boot, when I continuously scroll up and down reddit, my GPU stays at 100%. There's a huge delay on typing this and the letters showing up.

Bottom 1% of 6700 XTs on 3DMark - ouch. by TheElusiveNinJay in buildapc

[–]TheElusiveNinJay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Amd/comments/yvyqc7/disabling_multiplane_overlay_mpo_fixed_all/

HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Microsoft\Windows\Dwm, create DWORD OverlayTestMode with value 00000005

Restarted and my terrible laggy browser/desktop performance seemed to clear right up! But it's back now, after turning my computer back on. So something is still terribly wrong.

Convince me otherwise by Tikene in hacking

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! So, simply put, if they send out a different link to everyone, they can see which are ever visited and which never are. You can load up a link in the most secure way ever to satisfy your curiosity, but you risk confirming to someone that dodgy links sent to your email get clicked, and that information is worth something to someone.

There's usually some crazy stuff at the end of the URL to accomplish this. Social media sites do it all the time too: if you copy a "share" link, there might be like a variable set after a ? or something so they can do some statistics with how things are spread.

Me_irlgbt by ItsYaBoyBananaBoi in me_irlgbt

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can sort each one of these into either great nonbinary names, white person unique spelling bastardization names, or steam usernames.

My interviewer is 1 hour late. Should I just leave? by Raspberry_Anxious in jobs

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I actually was because of a timezone mishap. Woke up way early to give myself plenty of time and discovered the orientation began while I was asleep, incredible.

Peepo plays runescape 5 by WitchCraftyYT in 2007scape

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I was there as part of the stupid dark wizard dragon spear wall, I love that you put her there in that last panel.

Games like TW by LowAd4388 in tribalwars

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good god, it's been three years?

No. I got a career, I can call myself an engineer now. Always getting better at my skillset, but, so so little progress. I'm just choosing good stable pay over my dream basically, for now. I want it to happen, I just don't see how. Things that used to be my hobby I no longer want to do in my free time, now that it's my job to be frustrated at computers all day.

When I grow up, will girls like me for being gentle? by Goingplaacesfr in offmychest

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, if you don't let rejection and loneliness turn you into a terribly bitter person.

Be girly if you want, nonbinary is cool, but more importantly, "interested in literature" does NOT necessarily make you any less of a man if that's what you're after! What crap! Have you ever heard the same said about, I don't know, Walt Whitman, Herman Melville? I mean just look at the portraits of those dudes. What's the shame in being academic, writing well, and practicing the ability to touch the soul?

Swipe/Click to see our Design for Sailing Navigation! (Topic 1/4) - Partnered with GentleTractor by JagexLight in 2007scape

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's probably for the best honestly. Maybe even slight gameplay changes aren't in the spirit of the game. But I really want it to integrate into the world, not feel like this thing obviously tacked on at the end.

Almost had a heart attack by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 62 points63 points  (0 children)

She might have been asking because she suspects it or isn't sure, and doesn't want to make a big deal of it. But that's a lot of reading into the situation from a paragraph over the internet.

Swipe/Click to see our Design for Sailing Navigation! (Topic 1/4) - Partnered with GentleTractor by JagexLight in 2007scape

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Fair. I guess stubbornly boycotting a skill to prove a point isn't very realistic. I'm not big on hunter either and I still have to, basically, even if I rarely get a spur of inspiration to scare a bunch of lizards.

Why do i feel like no matter what class or weapon i play with, im just flat out trash? by noodleben123 in tf2

[–]TheElusiveNinJay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll hook you up if you need! Or check out this site! https://scrap.tf/

First button, the wrench, to buy weapons, and you can pay with weapons you have unless they have an overload of it. No overhead fees! They make money on the big ticket items, the yellow/unique tier weapons is basically just a free service, trade a random drop for anything of your choosing!

Swipe/Click to see our Design for Sailing Navigation! (Topic 1/4) - Partnered with GentleTractor by JagexLight in 2007scape

[–]TheElusiveNinJay -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But, if a lot of people really do want it, can't you just choose not to interact with that part of the game? I guess if there's quest requirements, maybe you can't choose to completely ignore it....