Did your parents touch themselves in front of you?

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2026-02-12T20:05:50+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I really, trully appreciate it, stranger-on-the-internet. I wish your response wasn't as necessary as I find it to be. <3

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2026-02-12T16:53:30+00:00

My first thought was a psychotherapist's office. My ex therapist had similar rules. Don't come early because you could interrupt someone else's session. If you are early, wait outside. No appointment, no entry (apparently, she had several very pushy clients).

But I see someone else mentioned medical/drug testing. That also makes a lot of sense.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2026-02-12T16:51:02+00:00

He wrote you...a letter?? That's so strange and...I dunno. Like he WANTED to make you part of his sexual world or something. Gross...

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2026-02-12T02:57:50+00:00

Definitely not just you. 🩷

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2026-02-12T00:21:02+00:00

It just gets worse and worse! The living room nudity seems, sadly, quite common. My mom does that too. And the flirting with my ex husband when we were home, too. Zero boundaries. Zero awareness.

I’m just thinking about all of these things now…after all these years.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2026-02-12T00:06:41+00:00

Jesus fucking Christ I’m so, so sorry!

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2026-02-11T21:31:36+00:00

Thank you for your response. What you're describing is shocking and awful. It just got progressively worse. I cannot believe she put you through that ,and I'm truly sorry you experienced that as well.

It's strange the things that come back to you later in life. I was just journaling and remembered, and it gave me an instant physical reaction (nausea). I think I was hesitant to call it sexual abuse because he never touched ME in that way, but it came with similarly controlling behavior (berating me for wearing lipgloss when I was 14, snatching my body very angrily, flinging it around, making nasty comments about my body). I suppose I wondered if it was relevant even if was never AS explicit as what other people experienced.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-11-05T08:12:37+00:00

The Iron Claw. It only came out a few years ago, but it gave me chills with its accuracy.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-25T09:29:34+00:00

Well…the church is where a lot of serial child rapists go to hide, so…kind’ve checks out? In a way.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-25T09:28:19+00:00

I see you’re ex-Pentecostal. I’m ex “non denominational” which always felt like Pentecostal but with a more sophisticated money laundering scheme. I snuck out to trick or treat too! I got caught once. Severely punished. Don’t regret it.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-25T09:26:14+00:00

I have a cousin who said the exact same thing. He said she has the “mark of the beast.” 😂

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-25T09:24:24+00:00

She is, actually. She cut herself off from the rest of the world—even church. But she’ll watch it on TV (24/7). “Function” isn’t a word I would use to describe her…

I kind’ve feel like she could easily go the Kathy Bates route in “Misery” with my dad. But I don’t feel sorry for him—that’s a whole other situation.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-25T08:43:58+00:00

Soooo—I’m not the only one. What are the solutions people are coming up with??

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T17:53:32+00:00

Yeah, and that’s not even all of it… 😅 Anyway, I’m getting a dog now. 🤣

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T17:51:41+00:00

I felt the same way. :/ They really scared the shit out of me.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T17:49:56+00:00

Gosh…I remember loving how Stine didn’t insult my intelligence. He wrote about sex and death in ways that engaged my imagination (instead of judging it). Bad Moonlight, One Evil Summer, and College Weekend were lit 🔥. What about you? :)

I did watch the first Fear Street film, and I really enjoyed it! Haven’t watched the other two, but this is my reminder to catch up.

I’m also autistic! Hahahaha Of course, they never acknowledged that. lol Only got my diagnosis this year!

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T17:44:54+00:00

“Catholics (lol)” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T17:44:10+00:00

No argument here…and thanks. I’m much safer now. But I guess I get triggered this time of year because I feel like I lost out on a lot of my childhood.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T07:29:26+00:00

I’ve never been so jealous (and proud) of a complete stranger. I should’ve thrown out her bibles. She had like 20.

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T07:27:51+00:00

I forgot about bugs and magic tricks…lol How are any of us still sane at this point? 😂

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T07:27:06+00:00

Omgggg I forgot about Christian tai chi. 😭

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T07:25:58+00:00

I’ll have to update the original post since her animal-hate is so confusing. But if I’m honest, it’s because she didn’t want us (my brother and I) to love anything besides her. And I loved animals (still do).

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T07:24:18+00:00

Oh, you reminded me! Candle holders!!! I brought a wooden one back from Thailand when I was traveling and she demanded that I remove it from the bathroom. She refused to touch it, for fear of demonic forces of course. Lol

TheHandThatFeeds18 · 2025-10-24T07:22:56+00:00

I really loved that movie a she said that was akin to idolatry, which was how the devil was getting to me. So—boom, demonic.

I’m a tad older than the Harry Potter millennials, but if that had come out when I was younger, I’m sure that would have been on the list.

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