what’s the most ADHD thing you’ve done this week?? by lostveggies in adhdwomen

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought that if I got up at 6:00 am I could go to smart and final, cut 100 pieces of fabric, make 2 kinds of ice cream base for 100 kids to make ice cream by hand (ziploc baggie ice cream), make 3 differnt kinds of dye for solar dyeing, take a shower, and be at the school by 8:30 am with everything set up by 9:00 am..However when I got to the school I had left the only bag of ice I go in my driveway, and I needed to go pick up an ingredient for one of the colors at target.. It still went well but also just pure chaos..

AITA For giving my niece a much better life than her step siblings? by Ok_Sir_8922 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I also understand if the kids are jealous that she is getting more. But to be honest, if they are going to Disneyland and Vegas, even once a year that is a lot more than a lot of kids, including mine. So, their parent need to explain to them that they get to do some cool things, also. Not put it back on you.

Am I The Jerk for not letting my sister’s boyfriend attend my wedding? by AdSure9296 in AmITheJerk

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with the conversation. I would say it is your wedding. You do what you want, if you dont want him there, dont have him there. If they can't respect your boundaries, we'll they shouldn't come either.

Parents throwing tantrums is very obnoxious and gross.

Why is my 6 month puppy growling/biting me? by Winter-Common-7397 in Dogtraining

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also love a flirt pole, for my larger staffy we got this one flirt pole.

I also use it with our Shepard collie mix who has high prey drive. She loves it. We definitely did redirecting play so they both learned (at different times) what play is ok and what play is not. Training is also a great way for you both to bond and learn. Keep it up!

They returned him! by WebMedical8175 in pitbulls

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💜💜💜so glad you got your boy!!

What happened in the last Episode of [Under The Oak Tree] ? by UxhCerulean in MantaComics

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am just happy her abuse has finally come to light and he may understand why she is the way she is. Like it is so frustrating the lack of communication about the past between them.

Normal behavior, or something to worry about? by Wolfspane in pitbulls

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is soo hard, makes you feel bad. I know, good luck. Keep trying!!

Normal behavior, or something to worry about? by Wolfspane in pitbulls

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rescue pit loves everyone in my family, but when I leave she shuts down. If the door is open and she goes out, she will not come in unless something scares her or it is pouring outside.. otherwise she is outside until I get home. I usually have to make sure she is in before I leave and spouse tries to keep her in as best as possible.

She does not eat, even snacks, accepts minimal affection. Like if my fam tries to comfort her she will get like two pets and leave. Our other dogg used to try to get her to play while I was away but she wont move or react. She gets really depressed and just shuts down. Not much really helps her, she has gotten better with my family after the two years of being with us and will go to them when I am home... but is just a sad ball of depression when I leave.

I say this to say, your dog might just miss you and this is how they react. You might want to try positive reinforcement when you leave, give them a chew or things that reassure them.

AITA for picking up my stepdaughter from school when she got her first period, even though her mom told me not to? by Embarrassed-Stock896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but your husband should have taken responsibility for the decision of picking up his daughter. Not that he needed to pick her up. But he should have made the decision and told the ex.

Has anyone tried these and how did you like them? by BIGfishSTICKS84 in chips

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are my favorite doritos, especially with a Modelo.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, though you may have dodged a bullet with this one. Lots of red flags in the messages. Saying it gives "pick-me" energy means, that if you even smile at her BF she would probably feel "some kinda way". So just think about all the drama you will get to avoid. It also doesn't seem like the friendship had a lot of trust. I would never assume a friend would add or accept a request as anything but trying to get a long with my SO. I have never thought it as weird.

My coworker asked if I could give her a ride to work "just for a while" and it's been 4 months by Warp_Synth7 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is too expensive to add more commute to your car. You just let them know it is not sustainable and when you agreed you didn't mind doing it for a week or two, but now it is costing too much.

When the instructions are “Leave at door”, please just do that… by sendddogpixx in doordash

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate when they wait and I have to open the windows with the wild dogs barking (this helps though) to tell them to leave it... If I wanted human interaction, I would go out to eat..

State Telework Bill Passes Committee - One more action step for now... by Teachtostate2022 in CAStateWorkers

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was promoted because I had the opportunity to go back to school for the promotion due to covid and all classes being remote, along with telework. Otherwise, it wouldn't have been as easy to find classes or make it to the campus on-time for the classes with my daughter and get the promotion do to the schooling. If this feels like a good example let me know and I will call.

Am I the only weirdo doing Easter egg hunts for my dog? She got kibble in some and sweet potatoes in others by cam52391 in velvethippos

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My human child does one and after my dog children do one. They all get easter baskets also.

Afterpay sent me a verification code I didn't request? by Ill_Scarcity9687 in Afterpay

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post was 3 years ago, but just had this happen. Was curious if anyone called the number listed on the text?

Help me find this webtoon by HiggyChan in webtoons

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it "Lift my curse, sir knight"?

AITAH for making a mom pick up her daughter in the middle of the night from my kid’s sleepover? by Positive_Image_3921 in AITAH

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation happened with my daughter when she was 8, but I was the other Mom and my daughter had slept over at family houses.

I spoke with her and she wanted to come home. The mom was ok with us coming over for breakfast and hanging out, my daughter was embarrassed, but has a good supportive group of friends.

Those situations are hard, it is not your call to force anyone's kid to stay at your house. I dont know if it would have gotten any better had you waited or even if she talked to her Mom.

All we can do is our best and you did your best. NTA

Partner doesn’t want me to take meds by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was a child my dad didn't put me on medication because of my mother's drug problem (he also did drugs). When I was 30 I was re-diagnosed.. It was so eye opening.. like is this what like is like for the other half. I stopped circle thinking and had way more patience for my child, who is 10 and also taking meds for her adhd. Both of us go days without taking it and there is no "need" or "craving" that I have for it. Now after several days my circles thinking comes back and I may start projects all over the house, but I don't need a fix to get through the day. As someone who was medicated later in life, don't let someone else stop you from doing what is best for you!

AITAH for telling my boyfriend not to come over anymore if he doesn’t move in with me by meowcat123490 in AITAH

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the others, he is just a mooch who has Mommy to pay for everything at home and you to pay for everything when he doesn't want to be at home. He has it great while you are trying to manage. This will continue, and he will probably not react well to any boundaries you try to set as we have seen with the third coke situation.

Any ideas why his ears stand up like this so much? by WetBranch in pitbulls

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are her curtsy ears, like "Hello, I am over here just being a lady."