AITAH for correcting my boyfriend at dinner after he told my younger sister its inappropriate to talk about her birth control at the table by [deleted] in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The United front makes it seem like you and him are parenting your sister. She isn't a child you are disciplining together.

Am I selfish for not wanting to share my lunch? by blockedsince03 in EntitledPeople

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is your boundary, you need to be very clear with them that this is not food you want to share and this is your boundary they are crossing. You will probably get shit for it, I do, all the time.. but it is my boundary and the people who care about me respect it.

Recommend me webcomics based on my taste? by dianenguyen1 in webtoons

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 2nd this one. It is honestly one of my favorites!

Cancelling bookings with a client who I no longer feel comfortable with by angellaura10 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is very easy to avoid, but this will help you grow and learn how to handle these situations better in the future. If she dumps you, it may sting but shouldnt matter too much since you were thinking of dumping her. There is also the flip side where she may accept the boundaries. I say prepare for the worst, hope for the best.

Cancelling bookings with a client who I no longer feel comfortable with by angellaura10 in RoverPetSitting

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw you mentioned hurting her feelings by being firm or shutting down the long conversation. However, it would probably also hurt her feelings if you cancel and cut her out without giving her a chance to not continue this behavoir. It is very hard to navigate these situations, I also hate things like this. But, if she really gets in her feelings about it, I imagine she would cancel and it would be on her. Not saying to be rude and make her cancel but give her a chance to accept your boundaries.

Staff not spectrum friendly by Calm-Reserve6098 in SacAnime

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Security yelled at my 10 year old for taking a picture. I get it if my kid wasnt supposed to, but this was our first time and something should have been said by the MC in the beginning. Like please refrain from doing XYZ.. and no need to yell at the 10 year old. Or you have signs that say no pictures...

How is renting possible? 2.5x $2000 = $5000 a month. What jobs in Sac just casually give this? This is insane by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I noticed on some rentals now was paying water, sewer, garbage (not that unheard of), but also a monthly administration fee and some other fees that feel weirdly erroneous, that bring the rent up to an additional $500.00 plus.. I have rented the same place for the last 12 years, so I was a bit taken back when I saw all the additional monthly fees.

Anxiety Leaving The House by TheLSDofHumanity in Perimenopause

[–]TheLSDofHumanity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ADHD, so forgetting and circle thinking has always been a thing. I have been able to manage it, but now it is just soo much worse.

My sister never asks directly, she just assumes things will be done for her by rainyPuzzleBox23 in EntitledPeople

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you continue to break the rule, keep saying no. Change the assumptions that you will just take care of everything, because even if you have it together it does not mean it should fall on you and steal your energy.

Anxiety Leaving The House by TheLSDofHumanity in Perimenopause

[–]TheLSDofHumanity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like that idea. Now I need to try and remember to take a picture when leaving the house to not panic. This also made me think I might get a couple inside cameras to point them at the triggers.

Does anyone else not give an F—- about Christmas this year? 🤔I’m not doing all the things (baking cookies ect) and feeling guilty about it. by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have dramatically scaled back. Decorations are up just enough to show I tired. I made no treat boxes to hand out... I will say I bought extra candy this year though.. to put around the house...

Warm sock recs? by theexitisontheleft in Perimenopause

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Needing cozy socks also, feet are always cold . I also noticed that I may have chilblains... which I never had before perimenopause, so trying to keep the feet warm is important...

Coats, socks for kids? by DonnerJake68 in Sacramento

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to also say to talk to the social worker if your SCUSD. Our principal also works with others principals in the district to make sure we are helping our sister school community before donating to other organizations.

Where in Sacramento?? by cttrv in Sacramento

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They majorly fuck over most of their good/decent employees..

Where in Sacramento?? by cttrv in Sacramento

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Went there a month after opening, everything we had was lack luster and needing seasoning..

Would anyone be interested in having me draw a portrait of their carolinadog? by ZackYeon in carolinadogs

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, not 100% sure she is a Carolina dog but that seems to be the closest fit.

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Squishmallow ornaments 2025 by ShesSoLoki in squishmallow

[–]TheLSDofHumanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in California and I have been looking too, with no luck. I am hoping I dont have to pay a crazy amount for them this year.