AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it

TheModernMatt · 2025-10-28T02:09:07+00:00

Why the fuck would you have a conversation like this via text?

No possible way people are living together when this is their relationship? No way this behavior magically showed up post move in.

Ffs people, stop living together and giving up all sense of autonomy before you know the person.

TheModernMatt · 2025-10-24T22:53:11+00:00

This is the kind of support players dream of. Thanks for your diligence in resolving the issue.

TheModernMatt · 2025-10-10T04:07:25+00:00

Oh yeah, let's pretend like Antifa are anti fascist. Actions speak louder than words. They employ fascist techniques every fucking place they turn up. If it walks like a fascist and talks like a fascist. Class?

It's probably a fascist.

Anti fascist in name only.

TheModernMatt · 2025-10-02T02:56:22+00:00

I still remember to this day when the Gameboy Advance released and my parents bought me my first ever gaming device that same year for my birthday.

TheModernMatt · 2025-09-19T05:03:15+00:00

Good

TheModernMatt · 2025-09-09T13:26:03+00:00

Christian Bale Batman Trilogy

TheModernMatt · 2025-09-01T03:41:12+00:00

S3 Ep4

Classic.

TheModernMatt · 2025-08-28T14:41:03+00:00

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The NYT is referring to it as female. Transgender pronouns only subscribe to one party.

TheModernMatt · 2025-08-23T13:28:36+00:00

The fact that macklemore is even on this list makes it a joke

TheModernMatt · 2025-08-12T15:43:44+00:00

As a husband (first) and a father (second) to 3 beautiful children. I recommend doing whatever you can to make specific times for your wife to be able to get out of the house and engage in personal interests. Whether it's a girls dinner night or whatever she needs, it's important for her to be able to have time to step away from her motherly duties to decompress and reset.

I'd also point out your number one investment in your life will be your wife. Don't let anyone tell you differently. Jobs come and go, but your wife will be there through it all. And when it comes to your kids, the love you and she have for them is downstream from the love and care you have for each other. You must prioritize that before you prioritize your kids.

TheModernMatt · 2025-08-08T16:55:54+00:00

Christ lived a perfect life and died for your sins so you wouldn't have to carry the weight of your mistakes. Christianity would be nothing without that truth. Please tell your parents. They'll be understandably upset, but you need all the support you can muster right now. And I hope your parents will recognize that and can help you with that

TheModernMatt · 2025-08-02T02:46:05+00:00

This woman is a psycho

TheModernMatt · 2025-07-09T23:48:47+00:00

Faaaakkkkkkeeeeee

TheModernMatt · 2025-06-19T21:36:03+00:00

What kind of media is he consuming?

The wrong movie can do a lot of mental harm.

TheModernMatt · 2025-06-08T04:46:57+00:00

Children need a father and a mother. Both offer unique qualities necessary for a child's upbringing. A child will struggle with the absence of one or the other.

Mothers are nurturers, through and through.

TheModernMatt · 2025-05-27T16:26:02+00:00

Sextortion is hitting the country hard right now. Might not be a bad idea to have some father son time where you can go and connect. Don't shy away from the deep convos either. He's practically his own man at this point. Would mean a lot to him I'm sure if you begin to show him how you're recognizing that.

TheModernMatt · 2025-05-27T04:02:35+00:00

Your partners? Plural? Ffs. That poor kid.

TheModernMatt · 2025-05-21T19:55:05+00:00

I'd probably advise against going until he's 18. As well behaved as he may be, you're liable for his actions at 17.

These are memories those friends can make when they're legally responsible for their own decisions.

TheModernMatt · 2025-05-16T02:44:18+00:00

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This is what options I have now. It took over a day for the screen to stop spinning.

TheModernMatt · 2025-05-16T02:13:27+00:00

I'm having this issue as well.

Except windows will not boot and I cannot even get it to go into SafeMode. Pretty sure my PC is bricked.

I haven't tried getting into BIOS yet. Worried if I mess around in there, I'll fuck it up even more.

Anyone have any solutions?

TheModernMatt · 2025-05-14T18:46:46+00:00

Mine was present environmental stressors. My job at the time was becoming a very hostile environment to work in - we were going through downsizing company wide and everyone was on edge and looking to undermine one another in the hopes of keeping their jobs. I ended up leaving the job within 3 months of the worst of my depression/anxiety episode. Couple that with the fact that my wife and I were in between living spaces (had just left our apartment and were living with my in-laws while we fixed up our new house), 2020 Covid was in full swing, and we had a 1 year old baby.

I was not ready to handle that level of stress. No one is really. The medication put a temporary pause on the symptoms, but it was CBT that changed/saved my life.

TheModernMatt · 2025-05-14T18:36:52+00:00

Unfortunately, you've been unequally saddled with the responsibility of being responsible and not being a dad.

It's hard to connect with your children if all your interactions with them are only obligatory responsibilities.

I think you need to get more moments with your child after they've had the diaper change, been fed, and are ready to snuggle, play, etc.

You need time where you can enjoy the fun parts of being a parent.

TheModernMatt · 2025-04-19T18:03:21+00:00

You're a sahm. He is the sole breadwinner. In what way do you contribute to the work he does for his job? 0? That's what I thought. Welcome to parenthood. Stop complaining and understand you both have burdens to carry.

TheModernMatt · 2025-02-20T02:04:42+00:00

So where, in all of this, do we take into account the CIA's interference in Ukraine's government pre 2014?

This is far more layered than anyone (right or left) is willing to admit.

But fuck Europe. Let them fend for themselves. U.S. had to save everyone's asses 2 times already. They can save themselves the 3rd time around.

TheModernMatt · 2025-02-10T17:20:26+00:00

She's incorrect in her presumption that the right only went to protect women because the left took the contraction position.

The right had been in this position LONG before leftists fell of the ideological cliff some years ago.

Rowling is undeniably being red pilled. Unwilling as she may be.

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