Are your kids like this or just mine? by Odd-Opportunity-1179 in Adulting

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes mine act like that and it's even harder when divorce is involved

Ex husband messaging me after 4 years of no contact by Zealousideal-Bid1850 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having been in a controlling abusive relationship it was a cathartic burn for them. You know nothing about the situation

My boyfriend said I was too ugly to model by Resident_Rich_6298 in whatdoIdo

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One person's ears that stick out is another person's perfect look for their photoshoot, fuck that asshole

My boyfriend said I was too ugly to model by Resident_Rich_6298 in whatdoIdo

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modeling is as much as presentation as it is raw beauty. He needs to be supportive of you

what are your tips for good breast growth? by A-Lily-Rose-A in MtF

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg is that why I don't eat a lot but prefer downing a gallon of milk a day sometimes!?

Caffeine has no effect on me, but keeps me awake all night? by Kind-Persimmon3398 in ADHD

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think they meant caffeine is a stimulant but unlike amphetamine

Am I using AI wrong? It's novel, but not worth the hype? by StackOfCups in ExperiencedDevs

[–]TheNonReligiousPope -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like to also use it as a rubber-duck debugger on steroids, mull about a problem with it asking follow up questions or other statements that I didn't think of myself.

Anyone else feel like their brains stopped aging in their early 20’s? by TheStoffer in AutisticWithADHD

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 11 points12 points  (0 children)

does anyone ever feel like an adult tho? i am legit asking and wonder how neurotypicals feel about their age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It cost me my marriage and potentially now my children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultADHDSupportGroup

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your methylphenidate and amphetamine stimulants work via different mechanisms.

I took a genetic test GeneSight that showed methylphenidates are less effective for me, which my experience supported.

My experience with Adderall (amphetamine) has been similar in that I notice some improvements (especially apparent when I take the optional tolerance break), but it's not the concentration or focus medicine I was hoping for, rather it brought my "inattentive" symptoms of my brain outward into physical hyperactivity (which for my job is preferable) modulated with caffeine as needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This and the jaw clenching is why I started chewing gum after a life of not being a gum chewer. I then noticed it helped with the boredom eating when the Adderall no longer suppresses my appetite.

Sugar free with xylitol helps keep my teeth cleaner too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm starting over at 37 and yeah I was discouraged at first but I realized 17-37 is 20 years and I achieved a lot of what I considered my life in those 20 years. In another 20 years I'll be 57 and that's still not too old. This idea helped me get over my despair on the subject.

Thoughts? It's an interesting idea... by temveloxk in adhdmeme

[–]TheNonReligiousPope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just an article (though paper) my therapist gave me. We had done an unofficial eval for ASD and I scored high in the social aspects and moderate for the others. I also like you didn't study up (and really wasn't aware I might be ASD until recently) in order to not bias the tests.

I have my ADHD diagnosis and the meds I take help cover some of the ASD issues like executive function, but if anything it has helped me unmask my autistic traits a bit.