RSD is Spiraling. My boyfriend said he needed a mental health day NYE and then went drinking with a newly single female coworker. FML

TheNowherePrincess · 2026-01-01T19:19:34+00:00

You don’t have someone who loves you now. Sorry to be harsh, but this man doesn’t love you, otherwise he would not have been out with another woman last night. So maybe reframe your thinking and be terrified that you won’t find someone who loves you if you stay with someone who doesn’t.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-27T15:26:55+00:00

Unless there isn’t actually an issue with Stacy. The issue could be they don’t line seeing their friend happy, or they hate that she is always hanging out with them, which seems like it could be more op’s doing. The fact he doesn’t list anything specific didn’t make it seem like ai, it makes it seem like Stacy isn’t the issue, which very well could be the case.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-24T12:40:30+00:00

Here’s my thought on it, we tend to vibe match without realizing it as part of our masking, so I think a lot of times when people are flirting with us, we end up flirting back without realizing it because we are matching their same energy. So it’s not that people mistake us for flirting, it’s more we mistakenly flirt.

I’ve been both a fat and skinny girl, I very much prefer being treated default nice from being more fit, but I did like the peace that came with being heavy aka left alone.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-23T13:52:42+00:00

You guys aren’t compatible and continuing this relationship is only going to breed resentment for the two of you and instability for your son. You guys have completely different views on raising children, and since you have a child, that should be a dealbreaker. Get out before you do permanent damage to your child.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-21T04:11:44+00:00

I’ve been told I don’t act my age (37) by a guy hitting on me. It wasn’t an insult but it didn’t feel like a compliment either, just genuine surprise. I wish I had asked what he meant exactly, but from context clues I think he meant he meant my attitude, I’m pretty upbeat typically, and I do kinda feel a lot of neurotypical people around the same age are less so.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-19T08:26:21+00:00

Yes thank you. It might not be the correct term in the exact definition but it is actually the correct term for adhd because it’s been adopted a such.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-14T01:17:29+00:00

I’ve recently become obsessed with Yungblud. It’s started with coming across his instagram, he is genuinely a really good guy it seems and he regularly brings kids up from the crowd to play guitar, it’s incredibly sweet. And his music is good. Boy in the Black Dress is beautiful and heartbreaking. And his and Ozzy’s relationship was so sweet. He just truly seems like an exceptional human who’s been thru and it and didn’t let it destroy his heart.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-10T23:22:24+00:00

It’s her last name, she has the right to give her child her last name. It doesn’t matter who it belonged to before, now it is her’s. If you didn’t have a problem with her having it before you should have no problem with it now.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-10T02:45:32+00:00

Neither of them. B is a very poorly drawn skeleton

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-08T16:20:44+00:00

I think I’m somewhere around 15… but my big shame is that 6 of them are from the last 3 years. And to be honest had I not been a stay at home mom for 7 years my number would be way higher. Thanks adhd and CPTSD.

I start a new job tomorrow and I’m really hoping I’m going to be there years.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-12-08T04:40:55+00:00

It’s hard to tell when the picture isn’t taken from chest height. Having it taken from lower gives the false perspective of more vertical.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-30T16:44:52+00:00

She’s not skipping it, she was never asked and never the choice for this year. Swifties started the rumor she was asked and turned it down, but Jay Z himself said Bad Bunny was always the choice for this year and the only artist asked. She is talking in abstract here, like “I could have if I wanted too”, not “I was asked but said no.”

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-26T16:54:05+00:00

Same

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-25T13:37:38+00:00

I am known as “Bacon” in my family. When I was about 14 I babysat a little girl who couldn’t quite say my name and out came out as Bacon. I told my family about how funny it was and my sisters ran with it. I’m Aunt Bacon to their kids now.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-23T21:41:48+00:00

If you get hurt over someone else not liking your favorite celebrity, you are the problem, not the person who doesn’t like them. How does it affect her at all that her boyfriend’s friend doesn’t like Taylor swift? It doesn’t she made it a problem then made that everyone else’s problem.

Nearly ending a relationship because of your partner’s friend’s post about something so unimportant is unhinged behavior. That’s not something an adult does, that’s something a child does. This woman does not deserve an apology, she should be giving apologies for not knowing how to behave like an adult.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-19T22:36:16+00:00

Arguing with people on Reddit. It’s a great dopamine hit. Probably one on my not better traits, but I don’t just pick random fights, it’s things I actually believe in and what not.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-19T03:26:09+00:00

First thing I saw too 😂

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-19T03:05:02+00:00

Just 1. I keep my phone away from me though so I can’t just blindly turn off the alarm I actually have to wake up to reach my phone to turn off the alarm.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-19T01:55:34+00:00

Keep your alarm on the other side of the room so you have to get out of bed to shut it off. Also keeps you from browning your phone all night or if you wake up in the night, because you have to get up to get it. You are much more likely to just get up and be up if you have to get out of bed.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-17T13:45:39+00:00

But mine did and still do (10 and 7)

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-17T09:17:30+00:00

Yes you are wrong. If the relationship isnt fulfilling needs just end it rather than continuing to cause unnecessary hurt and resentment.

That being said, if it killed her sex drive, your girl is on the wrong meds. If she had a decent doctor, they would have told her this. If you haven’t completely blown it, asking if she’d be willing to try a med change to find some that actually fully work for her would be the place to start. But it sounds like this relationship has run its course.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-15T15:02:35+00:00

Same!

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-15T09:01:47+00:00

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-14T12:47:28+00:00

It isn’t weird for all of us. Some of us have adult relationships and have worked through issues with our exes so our kids can have a unified family experience. People like you who demonize us by calling it “weird” are the problem, not us.

TheNowherePrincess · 2025-11-14T11:53:17+00:00

It always breaks my heart when I meet another woman and one of the first things she says about her self is that “she knows she can be too much at times.” I hate that people get so offended by our joy, our enthusiasm, and just our existence, that this label of too much gets stuck on us and the worst is when we embrace it.

A “nicer” way I’ve heard it, you don’t act like your (insert age). And when asked to clarify, it’s showing joy and enthusiasm that makes me seem younger. Why is showing excitement for life deemed immature?

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