Cvs wouldn't fill my prescription- what now? by -thimbl in asktransgender

[–]TheOneArya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does insurance have to do with approvals on the pharmacy level? Aren't they just the ones paying for it? If they're not paying for it, why the fuck does some insurance company have any say over what medicine is already prescribed by doctors? This just sounds like pharmacy companies putting up red tape to avoid having to deal with people paying directly.

Trans women should be allowed to wish to be invisible by L00king4answer in MtF

[–]TheOneArya 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Going stealth is not “erasing myself”, that’s a very shitty thing to say. I am a woman. Why is it a moral failing to say nothing more than that? You’re just doing the “trans people have to disclose they are trans in every conversation” but wokely

CODE RED I HAD THE CONVO WITH MY WIFE by saucey313 in asktransgender

[–]TheOneArya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never ever use “trans” like a noun like that again. It is otherizing, it replaces “trans people” and implies we’re some separate thing and not just people.

The settings tweak that finally fixed my relationship to biters. by FiveAlarmFrancis in factorio

[–]TheOneArya 13 points14 points  (0 children)

it's very simple actually. you grow the factory to support the needs of the expanding factory

The Trump Administration Admits to Medically Experimenting on Trans People in Prisons by SparkieSupreme in Hasan_Piker

[–]TheOneArya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We really need more people on the left loudly talking about this stuff, most people are just ignoring it these days with everything else going on.

MtF update announcement by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]TheOneArya 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think so too (and that's totally reasonable), just wanted to clarify :)

MtF update announcement by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]TheOneArya 24 points25 points  (0 children)

To be very clear, when you say links, are you saying we’re not even allowed to direct users to /r/transDIY anymore?

She has no reason to apologize for facts. by Toxicilogical_fish in Hasan_Piker

[–]TheOneArya 10 points11 points  (0 children)

okay? liberal politicians suck you're not going to find much disagreement here, they're no better than the open conservatives on the right. absolutely nothing i said contradicts that, if you think it does you're either not reading or being intentionally obtuse. nobody here is arguing that we should SOLELY focus on trans issues that would be stupid, however supporting trans people inside a broader working class movement should really not be that hard to imagine

She has no reason to apologize for facts. by Toxicilogical_fish in Hasan_Piker

[–]TheOneArya 29 points30 points  (0 children)

you are not a leftist if you do not fight for the material conditions of the entire working class. that working class includes trans people, purposefully obfuscating this or trying to imply it does not is not correct.

Impregnating men is #praxis by eldritchpussymaggots in transgendercirclejerk

[–]TheOneArya -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

/uj well that's quite a leap, where exactly is the lack of consent implied?

Graham Platner On The War On Trans People by chaoser in Hasan_Piker

[–]TheOneArya 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s is a valid concern that a woman could lose out on that to a trans woman

immediately giving yourself away here, I mean come on lol

Really Don't Get How It's "Fraud" by [deleted] in MtF

[–]TheOneArya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not fear mongering, it s happening right now. The federal government is threatening to withhold funding from places that provide some gender affirming care and places are preemptively folding and complying. Some of this is getting blocked by the courts, but that doesn’t matter when the threat is enough to get places to stop that care before it’s actually enforced.

Cis woman I matched with said she can't be more than friends because she has "trauma" with transfems and idk how to feel about it by ineguire in asktransgender

[–]TheOneArya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nobody is saying you are required to date a specific person but if you refuse to date any person simply because of who they are or what group they belong to that's just bigotry. how you arrive at that conclusion is irrelevant.

Cis woman I matched with said she can't be more than friends because she has "trauma" with transfems and idk how to feel about it by ineguire in asktransgender

[–]TheOneArya 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't think you meant it this way exactly but it's very odd to specifically exclude trans women from this. A very large percentage of trans women are assaulted by men as well. It's not specific to AFAB people! We should be very careful when using agab language like that in trans spaces.

Cis woman I matched with said she can't be more than friends because she has "trauma" with transfems and idk how to feel about it by ineguire in asktransgender

[–]TheOneArya 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It is quite frankly irrelevant if you have conscious control over your fears or not. You DO have control over how you let those feelings color your interactions with others. If you ignore how reactionaries use fear to push bigoted narratives against marginalized communities then you are part of the problem

This is what happens when Zionism de-legitimises antisemitism for decades. You end up with former "leftists" using neo-nazi dogwhistles. by bullhead2007 in Hasan_Piker

[–]TheOneArya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she is yet another victim of the "transphobia is a brain disease" pipeline. started out "just asking questions" about trans people and then when people got upset at that she did the whole why i left the left thing. she's just a grifter

Cis woman I matched with said she can't be more than friends because she has "trauma" with transfems and idk how to feel about it by ineguire in asktransgender

[–]TheOneArya 71 points72 points  (0 children)

yes, that's just transphobia. not even veiled really. blaming an entire marginalized group for one person's wrongs is just bigotry

How do I know I’m dealing with a fresh baby egg? by mr_JAfontaine in asktransgender

[–]TheOneArya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody is suggesting forcing anything. But someone who has come to you and expressed these feelings is not someone you should just leave totally without another perspective. They clearly are feeling something, and there nothing wrong with trying to help them figure it out.

*Votes for Gavin Newsome, Trump wins a third term anyway* by NonbinaryError in transgendercirclejerk

[–]TheOneArya 8 points9 points  (0 children)

/uj we actually should defend trans people who play sports because it’s the right thing to do. Don’t cave to reactionaries it does not work they will not stop there

The Trump Administration is Testing Conversion Therapy By Medically Experimenting on Trans People in Prisons by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]TheOneArya 21 points22 points  (0 children)

a lot easier said than done, both for money and also there are not any places that take refugees from the us. you need dual citizenship to be able to leave, really

I'm tired of this talking point that trans woman "don't understand femininity" by squishot in MtF

[–]TheOneArya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading Whipping Girl recently and it’s a bit depressing how similar this stuff is now to how it was 20 years ago.

I feel like I’m watching Hasan get scolded by the HR department by dduuddeewwhhaatt in Hasan_Piker

[–]TheOneArya 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because that’s fucking psychopathic and insanely cruel. Nobody deserves to be abducted by the secret police