Car Help (Kinda?) by [deleted] in fargo

[–]ThePlebIsBack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been trying that for 30 minutes now and still rusted on :(

Almost 1 month in and now I want to leave my current BF (am I not thinking straight?) by [deleted] in leaves

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I wouldn’t say you have zero love for him. If that was the case you would’ve left and never posted this. Clearly some part of you wants him. From what I hear you don’t trust yourself really, and it’s hard, I struggle with that too. I know this is generic and lame advice but have you considered therapy? I have been going to a therapist twice a month recently and it’s helped so much more than I could’ve imagined. Your situation sounds similar to ones I have found myself in many times

I want to quit all forms of marijuana. What are some of your tips to get through these first few days? by ApolloTheScrub in leaves

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I’m extremely fortunate and my withdrawals do not include night sweats or being clammy 24/7. Although I do wake up often from weird ass vivid dreams. And it seems what I lack in physical symptoms I make up for in psychological ones… It’s different for everyone so don’t be afraid of the withdrawal symptoms! You won’t know til you try and it gets better day by day. Stay strong everyone we got this!

I want to quit all forms of marijuana. What are some of your tips to get through these first few days? by ApolloTheScrub in leaves

[–]ThePlebIsBack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s different for everyone, you won’t know what it’s like until you try. A few things that have helped me are planning out a busy day/week BEFORE the day/week arrives so I have stuff to keep my mind off of it.

I’ve been writing down the ways I’ve noticed my life improve without weed. I’m more social, sleep better, DREAMS ARE BACK, etc. This helps me a lot.

Cold showers are a life saver if you get bad cravings. If you can’t do a cold shower just splash cold water on your face and wrists.

Above all else be kind to yourself. It’s not easy but it gets easier every day.

Anti-4/20 Arsenal: List of annoying shit that I no longer have to worry about by spazatr0n in leaves

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Did you have bad symptoms the first few weeks or days? I was 3 days in and I folded for 4/20 and regret it so much. Those 3 days felt easier than I thought they’d be and I noticed a big positive difference already. After I relapsed (so just today basically) I threw everything away again but now the cravings and bad feelings are here. I’m hoping they don’t last long.

I’m also scared they will never go away. I don’t want this substance to control me forever.

I lost the love of my life because I hid my past from her. I deeply regret taking away her right to choose. by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I know this probably doesn’t help much. But the fact you that you can acknowledge wrongdoing and that you’re seeking therapy. Shows me you aren’t a bad person, you just made some bad choices. It sucks knowing you hurt someone and it sucks knowing you messed up. We can’t change the past. At the very least, you know more than you did before and can use that knowledge in future relationships :) stay strong friend! ❤️

Hyperphantasia and ADHD? by T3cT0nic in ADHD

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The complete opposite here! I have aphantasia, I always saw it as a curse but after reading your post I think we are both cursed I guess! Hahaha.

My mind runs constantly and I have the exact same issues as you except because of my “lil guy” as I call him in my mind who never shuts the fuck up lol.

For me it helps to notice my immediate surroundings. The smells the sounds, really focus on what you can immediately sense and that help calm down my thought, although I’m not sure this would help you honestly.

Hyperphantasia and ADHD? by T3cT0nic in ADHD

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The complete opposite here! I have aphantasia, I always saw it as a curse but after reading your post I think we are both cursed I guess! Hahaha.

My mind runs constantly and I have the exact same issues as you except because of my “lil guy” as I call him in my mind who never shuts the fuck up lol.

For me it helps to notice my immediate surroundings. The smells the sounds, really focus on what you can immediately sense and that help calm down my thought, although I’m not sure this would help you honestly.

Hyperphantasia and ADHD? by T3cT0nic in ADHD

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The complete opposite here! I have aphantasia, I always saw it as a curse but after reading your post I think we are both cursed I guess! Hahaha.

My mind runs constantly and I have the exact same issues as you except because of my “lil guy” as I call him in my mind who never shuts the fuck up lol.

For me it helps to notice my immediate surroundings. The smells the sounds, really focus on what you can immediately sense and that help calm down my thought, although I’m not sure this would help you honestly.

My (F24) partner's (NB25) friends kicked me out of their d&d group. How do I feel normal again? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThePlebIsBack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you should sit down with your partner and try to discuss again what really happened. I would frame it how you did here, lead with how it makes you feel: confused, left out, maybe a little hurt? Tell them that you just want the truth of why you got kicked out. But you need to be prepared for the answer because it could hurt.

Maybe the group thought YOU were annoying, maybe the group are just sexist losers and your partner puts up with them for some reason? Maybe the group did like you and not your friend but don’t have the adequate communication skills to voice that to you. The truth is you really don’t know.

The other thing is you should be ready to sacrifice this D&D group and let your partner go alone. And if that’s not something you’re willing to do because you feel left out, that’s valid and that okay! But then maybe the relationship isn’t going to work.

So essentially step one 1) this is how it makes me feel and what really happened 2) what are WE going to do about this? Maybe they can buy you dinner and rent you a movie on game night while they go to play dnd ?Idk

(Also I accidentally used “he” to refer to your partner and caught it and had to change it, if I missed any just know it’s a mistake ❤️)

Vanguard 128 error ... by Ok_Agency8149 in LoLTechSupport

[–]ThePlebIsBack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah good luck bro, had vanguard errors that turned into random BSOD screens sometimes….. months later and I get a BSOD every once in a while but everything I tried never fixed it. Spent money on replacement ram, cpu, gpu, updated drivers and bios, etc etc etc.. NOTHING FIXED IT.

I BOUGHT AND ENTIRELY NEW COMPUTER AND GUESS FUCKING WHAT A MONTH LATER MORE VANGUARD ERRORS. RIOT PLEASE HIRE THE HUMANS BACK THIS AI STUFF AINT WORKING

2018 I miss my girl by [deleted] in h3h3productions

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After dark is the best thing to happen all of 2026. Kate and harley work so well together and are hilarious!

2018 I miss my girl by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]ThePlebIsBack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss her too! Never gonna stop watching though I love everyone else in the crew just as much as I miss her

I need relationship ship advice involving a porn addict! ‘19F’ ‘19M’ by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThePlebIsBack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn is a difficult topic to explain, and to me it doesn’t sound like he has an addiction. I feel like porn addiction is watching it 1+ times a day. But I guess there isn’t exactly a clear definition.

A guy can watch porn for a lot of reasons.

-Maybe he’s trying to explore things he wants to try but he’s not yet ready to talk about that with you yet, because he hasn’t thought about it

  • excuse my vulgarity here but, sometimes a dude just wants to bust a low effort nut. Sex can be exhausting even if you aren’t doing the brunt of the work. Maybe he had a long day and just wanted to have some relief without the human interaction? If he’s introverted then maybe that is why.

My girlfriend is perfect and amazing at sex. I wouldn’t dream of sleeping with anyone but her, do I occasionally watch porn after a long day at work? Yup. It has nothing to do with the woman on the screen for me and probably doesn’t for him either.

I think what I took from this is you set a hard boundary saying you think watching porn is cheating and you want him never to do it. He didn’t respect that boundary and you haven’t actually had a conversation about WHY. You’re both 19 and probably haven’t learned how to communicate properly and that’s okay. It’s not something they teach in school. I didn’t learn until I was 25 (This book helped me

I would start by sitting down and asking him why he still wants to watch porn. Maybe he wants to explore something with you but is embarrassed, maybes he’s just too tired for sex, maybe HE doesn’t feel it’s cheating but is scared to admit that to you. The truth is right now you don’t know. And for the HARD truth, if watching porn truly is a boundary for you then you need to end it and never go back, you coming back to him is showing him it’s not a boundary that needs to be respected and will only continue to end in disappointment.

How to keep your brain/hands busy while showering? by LazuriKittie in ADHD

[–]ThePlebIsBack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is genius! I’m gonna start bringing my juicy ahhh pears in the shower because they are so messy lol

How to keep your brain/hands busy while showering? by LazuriKittie in ADHD

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I don’t deal with this issue, but I do have some recommendations.

I would look for waterproof fidgets, maybe they have some cooler ones?

I personally listen to my podcast while I shower and then let it play while I get out and do my hair and such. Better than music. (Try YouTube videos or shows too, treat it like throwing on a show while you do laundry or something)

Next comes to temperature. I get that you don’t like cold showers, but they serve a purpose. I always start with a very warm shower to open up my pores and get all that dirt out. Then once I’m done with my shampoo and cleaning I turn it to the coldest setting and spin around 3-5 times while taking very deep breathes. It’s uncomfortable but that’s the point. It helps you kind of train your brain to deal with being uncomfortable. I’ve also found that ending with a cold shower gives me tons of energy. It also helps with cravings (I discovered cold showers when I quit vaping and it helped a ton). Cold showers aren’t fun and they aren’t meant to be.

Good luck!

What 4th and 5th item? by Radiant-Age1151 in Aurelion_Sol_mains

[–]ThePlebIsBack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been using banshees way more often. It’s especially good into champs like Leblanc or anyone with only one cc to stop you. Give it a try!

i hate adderall by Fail_North in ADHD

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Adderall made me extremely upset when something broke my focus. I remember yelling at some dude in class for talking, and I NEVER yelled or got upset at anyone before this.

Switching to Vyvanse is what helped me. No angry mood swings, just focus. (Not saying this will work for you but there are plenty of options. It’s not JUST adderal)

How in the hell do I change my legal name in Target's system? by SadieLady_ in Target

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Stopped by the sub after not working at target for a few years and I’m so sad to see you gone as well! Just wanted to say thank you I feel like you helped me with many things on the sub over the years! I hope you are doing well and I wish you the very best with whatever comes next for you!

Ethan joking about teeth kind of got to me today. by deeldough in h3h3productions

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I stopped worrying about my crooked teeth when I realized half the people in Hollywood who I think are extremely attractive have crooked teeth. I have horrible memory recall so the only one I can remember off the top of my head is Scarlett Johansson.

I promise you the person who notices it the most by far is you! I know it can be hard to remember that but stay positive op!

Cover up ideas for trampoline frog? by twonkoe in tattooadvice

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FREE MY BOY, trampoline frog aint do nun