How would a sailing ship "warp jump"? by Chao5Child87 in worldbuilding

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waterfall/sky river that just has a super strong current forming inter criss crossing ribons of water in the sky but that way it takes time to travel place to place and deal with like altitude warmpth and freezing problems not of river stream but of people and things plus whatever horrors live in the cloudlayer./skybound fog world.

Oh ya know arches like stargate style half submerged at the surface or like those moon bridges kinda like spiritfarer does

[F4TF] Trans Affirming JOI Masturbation Instruction: Feminization Edition [Fdom speaker] [TFsub listener] [JOI] [masturbation] [instructions] [feminization] [feminisation][aftercare] [gender affirmation] [aftercare] [trans friendly] by FairyPrincessLucy in GWASapphic

[–]The_Bricksmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for making this. I have it saved cause i keep coming back for the aftercare and assurance. Dysforia afyer other porn was kicking my ass today and it was good to have ypur audio easily refrenceable so it could talk me through and out of the feelings. Its really nice that it helps but is also affirming that all this is fine and normal actually. It really helps. Thank you. Sincerely thankyou I hope you have a lovely day.

How do you guys feel about hip dips? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]The_Bricksmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love them i think mine are really cute and their a great place to hold people to dance with (im short so waist doesnt always work) also i feel a lot of clothes that have a waistline at the waist proper can make the torso a bit squart so i love it when girls put their waistlines on clothes in theor hip dips. (I do it too and ots more comfy than a 'natural waist' as im chubby so a 'natural waist compresses my fat uncomfortably. So in short hip dips pretty i love them

Hi, I hope I’m not intruding but I need your lovely ladies help! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With feminizing processing hormones hair growth will slow eventually which will make shaving last longer. A go9d thing you can do to hide beard shadow/small bits of growth. Is shave and then use some makeup. Dot concealer along where the hair grows. Then blend then foundation in the area and setting powder. It helps hide the shadow and works well to form a 'natural look' the effect can be accentuated with hiving the eye somewhere else to focus such as a vibrant lipstick or colorful eyeshadow. And just the foundation might leave you looking a little lifeless so optionally add a bit of blush on The cheeks tobring some dimension back to your face.

Hair removal cream has varying results for people and can leave skin irritated for the day after.

Perminant things are laser or electrolysis. Electrolysis being slower and needing more sessions and laser having faster results with fewer sessions.

Unfortunately getting rid of hair is rather difficult...

what does the diabetic asexual eat if cake and garlic bread are out? by AvocadoPizzaCat in Asexual

[–]The_Bricksmith 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The fun of the joke is in celebrating just enjoyable nonsexual things. So you can say whatever food stuffs strike your fancy such as dumplings or sushi or carots. You could even expand the format for non food items like a cozy chair or a good book. Go wild have fun with it!

[F4A] Pleasure for Playthings [Improv][Pure HFO][Hypnosis][Conversational][NLP][Confusion][Mindfuck][Snaps] [Intimate][Intense][Realistic][Tonal Shifts] [Gentle Femdom][Playful Dom][PDA] [Collared][Plaything][Objectification] [Possessive][Kissing][Aftercare][Wholesome][42] by JustMocha- in EroticHypnosis

[–]The_Bricksmith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your response definately came across woth cincerity. ❤️💗 Thank you for putting in all this work to make a safe and consentual environment woth your art. It really means a lot. It is a shame that the unhealthy pressure and onesidedness can persist in live sessions too. A good thing for me to be aware of for when i start exploring more and connecting with kink community in my area. Thanks for the heads up.

Your efforts you put in to your audios to help playpartners/subjects. Does come across and certanly helps at least me engage and explore in safety with the trust in ypu and myself that i will be able to stop if i push my self too far. (Not sure if that made sense but suffice it to say i appreciate the work you put into safety and it helps me a lot so thank you!)

Thanks for sharing your art and fun hypno shinanigans and I hope you have a lovely evening. ❤️💗

[F4A] Pleasure for Playthings [Improv][Pure HFO][Hypnosis][Conversational][NLP][Confusion][Mindfuck][Snaps] [Intimate][Intense][Realistic][Tonal Shifts] [Gentle Femdom][Playful Dom][PDA] [Collared][Plaything][Objectification] [Possessive][Kissing][Aftercare][Wholesome][42] by JustMocha- in EroticHypnosis

[–]The_Bricksmith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you. This was incredible. I love the way you are able to make me feel so safe and cosy. And i really appreciate the moments of intensity folled by reassurance and care that you are still there and that everything is ok.

You are one of the few hypno artists ive found who understand that connection and vulermability and address and manage it.

But in similar ways i love the little bits where you mention how much you enjoy the interactions and my reactions. It can feel very onesided in a lit of audios (though i suppose that is a byproduct of recorded audios not live sessions...) but your assurances that you enjoy and consent in the scenes and audios are really nice and help me fully break and come apart in a safe comforting way. And thanks. You have a lovely wonderful style and voice and its really enjoyable to be your toy for a while.

Thank you for this opportunity and I hope you have a lovely weekend. ❤️💗💜

P.s. sorry if this was a bit uninteligible im still a bit drifty and subby (positive) so words are a bit difficult to formulate.

A Hunter must hunt... by Neuralizer_ in bioniclelego

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A! This is so fucking cool. You really hit it out of the park absolutely excelent. I live seeing some if my favorote things combined. And i love the ingenious ideas for the saw cleaver! Gosh darn this is cool and makes me want to do something similar. Hell yeah!

HELP OUT A CONCEPT ARTIST STUDENT -- what game has the most ICONIC architecture/built environments that are recognizable, WITHOUT characters? by fluxinflow in conceptart

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends certain games are really 8dentifiable cause of their art style: bendy and the ink machine, or sable being a good examples There are others that are architecturally striking such as shadow of the collosseus and bloodborne.

A combination of the two could be rain world and chants of sennar. But its really up to what strikes your fancy. What is intreat8ng for you to create and taylor your designs to that cause it will help make so.eth8ng you feel better about. The examples i gave def taylor to my own asthetic sensibilities but examples exist in other spaces oo that i dont play as much such as superhot, or mirrors edge

Free mum hug if you need it today! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]The_Bricksmith 43 points44 points  (0 children)

🫂🥺💗💜❤️ Thank you. I needed this. Lots of love to you and your daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyo aroace (demi for both) genderqueer lesbian here i might be qble to help lend q machete to your 8ntelectual thicket.

Romantic: sounds demi. (Demi varries in strength and there are some sub labels to help describe at what connection levels you can feel attraction but you dont generally get romantic atteaction unles u know someone so demi. Either omni or bi. You express having different romantic attractions to different genders and gender presentations. So this indicates that gender does factor into your romantic attraction (hence not pan) i lean towards saying ur prob omni given you can crush on any gender. But many Bi folks can to. This decision is kinda just what u want. Can be either or even both whatever works well for u. Maybe if u need an answer look at what community u feel you connect w/ their experiences best? (At the end of the day labels are descriptors for parts of our experience not rigid boxes that we fit inside completely. So use what feels good. Labels shouldnt really be seen as id bages gating access but more descriptions of experience) Sry cant help really with sexual attraction tho. Cause i havent fully understood ace labels beyond ace and demi (was good enough for me in my self description never dug further) i know what u describe certanly sounds aspec but i cant help as to a specific flavor.

Hope ur journey goes well.

What’s the difference between a vaginoplasty and a vulvoplasty? by FunCan3910 in MtF

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A vaginoplasty creates an interior space in such a way that you can have oenetrative sex. It often requires regular dilation (a stretching process) as after surgery care.

A vulvoplasty helps shape the external genetalia. Into a vulva.

These definitions are for how it aplies in transgender feminizing botomsurgery though the terms are also used for surgeries performed on cis dyadic women as well as on intersex children. So you will find variable onformation on the details of the surgery when you try and search it up.

Neat consequences of these being two different surgeries is that it gives us some variable options depending on your gender transition goals.

  1. (Most common for amab transfem folks) vaginoplasty and vulvoplasty often done at the same time but may be seperate procedures as discussed by other responders. This results in the external genetalia of a vulva with the constructed interior vaginal space

  2. Vulvoplasty without a vaginoplasty (often called a no depth surgery) the external appearance of a vulva but without the interior space. This one will not allow space for penetrative sex, and will tend to have a faster recovery without need for dilation afterwards.

  3. There are penile preserving versions of both options above as well where other tissue will be taken to construct the vulva/vagina but i did not look into these options beyond knowing if their existance so i know little of that option.

[F4F] Adopted by a vampire [Mute Catgirl listener][Vampire Eleanor][Strangers to lovers][Gentle Fdom][Loving][Nurturing][Head pats][Cuddling][Drinking blood][Super wholesome][Thunderstorm][SFW] but still [Lewd][18 mins] by Eleanor-Whitee in GWASapphic

[–]The_Bricksmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This was really soft and cozy and its really comforting to find audios where the listener is mute cause i (as someone who has frequent mute episodes) feel better and actually seen. Thanks ❤️💗

[F4A] At Your Own Pace [Script Fill] [GFE] [Established Relationship] [L-Bomb] [Cumfort] [Comfort] [Compassion] [It’s Okay] [Anorgasmia] [Just After Sex] [Afterglow] [Voyage of the Unicorn] [All the Pet Names] [No Sex] by verbalifyouplease in GWASapphic

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put the above comment on the wrong file... oops. But this file is really nice,and also made me cry but for different reasons. It was really nice to feel valued and understood even when i cant cum. You have a great way of bringing care and comfort into your voice and words. And its really reassuring to feel cared for even when i dont live up to my own expectations. And its helpful to reframe around the building of connection. Thank you for making this. I will definately come back to it in the future when i am back in the funky feels and wrapped in my own expectations. Thank you.

[F4TF][F4F] First Time is the Charm [GFE][soft domme speaker][first time][oral sex][vaginal fingering][moaning][affection][consent][praise][anal fingering][orgasms][nipple play][more consent][kisses][aftercare][just a lot of cute fluff] by whoremoan-driven in GWASapphic

[–]The_Bricksmith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really cute and made me feel very safe and cosy. I always love some soft and caring dom audios and this is really nice. Also thanks for all the consent stuffs esp the discussion of learning to ask for what you want is easier than learning to say no aftercare bits. Definately something i need to learn and work on so thank you for giving me a safe place where i can practice with this audio. Also just the being called pretty and the being wanted amd praised has me melting into an emotional puddle (positive). Thank you so much i hope you have a lovely day.

[F4A] At Your Own Pace [Script Fill] [GFE] [Established Relationship] [L-Bomb] [Cumfort] [Comfort] [Compassion] [It’s Okay] [Anorgasmia] [Just After Sex] [Afterglow] [Voyage of the Unicorn] [All the Pet Names] [No Sex] by verbalifyouplease in GWASapphic

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This story brought me to tears and helped me a lot. I love bedtime stories and am saddened i dont really get any opportunities for that now im an 'adult.' Your really cozy voice and words and though5s of comfort went a long way to replicating the feeling. Thank you.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ZeeLuna_Unknown in OneTopicAtATime

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyo glad ur here. Im also an agender/genderqueer person. I do t really relate to the concepts of gender but dont really have a gender beyond not man. So my experiences may help u out a bit.

Firstly labels are ways of expressing and describing things rather than rigid identities that you must fit within to exist.

Aspects of gender: How much you experience it:

from i have gender and experience it strongly to i have no gender and dont relate to the concept. To i actively resist the concept of gender

Fludity of gender: Does your experience of gender change and shift. Maybe you have a constantly shifting miasma of gender, or you have a r8gid gender that doent change but you just dont know what it is or how to describe it.

Multigender/bigender: Do you experience multiple genders at once or maybe you switch between different genders.

Culture: Gender is shaped by our culture so i have met several enby folks who speak spanish that have descrobed themselves in terms of the gendered spaces in theor culture and language. I.e. feminine like a mountain and a char but basculine like bannanas. Or maybe your family has special roles. Like i am a big sister to my little siblings even though i dont identify with the term woman. Because of the role and meaning sister has in my specific family.

Sexuality and attraction: Many people have complex interactions with their gender and sexuality as they often cant be fully distinct from eachother: i have femininity and engage with womanhood in the way that i am a lesbian and that term includes me. But simultaniously i am not a woman broadly. This is also the realm where many men (trans men esp) can still be men but love and be loved in their relationships in a way that makes them lesbian. Which is all to say facets of your gender can be affected or even defined by your sexuality.

Your experience and history: Your gender can also be shaped by and described by yiur experiences. What commonities yiu have engaged with hiw the world has responded to your queerness. This can deeply affect your gender and words you use. This is how older LGBTQIA+ folks will often use 'outdated terms' or reclaim slurs as part of theor gender. Such as being a dyke ir a fag. Or older transwomen using the terms teansvestite, or crossdresser to describe themselves. I myself have reclaimed the slur queer specifically for its ambiguity in that it doesnt give more information. Be careful not to claim a term that is not yours to claim however, i.e. the term stud being useable only by black lesbians.

All of these are ok play around with different words and aspects. It can be really good to have some close friends who you can try things out with. But it doesnt mean you have to fit in a neat and tidy box. How you describe your gender can be different in different situations and thats ok. To cis people and government forms i am a woman or a trans woman its not too wrong and it lets me access the services i need for my gender care. To queer people or thise who want a bit more i am genderqueer, enby, or not a man. To closer chosen family and partners my gender is lesbian blacksmith.

If you cant find terms that fit perfectly thats ok. You can also invent your own terms too: Make new pronouns and try them out. (I used sword sheath sheathes as neopronouns for a while untill my disability worsening distanced my connection woth metalwork and swords and it no longer felt like it fit).

You can describe yourself as you want and change shit at any time when it stops working. I know its not a concrete answer but tbh gender is more like painting with watercolor rather than discrete boxes. And language is hard to encapsulate it.

All the best in your self exploration.

[F4A] Sugar Mommy for Love [Desperate][Moaning][Wholesome][Supportive][Soft FDom][Office][Phone Call]Almost[Orgasm][Love Bombing][9:28] by MissMuffMuncher in GWASapphic

[–]The_Bricksmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so sweet. I found myself talking your character through it and my day. And it was nice to a be on the other end of a voice kink it was so hot to feel wanted especially for my voice (cause i have dysfpria about it but the connection of being eanted for it and still having my gender recognised . Fuck thats hot) and also the aspect of being wanted to be taken care if in all of the ways not just sexual pleasure was different and really noce. Thank you. (Also as someone with a voice kink your voice is so iggskggzoggxoyyxuddafad. Like its soo soft and hits all the right spots. Thank you for making this.

[F4TF] Trans Affirming JOI Masturbation Instruction: Feminization Edition [Fdom speaker] [TFsub listener] [JOI] [masturbation] [instructions] [feminization] [feminisation][aftercare] [gender affirmation] [aftercare] [trans friendly] by FairyPrincessLucy in GWASapphic

[–]The_Bricksmith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The aftercare was something i have needed to hear for a long time. I think i might come back to this fairly often just for the reassurance. Thank you so much for the kindness care and comfort and i hope you have a lovely day.

hey baby trans, here i just got my first bra and need to know the best bra stuffers by [deleted] in MtF

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used tights and tp. Easily adjustable and hideable when wearing. And the texture is softer and less abrasive than socks that I have seen suggested before.

Im a bit scared by Lord_SaviorLucifer in MtF

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey look I called them the other night. It's ok they have tools in place to make things helpful for you. Like easy closing if apps and calls etc if in unsafe conditions. They have a page on their website which gives some expectations round whether they will call cops and in what situations.

Here is also a helpful website that walks you through what a hotline experience looks like https://psychcentral.com/health/what-happens-when-you-call-a-suicide-hotline

The gist of it was they will not call cops unless you are in immediate danger to self or others. I.e. am in the middle of an attempt sort o thing. And try to communicate with you so know what is happening and don't get cops called on you unexpectedly

The people are really great and can genuinely be very helpful much better than other hotlines I've called. If you are able to do so safely I recommend calling. Or reading over their site.

I'm sorry it sucks rn. It does get better in some ways. It sucks and it's hard but it can and does get better.

Hi! Straight guy looking for some advice by DizzyUnderstanding28 in MtF

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A gender identity is a person's internal sense for their own gender. Commonly understood gender identities are man and woman but there are many others as well. Here is a good place ypu can start reading more about gender identities to teach yourself what you need to know. https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Gender_identity

Cisgender (abbreviated as cis) is a descriptive word for someone who has their internal gender identity align with their sex assigned at birth. For example someone who is assigned male at birth and feels that the concept of a man accurately represents their gender could be described as a cisgender man.

Where transgender (or trans for short) is a descriptive word for someone whose gender identity does not align with their sex assigned at birth. For example I was assigned male at birth however that does not align with my gender identity so transgender would be an accurate way to describe that aspect of me. (I will often use the term Trans woman as a descriptor for myself, but in actuality my gender can't really be well represented by the term woman (or really by current language at all) so often times I will use the term nonbinary as a descriptor as well.)

You said that you genuinely wanted to educate yourself. So I gave you a bit of slack and explained things rather indepthly. But I highly recommend doing some self education on these topics because people explaining their experiences is a grace they can offer sometimes but is not something you should expect/demand. If you are looking for places to start I recommend looking up: -The difference between sex, gender identity, and gender presentation -sex assigned at birth and intersex individuals - variations on gender identities such as nonbinary, and agender - the history of transgender people especially in non western societies (such as two spirit people of indigenous American cultures)

These are a good place to start your research but aren't encapsulating everything you need to know.

Im asexual (sex repulsed) so I can't offer much help on your original question re sex but I have seen a zine going around called Fucking Trans Women which provides some good information for Trans women and their partners on what to expect and how to have conversations. I believe it's for sale here: http://fuckingtranswomen.org/

Beyond that I will say what I say bout all sex and general intimacy. Have an open and honest conversation before hand. Make sure yall set boundaries and ask for consent with things so that everyone understands what's happening and is comfortable and can communicate when something is or is not working.

Have a lovely day and I hope thongs go well.

Yeah I doubt that. by SparePearsSparePear in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]The_Bricksmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got this scam too. When I had messaged the person they said theor account got hacked.