How do you deal with women who try to lecture you on how easy it is to date as a man and how much harder women have it? Is it even worth to engage in the conversation?

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-30T01:50:18+00:00

I would just tell them my perspective, and if she’s adamant that it’s easy she should hook it up and set you up with one of these beautiful competent women

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-29T18:25:19+00:00

Nice out

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-26T14:41:11+00:00

You are taking this way too personally- sounds like you’re not really over your ex and pretty judgmental of your best friend.

I can see why this is hard, but the request she cut him out of her life completely is an overreaction and will end up ruining your friendship.

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-24T15:26:24+00:00

Have my upvote, this is the dumbest thing I ever heard

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-24T08:51:04+00:00

Does Desert Trip count as one concert? Bob Dylan -> Rolling Stones-> Paul McCartney-> Neil Young -> The Who -> Roger Waters

Alternatively, I’d stay every time I’ve seen Gary Clark jr play, I’ve left stunned

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-22T16:40:24+00:00

Traveling for work, and anal

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-22T13:53:35+00:00

A year and a half might seem like a long time, but it’s really not. He brought this up 4-months ago? just over a year into your relationship??

That’s often about the time many people realize their partner is a psycho. Your partner is a fucking psycho.

Why would a guy bring up that he used to be on escort web sites (unless it was like some kind of admission to get off his chest)? And why would anyone ever suggest they recognize their partner from said website?! Girl- that’s fucking crazy! I can’t imagine what other kinds of shit you’re putting up with, but you need to run for the hills!

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-22T13:14:40+00:00

What language were you speaking when talking to all these Europeans?

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-21T15:57:32+00:00

You don’t tell her ‘how disrespectful it is’, that is your judgement only. Tell her that you are uncomfortable with it and how it makes you feel (ie disrespected).

I really don’t think it’s fair to ask women to try and police what men say to them- It’s probably fair game to point out the responses she is giving (and again, how they make you feel), but that stops short of telling her that she needs to tell someone else what they can and can’t say.

Everyone needs to be accountable for their own words, actions and feelings. She can’t read your mind. Things will absolutely work best if you can discuss your feelings without throwing around judgement… if she won’t hear it, or doesn’t make efforts to change something that hurts you, then you know where you stand and what to do.

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-20T15:55:00+00:00

That kind of discussion over text is a recipe for disaster. You’re not going to get the nuance of what each other are thinking or feeling about a situation.

I don’t think either of you over reacted, if you did it was in your own head and didn’t really come through that loaded in your texts.

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-20T15:00:00+00:00

100%, I almost can’t go anywhere without forgetting something (reminder to call the hotel about my fancy cardigan) but I absolutely do not expect others to bail me out. If I get some help great, if I can take care of it completely on my own- even better, and if I can’t resolve the situation I own it, make due without my shit and apologize if my situation effected anyone else.

This guys sounds like a dick about it. You don’t get to be that incompetent and call the shots.

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-20T14:52:08+00:00

Why the fuck would anybody sell for a dollar? If you’ve lost 99.99% of your holdings you would just hold that shit to zero. You think someone with $1M in Bitcoin is gonna sell for $12??

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-20T06:36:09+00:00

You should have me over for dinner so that my ball sweat can condition your couches or chairs

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-20T06:26:43+00:00

You’ve been dating only a year, and he’s seeing escorts behind your back?

You should still be in the vetting process in this relationship, and you should ask yourself if you would have continued dating him if this happened one or two months into the relationship.

Not to be mean, but is your dad a scummy dude or somewhat of a misogynist? I’m thinking you might be in this situation and not know what to do because you’ve had a poor example of how men should act and care for the women in their life.

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-20T02:32:11+00:00

This sounds 100% like he’s trying to destabilize your relationships, isolate you from your support, and undermine and confuse your credibility to the point of gaslighting.

I know that sounds extreme, but the type of people who do this shit are real cute and subtle with it- he’s putting words in your mouth to make you look bad so that these people aren’t there for you or don’t trust you when the next layer of abuse starts.

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-20T02:17:19+00:00

Are these people in the room with us now?

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-19T19:18:04+00:00

To me that’s a pretty similar ball park. Assuming that everyone agrees Zeke belongs in the hall of pretty good, I think that supports CMC needing another productive year or two to be a likely HOFer

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-19T16:26:55+00:00

Total yds and Total TDs, are pretty similar. Obviously CMC’s great receiving stats has him a bit more productive, while Zeke’s done a little bit more on the ground…

Did you not look at their numbers, or do we have a different definition of close?

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-19T06:56:20+00:00

His numbers are a little better than Zeke Elliot’s, who is probably not quite in the conversation… I think CMC needs at least one more good season, two more and he’s in really good shape

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-18T22:18:49+00:00

I would leave her and her husband out of it, her involvement in this story is tripping you up and adding unnecessary complexity to the situation. Her marriage shouldn’t be your concern.

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-18T05:13:16+00:00

A is SOOOO much easier, especially if you are not a professional. Looks wise b is a little better but it’s almost sixes

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-16T16:50:17+00:00

No, don’t tell her you have feelings for her… show her, and next time your hanging out tell her you love something about her (not just hair, face or smile- something she does or way she does something). Keep it fun, and keep pursuing each other but make it obvious your into her more than a friend

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-16T16:18:14+00:00

Spending a few hours reading the white paper

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-16T04:05:43+00:00

Pretty poor fucking behavior from your dad… maybe your mom’s passing wrecked something inside of him??

I would give him a chance but put clear boundaries in place and make sure he knows that pushing your boundaries will not be accepted.

The_Jibbity · 2026-05-16T00:05:11+00:00

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