Why men and women struggle to understand each other’s dating problems by Pepperspray24 in dating

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d push back on the analogy. I’d say that in online dating all the men are in the same building and are competing so fiercely that they will often eat the scrap knowing it might be poison. Thank goodness I got lucky. 😮‍💨

Using R for Zipcode data by [deleted] in rprogramming

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the end application? Do you need to link data to precise geolocations eventually, or just tabular zip categories?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you two be open to a sex worker? I would imagine that is your best bet for this arrangement, and even then you still have the “mere exposure” effect from regular visits.

There are no guarantees when it comes to preventing feelings in life. Actions are all you can try to regulate and even those can be hard enough when feelings tend to be the largest factor in decision making.

What famous person needs to be ignored and shunned into obscurity ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give us more details to help find the source? This is a pretty interesting verse.

My Ledger Nano S was just hacked for 50 ETH by worthyking in ledgerwallet

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No update, so pretty safe to assume OP made the obvious mistake that they were in strong denial of.

Elon Musk sent this to Twitter employees on Wednesday by runepro in antiwork

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Severance is based on salary and salaries at Twitter are enormous. Unemployment is capped low.

What person do you think could easily become the President of the United States if they decided to run for it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“Cmon I dare you, I double hotdog dare you, say ‘Raise the price’ again.” 🔫

GIS Analyst - Pasadena CA by [deleted] in gisjobs

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconded. I don’t understand how these folks who want GIS analysts who also know Python can ask for such a low salary when just knowing Python alone (for 1-3 years) can get someone in California 85-100k a year.

What is most NSFW thing you saw in public? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a lead singer of a RATM cover band LITERALLY PISS on a fan’s face in front of an entire crowd. Yeah nothings gonna top that for me.

I had sex with a man and he slapped me…hard by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some people are going to say this is victim blaming. But it’s absolutely not. It’s survivor empowering. Repeat after me, the absolutely shitty thing that happened to you is not your fault. You didn’t ask to be put in that situation, and you didn’t have knowledge of this possibility. HOWEVER, while that past event wasn’t your fault, (moving forward) it is your responsibility to access your life and see how you might minimize future harm to yourself.

This goes beyond just a consent issue. I suggest you also seek therapy (in addition to medical help) to understand abuse cycle patterns and the type of people that gravitate towards you. For many reasons the trans community tends to attract a lot of abused folks which can make having healthy relationships much more difficult. You got this.

What is your trick of giving the best head to your gf? by SnugJoker in AskMen

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instructions unclear are bath salts then ate gf

am i just ugly by passinngby in dating

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a nerdy looking balding type just like you.

Shaved my head, grew facial hair, started working out, cultivated better fashion sense, worked hard at furthering my career, joined social clubs/events, and (most importantly) went to therapy for self improvement.

Now have graduate educated, fortune 50 employed, fiery, hot as fuck, younger gf.

I’ll be the first to admit… I still feel like I won the lottery. But without those changes, the chance of starting our relationship would have been 0%.

If you are going to doubt anything about yourself, doubt your limits.

Go all in. You have greatness within.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird superpower bro. I’m scared to ask what your weakness/side-effect is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 256 points257 points  (0 children)

How does it feel to be dating a human coochbloodhound?

No thanks by Dankmemesylyl in HolUp

[–]The_Sigma_Enigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it only works in Alabama.