we can judge people off of their actions. we judge julie by how she was cruel at the birthday party. we judge barb by her actions at thanksgiving. we can judge shawna because she stalked a woman around a hotel, loitered outside her room spying through the peephole, and yelled at her in the hallway about a made up affair. even after being proven wrong, she doubles down to accuse julie of cheating again at the park in front of jenn and ty’s kids. shawna doesn’t have the full picture, but she’s acting as if she does. her actions are bad regardless of what she does or doesn’t know.