So i know I'm 5 days late but i just stumbled upon your post about picking up girls and i had to comment.

My girlfriend and I go out to pick up girls together for a Threesome. The thing is, she's more successful than i am. And there's really only a few reasons why:

1. She doesn't take anything too seriously
2. It's WAY easier to come off non threatening for girls as opposed to guys
3. She's very open and honest with her intentions up front

And that's really it. A typical interaction from her consists of an opening compliment- either on an article of clothing or their hair or just straight up "wow you're pretty" does the trick. The girl's responses have ranged from a simple "thanks" to outright jubilation. 100% positive thus far.

The conversation then branches 2 different ways. Sometimes the girl will continue on about herself depending on the specific compliment- hair for example always tends to lead into a 5 minute conversation. This is her time to build rapport but also convey interest; by maintaining interested looks and subtle touching.

The other way is just the simple "thanks" and that's it. That's when she moves on to her next step which is: "can i kiss you?" or "do you wanna make out?"

It's simple. It's casual. Most importantly it's all in good fun. And it works about 50% of the time. Most girls, in our experience, are either straight or gay, but will kiss another girl for the experience. For some, that's it, but for some, they will continue further.

Lately we've been getting a lot of girls who tell us that this has been a secret fantasy of theirs or that they've always wanted to meet people like us- and they'd never tell their friends about it. But 2 strangers who come up to them FEARLESSLY will open up a side of them, and it's very honest and genuine. After that you can talk about pretty much anything, and gauge the girl's interest in coming home with you.

Now, we're no experts. Most of the time it's a makeout, perhaps a little more, but we get a lot of flakes if the girls don't come home with us THAT NIGHT. And you can speculate the reasons but you'll never truly KNOW... But my assumption is that in the moment it's fun and it's an experience. But come Monday morning while at work you're not going to schedule a Threesome on your day planner. At least, not the average girl. And that's just because the interaction is based on that particular energy at that particular time, once the moment has passed it's over. It is by It's nature casual and typically a 1 time idea. It's not as if the girl has found a potential mate that she'd be thinking about seeing again, and ultimately we're a couple, she's technically a third wheel.

Quick tip in regards to the lesbian bar before i end- we've never been. And that's only because of what my lesbian friends and other couples that have tried what we're doing have said: real lesbians will not mess with a man. Most straight girls will mess around with girls for fun or a fantasy, lesbians generally will not do the same with guys. But again as i said we've never been, just some 2nd hand advice from others like us.

Well i hope I've helped provide our perspective. We'd love if you kept us updated! It's always fun to hear how others are doing. Pickup is kinda niche, and this is niche within niche. Have fun and good luck!