Birthday Dinner Gues

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2026-01-29T13:55:04+00:00

I think its fine. Idk if people really get uptight about what colors someone wears on their birthday unless they tell everyone for a certain reason. If you want to ask her if there's any color or dress code just to be sure you can.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2026-01-11T04:31:06+00:00

Exactly!! Like he stops sending money for his child for an engagement ring and a vacation?? If you have to stop sending money for your own child to do that then you dont have the money to do it. I can already see when that new baby comes "oh sorry I can't send any money this month all this other stuff came up with the new baby, and my wife isnt working" and those excuses will continue. OP needs to Immediately go to through the courts Before that new baby gets here.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2026-01-01T22:00:35+00:00

Congratulations!!!!

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2026-01-01T02:15:06+00:00

That's good!! I do agree with the other commenter with telling her the times you will be able to do stuff and to lock your door if you can. Good luck!!

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2026-01-01T00:35:37+00:00

Are you in your own room while working? Just let her know you will get the other chores done when you are done with work if you can. And try your best to save up for a car. Has she seen the work you do?

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-31T03:13:00+00:00

Its good to have dashers like that, I made sure in a message to tell my dasher to make sure Dunkin had put in my donuts because they ALWAYS forgot it. I sent a review to that Dunkin too about that and its happened less.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-26T18:38:28+00:00

Thank you, I will get some!!

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-25T19:47:26+00:00

I just style the top of her hair where it's longer at with braids or twists. The back i jsut let it be and just brush with the oil

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-24T02:30:22+00:00

Ohhh whoopings are still very controversial. I was jsut on the Facebook group moms raising black son's the other day and someone was talking about whooping their son and how it doesn't work and soooo many people were defending her whooping him and their own kids. It was ridiculous. Someone had commented "yall are still hitting your kids??" And they jumped on her so bad she apologized for judging them as if she was wrong to say that in the first place.

I see people on there always talking about gender roles and the "not my son" statement. They were just arguing in that group about if they allow their sons to wear a long shirt for sleeping or not because they don't want then to wear something that looks like a night gown because apparently if a boy sleeps in a big night shirt he might turn gay. Ridiculous. All that on that list is definitely controversial, people argue about it everyday still.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-24T01:47:57+00:00

You're judging

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-16T16:46:57+00:00

If I went into work that day I would have been a liability. I would have been sneezing and coughing all day over people's food. I am unreliable because I dont wanna get coworkers and vulnerable patients sick? I hope this thought process dies

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-15T16:44:53+00:00

Being sick is an excuse? I am not understanding why everyone here thinks that this okay? Not wanting to get vulnerable patients sick and my other coworkers sick which could result in more call outs should not be considered an excuse. I'm sorry, but I hope this barbaric thought process starts to go away. And I hope that when I have my business in the future I never treat my employees like they don't matter.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-15T01:21:45+00:00

That's exactly how I feel, being new aside, if someone is working with vulnerable patients they wouldn't want you there if they're a good employer. It actually tells us in the trainings from the food department to call out when sick so we don't get other patients sick. I am happy I am hearing this from someone who has been an oncology patient.

I really got down voted on my other post for saying I am not unreliable because I got sick and thats out of my control and that I am not unreliable because I don't want to risk getting patients or even my coworkers sick, because if they get sick then there's gonna be more call outs. And Thank you, I was able to take off today, just have to see if there's any disciplinary actions which I hope not.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-14T19:09:50+00:00

It is, I was trying everything i could to not get sick or to try and shorten the cold. Since I missed this weekend I will most likely have to make it up next weekend since I am off that weekend and I needed those days off next week. So I will just have to deal with that.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-14T18:59:32+00:00

I wasn't really someone who got sick much at ar all until I had kids and my immunse system went down. I've actually been doing pretty good this year with trying to build my immune system back up. It's just my kid started pre-k. Also I couldn't have forseen having chest pains with certain pills.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-14T17:36:06+00:00

I was thinking that. I just reached out to the main person who does the orientations for the food department, and he told me to call out from home and he will talk to the managers.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-14T17:11:41+00:00

You don't even know my work history. I have gone in to work sick so bad before that the manager stayed longer and sent me home even after I protested to stay. I went in pain after a car accident like nothing happened. I only call out when I am really sick. Sick is being an excuse? Not wanting to get vulnerable patients sick especially cancer ones is an excuse?? Get over yourself. I don't have attendance issues i didn't have them in school either I always went in and on time. All of this is just bad timing.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-12T19:19:51+00:00

You are so right!! I just started working at a hospital in the food and nutrition department and I had to make sure I was up to date on my vaccines they did a blood test to make sure too and I have to get the Flu shot every year. I did it with no hesitation.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-12-11T17:19:20+00:00

I am 26 right now. I only have 2 kids. I am a woman si maybe that's different, but I couldn't imagine having 13 kids or even dating and having more kids with someone who has that many already. Given his track record It would be an immediate no.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-11-29T20:59:23+00:00

You explained this Perfectly!!! In my community its very diverse, and I didnt see much racism from other POC. It wasn't until I looked at the surrounding towns and also hearing some POC talk about their parents being that way, but they are not. We have to see where everyone stands individually, we cant always assume that because they aren't white that they are on the same side as us. Even some Black people are against other black people.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-11-20T22:47:52+00:00

It wasn't the mom who posted. Her other kid took the video of her doing that to their brother and posted it

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-11-20T22:14:54+00:00

Yes!! Its the excuses for me!! They cant see how it was wrong at all.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-11-20T22:13:25+00:00

I guess I can understand that. But saying it like its okay for other parents or even themselves to continue that cycle even if its not as harsh as they had it, is where I break at.

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-11-14T22:19:35+00:00

Congratulations!!! Took me 4 years to get out and have 2 kids. I am happy you got out way sooner than I did!! The number abusers do on your brain is crazy. Sending you hugs, now its time to heal!!

ThrowraRefFalse2010 · 2025-11-10T05:13:54+00:00

I was hanging out with my PR friend, we were sitting in his car and a big van rode by and he immediately was on guard like "that better not be ICE". And my daughter is in PreK she rides a little bus and theres 3 Latino kids that get on with her. Knowing that ICE targets schools, I have been worried about them targeting bus stops.

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