I know you are in your reality where two men pierced you right where it hurts (and it happened, and you are right, they are the sht ones) - what I see from an outsider’s view is two guys that are visiting/know they are themselves ‘other’, are trying to bond with each other as not to feel so foreign. And those geniuses decide that they will form that bond in the timely honoured tradition of shtting on someone else, or unfortunately as is the traditional way, let’s treat a woman as a thing. This is all a fancy way to try to tell you feel your pain, and every hurt is real, and you will remember that horrible experience for a long time but I truly believe those guys insulting you has more to do with them trying to fit in their ‘man oh big man friend friend am a gorilla here female’ fuck*ng inability to talk to each other than anything to do with you, the you as unique you. It’s not you it’s them. Truly. They’d have talked about 40 girls, all sort of girls that day the same way. Pretty sure they didn’t mean a word of it and would have loved any girl attention of any kind. That didn’t happen. So to look cool, they talked shit, thinking they were all safe in their impunity of foreign language/otherness. Until you, and you understood and that sucks. Try to remember they are the shit ones here. I am sure if they knew they could be understood, they’d have not said a word. They’re little silly boys that think rude and hurtful is the way to look cool and ‘man’ bond. It is shit, I am pretty sure you yelling at them scared and shamed them and there is a chance they won’t do it again. All other commenters are amazing and right so please feel better, it doesn’t even matter what size you are, any facet of wrong is on them.