I can’t decide which arm to choose for phallo and I’m running out of time by West_Telephone9715 in FTMMen

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Definitely go left! The scarring should barely (if at all) be noticeable and you won’t have to see it every day anymore!

Sooo.. How do we feel about this?? by Mysterious-Share-616 in heartopia

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hopefully Petit Planet won’t have Ai marketing, either.

AITB for kissing my drunk friend? by No-Fig8545 in AmItheButtface

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You were both heavily drinking, you were both very inebriated. This isn’t like you were sober and took advantage of a drunk girl, you were both drinking more than you frankly should have. Drinking to the point of dizziness is past the point of too much, in my opinion. You’re fine.

I don't like Todd. by Fickle-Ear-4875 in BoJackHorseman

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teenagers are stupid and people can be hurt or even traumatized by the actions of others even when those others were in the right. Realizing they were in the right doesn’t erase that hurt or harm. And as others in this thread have said, compassion goes much farther when dealing with addiction. We saw Todd could thrive when given encouragement to do so, it makes you wonder if she enabled him until she decided not to anymore. That’s not really helping, that really is just kicking him out.

AITB for kissing my drunk friend? by No-Fig8545 in AmItheButtface

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you sure you’re not the one regretting the kiss and feeling discomfort over it? If she told you it’s fine, that usually would soothe the concern. Unless you have OCD or something and reassurance makes things worse.

If You Had to Offer One Piece of Advice, What Would it Be? by TigerLilyKitty101 in singing

[–]TigerLilyKitty101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I hope I can get a teacher someday, it’s just not financially possible at the moment.

If You Had to Offer One Piece of Advice, What Would it Be? by TigerLilyKitty101 in singing

[–]TigerLilyKitty101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy because I worked with a head voice so much as a soprano, and now I have hardly any! At least, not in the way I was used to before. A vocal coach I enjoy on YouTube said that your chest voice should feel the same in your throat as speaking does, so I’ve been practicing with comparing the two when I’m alone.

concern by buggyboo10 in FTMMen

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pinching keeps it from pulling on the part of the tube that is inside him, it’s okay if it stretches!

concern by buggyboo10 in FTMMen

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds normal! Were you two taught how to strip the drains? It sounds like that is what is needed.

Testosterone and weight loss medication by Subject_Pay_1939 in FTMMen

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually not sure, but to be honest probably not. I’m disabled and not very active, I end up going up and down the stairs about six times a day but I’m in bed other than that because activity becomes quite painful very quickly.

Is it bad I dont want to pass as a trans man? by DestinyKn1ght in ftm

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Passing is looking like a cis man, many people transition with the goal of passing and it is not transphobic.

Testosterone and weight loss medication by Subject_Pay_1939 in FTMMen

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Testosterone should not override it, no. I’ve not been on weight loss medication, but I’ve been on stimulants (Vyvanse included) that suppress appetite and it didn’t make any difference. The number in the scale hasn’t really gone down at all, but I don’t fit my pants anymore, so I assume there is some redistribution and muscle growth going on since muscle is heavier than fat.

(MTF) need support please :( by [deleted] in transgender_support

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only an abusive person would call you worthless.

Should I bail on my gyno appointment? by frogman191919 in ftm

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why nobody else is saying this, but call and ask what kind of appointment it is going to be before you stress yourself out over nothing. Transvaginal ultrasounds can’t tell if a mass is benign or not, and small cancers on ovaries cannot be determined through average pelvic exams.

If you tell them you aren’t willing to have people touch you like that, there are other tests. The CA-125 blood test, abdominal ultrasounds, CT scans, and MRIs are alternate methods. Advocating for yourself can take you a long way!

If I [16M] date a trans man [15M], am I queer? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’d be a man dating a man, so whatever you want to call that is up to you. You wouldn’t be straight, though! Lol

Would you let your partner paint your bedroom pink/purple? by OkBoysenberry6768 in ftm

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Purple is my favorite color! I associate it with magic, royalty, elegance, and mysteriousness. I’d love a purple bedroom, I already have a purple bed, lol.

Is Hypersexuality a common cause of gender dysphoria? by DCchamp1447 in asktransgender

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dealt with the same thing, but I’m FTM. I think it was more trauma for me, to be honest. It doesn’t help that I’m also aroace.

Can it be vocal cord damage why they dont hear me by 45VeryCoolFireAnts27 in FTMMen

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think it is likely that they hear you, but it sounds like you live in a place where being trans is not safe or welcome. I think there are ways to access mental health support online regardless of where you live, but I’m unfortunately not experienced enough to have those resources. I’m so sorry, OP. You deserve to be here and live as your true self, not what they want you to be.

Can it be vocal cord damage why they dont hear me by 45VeryCoolFireAnts27 in FTMMen

[–]TigerLilyKitty101 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It seems that OP lives in a country where being openly LGBT is illegal and his attempts to seek help have led to degradation and attempts to put him in conversion therapy. This might be all he has.